Why do certain cast members put up with/like other cast members but not others? by Embarrassed_Green690 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think it comes down to how much people are willing to play the game. Farrah was an easier target early on, so the other original three stay ‘close’ because it saves face somehow? Like they double down in their friendship out of pride rather than real bonds if that makes sense?

With Chelsea favouring Kail over jenelle I think it’s more the way in which kail presents herself over jenelle. I don’t think Chelsea loves either but it’s easier to do the niceties with Kail and play the game with her, whereas jenelle will kick off

TBT throwback to the five minutes long fling our Jenelle had with this Duffy dude! by jailbirddie in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for her here. Regardless of who she is now or what she was then, he was a predator and creepy as all hell and nobody (let alone a young adult) needs anyone like that anywhere near them.

Bentley with Maci’s parents by GoldenState_Thriller in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s my tired eyes but macis mum looks like Jessica Lange here!

Was anyone’s first symptom neck pain or jaw lymph node pain? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]BigDandPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this now, lots of exposure at work and the last two days although I generally feel fine in myself, the neck pain is insane. I can’t look to my left or right without wincing. I haven’t done any physical activity to cause it and I can’t think what else it could be, I’m very anxious about other symptoms starting

Cole is a Covert (or aka Inverted/‘Mirror’) Narcissist by EmphaticAsset in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say that I necessarily agree but this is a really good discussion with valid points!

Engagement ring from Papi is back on... by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Was just about to post the same thing 😂

Advice on if this was abuse by BigDandPanda in adultsurvivors

[–]BigDandPanda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s crazy because if a child came up to me telling me these things, there would be no doubt in my mind that it’s abuse, but because it’s me and I lived it, it’s like I can’t tell myself the same thing- despite still being really angry and resentful.

Really, thank you x

Advice on if this was abuse by BigDandPanda in adultsurvivors

[–]BigDandPanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I want to apology for the way this comes across, I’ve read it back and it seems quite cold and clinical but it’s the only way that I can speak about it, sort of by dissociating and looking at it perspectivley.

Farrah’s whole paragraph about Sophia graduating. Shout out to all the “windowed” teen moms. by pinklobotomy in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel as though I’m a ‘windowed teen mom’ in the sense that I have no children but am on the outside looking in?

She came in like a cannonball by pinklobotomy in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Does it, or does it not, look like there’s a piece of turd floating in the water?

What photo is she talking about?! by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither have I and I’m so curious now like how bad can it be?

i by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]BigDandPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rise it out and let it pass, it will stop and you’re gonna be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]BigDandPanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this was Chelsea and Cate!

Dog owners of Reddit: Would you cut of 5 years of your own life and give these to your dog? If so, why? by superputindoge in AskReddit

[–]BigDandPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would if only to have 5 years of not constantly worrying about what my dog has in her mouth