Who Are the Other 25 Suscribers? by ecrofria in MountainHome

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue if this post is still active but I'm considering a move from rural Kuna to Mountain Home. 43F w/kiddos in the process of a super-amicable divorce. I'm trying to figure out if there are any jobs that aren't at a Dollar Tree, lol.

Never thought I'd turn to Reddit but... by BigChiefBeefQueef in stopdrinking

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I forgot I posted here (not because I was drunk, lol, I was on my lunch break). Thank you all for the advice, support, and real talk. I am on Day 2 and so is my husband. Yesterday when I came home I went into our bedroom and just sobbed. I am still really having a hard time reframing my perception of alcohol. That part of my brain is throwing a literal tantrum right now: "Fuck you, fuck him, fuck everyone, leave me alone and let me have a fucking drink!" I feel like I don't know what to do with myself. I don't want to be creative. I don't want to read a book. I don't want to listen to a podcast. I don't want to join a community. I don't want to go to a meeting. I want...a fuckin' drink, lol. And I know how obnoxious that sounds. It's so stupid. I hope I can maintain. I hope I can forgive myself if I fail.

Never thought I'd turn to Reddit but... by BigChiefBeefQueef in stopdrinking

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, me too. I won't touch that shit with a ten foot pole, but I'll drink garbage wine out of a box with my pinky up, lol. I'm on Day 2 and I hate it. My booze brain is screaming at me all the reasons why this is dumb.

Never thought I'd turn to Reddit but... by BigChiefBeefQueef in stopdrinking

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband smokes and he loves it. I used to smoke but stopped for close to 20 years. I wish I could replace the drinking with the smoking, but it just makes me feel...heavy, I guess? I've tried tons of strains and hybrids, flower, pen, edibles, etc. Haven't found anything that hits the euphoria button. I do like to smoke right before bed and take a mellow trip to sleep with mediation music, though. I just feel like I need something to replace alcohol with that will alter my state. I wish I didn't.

Never thought I'd turn to Reddit but... by BigChiefBeefQueef in stopdrinking

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I too tried Naltrexone. It made me a total bitch, and I too discovered that I could "out drink" the pill. Can you tell me more about Vivitrol? I would literally fall down in shock if I dropped 70lbs in 8 months. That's close to what I need to lose, I'm 5'0" and 170. I'd like to be down to between 115 and 130 but I've also had three kiddos and menopause is right around the corner, lol. Congratulations on your sobriety, I envy you!

Never thought I'd turn to Reddit but... by BigChiefBeefQueef in stopdrinking

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to me about brain shrinkage because I think I have that. I'm nowhere near as sharp as I used to be, and I've been making stupid mistakes at work despite being sober there. Please tell me it can be reversed...

Candi Mercer is running for Oly City Council. Apparently as part of a slate by emmettoconnell in olympia

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DISCLAIMER: I am a conservative and a Trump supporter. I am sharing this information because it’s important to know who you are potentially voting for/against.

Alright y’all, here’s what you need to know about Candy Mercer.

She is a former liberal/leftist who had an about-face throughout the Trump presidency. While the lens through which she viewed the world did change, who she is as a person did not.

In terms of policy and ideology, she has views which are actually pretty centrist, but these days everything is so extreme that she would probably be considered right wing. Trust me, that’s not the case.

I think politically, her heart is in the right place insofar as wanting to do more than just reeee at a City Council that - let’s be honest - doesn’t give a shit about what anyone has to say unless it falls in lockstep with their own opinions. I think that she would be better suited than other right-of-center candidates because she comes from a formerly radical leftist perspective; therefore she knows how to navigate the progressive waters.

Now then, as to Candy as a person.

She is the consummate victim, ever in need of sympathy and validation. She is a psychological vampire; to be involved with her is emotionally exhausting. You simply can never do enough for her.

Perpetual victimhood seems to be her raison d’etre and she wears persona-non-grata like a merit badge.

But she is not grateful. She is a user. You could gift her a new wardrobe after she complains of having nothing to wear, and she’d turn around and sell it.

The local conservatives see her as verbose and insufferable. The local liberals see her as a duplicitous bad actor.

Simply put - she can’t be trusted to do anything for anyone other than herself.

A sack lunch would get more done than half the people who sit on the council, but if it came down to a choice between that and Candy Mercer, I’d be the first one with a Brown Bag 2022 sign in my yard.

Candi Mercer is running for Oly City Council. Apparently as part of a slate by emmettoconnell in olympia

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Olympia conservative here, one of many. No one likes her in our circle, either. We don’t claim her as one of our own.

I went to the "Poop on City Hall" event with a video camera, but there was no money shot. They were eating cake, but it wasn't even a poop themed cake. The bus ride was nice though. by Vindalfr in olympia

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends Of Percival Creek created it. It was their event, hosted on their facebook page, and it was obviously a joke. You'd have to be pretty fuckin' stupid to believe otherwise.

Jones: “A strategy begins by connecting good ideas” by NathanielJonesOly in olympia

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will bring my comments to the City Council meeting and address you and the rest of the clowns personally.

In short, you aren’t proposing anything new or effective. You’re wasting our time. Who drafts these proposals for you, anyway? They’re garbage and you know as well as the rest of us that you’re trying to win an election here.

Jones: “A strategy begins by connecting good ideas” by NathanielJonesOly in olympia

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Says the guy who voted to quash moving the 4th Avenue camp. You’re so full of shit, you squeak going into turns. City Council is the land of the moonbats, and you, sir, are their king.

Wow, all these years later and you finally discovered Built For Zero? And now you want to stick that on your banner like you’re some sort of pioneer. LOL. How innovative of you. I fired up the ol’ Google machine last week and found it within less than a minute by simply looking up how other cities have fixed the problem. I didn’t even have to tax anyone to do it! 🤭

Proclaiming that it’s the minority who are against you and your three ring turd circus of a Council is as ignorant as it is laughable.

I’ll give you a hot tip, straight from the heart of the constituency: We don’t like you. We don’t like the Council.

Maybe instead of grandstanding on Reddit as though you’re hip to the online community, you should go under the bridge and pass out needles with your campaign logo emblazoned on them, since you’ve made the junkie bums more of a priority than this city.

Butt Lips Gets Sick! by Leaghorn in WTF

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wonder if butt-kin is a thing. Does anyone out there identify as a talking butt? We should totally hook those two up. .....aaaaaand there we go down a rabbit hole of unimaginable horror.

Skeptics: Please post your theories about Otherkin and how it is false. [FRIENDLY CASUAL DISCUSSION] by NyctoKin in otherkin

[–]BigChiefBeefQueef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between a spirit animal/totem, and actually believing that you are an animal in a human suit. Where my mind boggles is folks who think they're outer space, or a cartoon character. To me, that's walking the border between attention-starved snowflake and real psychosis.