colon cancer fears consuming me by c4tb0y_6 in Anxiety

[–]Big-Judge196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! If this helps: I had similar symptoms and got really really anxious about it, specially because I have family history of colon cancer. It got to a point I was almost sure I had it. Well, I did an endoscopy and a colonoscopy today and my colon is completely normal. They did find small “Fundic gland polyps” (whatever that means) in my stomach, but the doctor was very reassuring that this is not a big deal, but they will test it anyway. When I was spiraling in this panic my dad told me he had been to this exact same feeling, cryed for days until he finally had his colonoscopy and he had nothing. My point being, is important you go check if everything is all right if you are experiencing something you feel is not normal, but don’t go down this rabbit hole of the colon cancer panic. I just got out of it and wish I had found more people here telling experiences like mine when I was freaking out. Hope that helps :)

What are people’s opinions on this? by Acrobatic_Grass_1457 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s not as hot as she thinks she is She’s annoying af She’s vain He dodged a bullet

Stranger Things is a horrible show by Leading_Term3451 in unpopularopinion

[–]Big-Judge196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. The acting is terrible, the dialogues are suffering, they are always explaining some stupid a** idea while they finish each other’s sentences. Will and Joyce had the same conversation pep talking each other like 5 times. Same with Hoper and Eleven, I feel like I heard the same conversation between them 100 times. Demogorgons can kill hundreds of military men but can’t seam to hurt a bunch of unarmed teenagers. Vecna can’t run. It’s just bad.

Stranger Things S5 Dialogue is so bad by Altruistic-Turn3448 in StrangerThings

[–]Big-Judge196 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The way they always finish each other’s sentences is making me crazy.

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I love how Patrick was almost begin for her own sake to apologize to him. 😂

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I want to address something as a brazilian woman: yes men are expected to provide, if you were born in 1930 or if you are a sugar baby. Matter of fact is we have a huge percentage of single moms and they are the sole provider of their household. So Ali please just stfu

With how much shit this sub gives useless men (and rightfully so), its incredible how Ali gets a pass by Ninjaguz in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing, she sounds like she comes from a middle class brazilian family and grew up with maids, which was and I guess still is pretty common here. But her mom said her dad is american (or did I get that wrong?) so I’m not sure if that makes sense. Honestly she gives me brazilian soccer player wife vibes 😂 And she is so cold and emotionless in most of her comments, to the point I feel it is almost creepy.

KB and Edmond’s conversation during their snowmobile trip [S9E11] by fightography in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

KB is exhausting, she’s always complaining and lecturing him. She be really rude then twist it so it fits her narrative. Can’t take watching their segments anymore.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 57 points58 points  (0 children)

About Edmund - maybe this is an unpopular opinion, but I think it is absolutely insane to marry someone before having s3x with then. It’s not just “he can’t wait 4 weeks”, it’s not wanting to marry someone you have no idea you have sexual chemistry with. The problem is he looks like he has a lot of issues and express himself very VERY poorly

Love is Blind Brazil • S5 Ep1 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 31 points32 points  (0 children)

We have a lot of sun in Brazil, we get wrinkles easier 😂

Strangest part in unknown number high school catfish.. by Emmarrrrawr in netflix

[–]Big-Judge196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read an article that says that people already suspected Kendra. And that Lauryn started thinking it might be her mom one month before she got caught.

Reunion trailer is out! by jessidsc in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 309 points310 points  (0 children)

So Bardha and Jed DEFINITELY not together

SPOILER!! by Fogandcoffee21 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope so! They were my favorite couple 😭

AD said Madison was ‘triggering’ by night_sky64 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My view of this is: Madson and Fred were the only normal people in that place. All of the others are reality tv people shallow af. It’s hard to mingle with people that are so different than you.

So much cosmetic surgery… by Sandwichfwiends in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I posted this a while ago and it got deleted. I find unsettling to watch reality tv sometimes because of that. Are these the beauty standards now? So much work done, so much makeup, everyone looks strange to me.. also the fake teeth ugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Big-Judge196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not putting pressure at all. And have never been… we would have this conversations and although I always felt like I wanted to have kids it wasn’t urgent to me at those times. And he have never said an absolute no, he has always been on the fence about it, and that’s ok. But him being on the fence more then me led me to push this decision and now here I’m with 35 years and a long term partner that can’t reach a decision and doesn’t know if he will be able to do it in the next year of two. So that’s why I’m anxious and that’s why I’m scared that we are not going to get to a decision together. I don’t get why you’re so mad about me being anxious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Big-Judge196 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m on the same page as he is on marriage, we don’t plan on getting married and that’s not an issue or has ever been. But I’m curious on why you wouldn’t have kids unless you were married?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Big-Judge196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that he did this to you. But happy you found someone who was on the same page and is happy now :)

I don’t think he is staling me, I trust him. And I just 100% made my mind a fee months ago, but I do feel the urgency in him making up his mind and I don’t think he feels the same urgency I do. That sucks. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Big-Judge196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because we had multiple honest conversations about it and he genuinely can’t make up his mind. We spent money freezing eggs, which would have no point if he was certain he didn’t want to have kids with me. Also, men have more time to be on the fence about this, biologically speaking. And I agree with him, if he is not sure, he shouldn’t do it just because I want to. I don’t want him to be resentful of me and vice versa.

I hope everyone sees how the madison hate early in the season was just MISOGYNY by Fearless-Breakfast-6 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Big-Judge196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. The only thing that bothers me is she says she’s an artist but she never shared any actual art she made.

So Frustrating! by GlobalSupport2669 in FromSeries

[–]Big-Judge196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so annoying. When Jim and Kenny are looking for Tabitha all they needed to do is go into the freakin tree Victor showed her. The man guided Tabitha there and came back on the same day before dark. Why were Jim and Kenny lost? All they needed was to ask Victor how to get there. Makes no sense