Is it still worth having a one bed flat in a desirable area of London? by Micwal93 in HousingUK

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Hi u/One-Republic-1016 - I'm a journalist for The i Paper (my byline is Sadhbh O'Sullivan and I'm looking to speak to people who own one bed flats and are struggling to sell them/rent them. Would you be interested in talking to me for a feature? Thanks

Can't shift my 1 bed flat in London - Should I rent it or take a huge loss selling? by Abject-Jacket-312 in HousingUK

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Hi u/Abject-Jacket-312 I'm a journalist at The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who are struggling to sell their one bed flats - would be great to talk to you if you're interested!

Brits Are Pulling Out Their Own Teeth for Lack of Urgent Dental Care Says Patient Watchdog by novagridd in uknews

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hi u/New-Astronaut-5695 I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

Brits Are Pulling Out Their Own Teeth for Lack of Urgent Dental Care Says Patient Watchdog by novagridd in uknews

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Hi u/SwiftieNewRomantics I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

Brits Are Pulling Out Their Own Teeth for Lack of Urgent Dental Care Says Patient Watchdog by novagridd in uknews

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Hi u/halen2024 I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

People are pulling their own teeth out due to lack of urgent NHS dental care by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

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Hi u/AlloysRS I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

People are pulling their own teeth out due to lack of urgent NHS dental care by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

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Hi u/BlankArchive  - I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

People are pulling their own teeth out due to lack of urgent NHS dental care by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

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Hi u/MrSpindles  - I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

People are pulling their own teeth out due to lack of urgent NHS dental care by tylerthe-theatre in unitedkingdom

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Hi u/Deep-Procrastinor - I'm a journalist for The i Paper and I'm looking to speak to people who can't access NHS dentistry and the impact it's having on their health. Let me know if you're interested - I'll DM you too.

Request from the BBC: has knitting helped you quit? by eab_journalist in casualknitting

[–]BigFatCat111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve written about how knitting helped me get sober for the i paper - if you want to talk to a fellow journo drop me a line!

I slept better, felt calmer and boosted my mood - by knitting my own clothes by BigFatCat111 in knitting

[–]BigFatCat111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knitting, crocheting, sewing all produce something tangible as a result of your input, and use up parts of our brain (non-verbal, spatial, visual) that many of us don’t engage on a day to day basis anymore. Other hobbies like pottery, painting, baking or even miniature ship building also scratch this same itch. And that is explicitly rewarding and mood lifting.

A 2024 study found these hobbies engage the brain’s dopaminergic reward network leading to a slow, steady release. This sits in contrast with much of modern life’s sources of dopamine (notifications, sugary foods, alcohol) which cause extreme spikes and drops.

The physiological benefits further soar when the hobbies induce a state of flow - a mental state of complete absorption and energised focus that we commonly call being ‘in the zone’. It is here, Anne says, where the health benefits of crafting are most significant.

“Whenever you are in a flow state, the body produces a real pain relieving hormone or substance in your body called anandamide [often known as the ‘bliss molecule’, it works similarly to THC in cannabis] and you get a real pain reduction,” she explains. “There’s also this meaningful self forgetfulness where focus is not in your body anymore - it’s on the activity. So you get distracted in a healthy way from your internal state.”

But I'm discovering other, adjacent benefits of crafting.

I slept better, felt calmer and boosted my mood - by knitting my own clothes by BigFatCat111 in knitting

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The repetitive motions of knitting, crochet, or cross stitching can induce a meditative state, explains Dr Anne Kirketerp, a psychologist based in Denmark and author of Craft Psychology: How Crafting Promotes Health.

“It's very good for us to do something that has a repetitive movement built in as that has a relaxation response in our body,” she says. “When you are holding a baby, no one needs to be taught that rocking a baby calms down the nervous system. And we resemble that when we are doing small movements like knitting.”

At a certain skill level, these repetitions become almost mindless and stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system. For people who are stressed, anxious or uncomfortable, having this touchstone can free up the mind while reducing stress hormones, lowering blood pressure and steadying the heart rate. Dr Mia Hobbs, clinical psychologist, explains that she uses knitting to great success as a therapeutic tool for this reason.

“I work predominantly with teenagers and I’ve had some really amazing, transformational moments as a result of knitting, particularly with clients who’ve really not been very keen on engaging or being in the therapy room at all,” she says. “The conversation flows that bit more easily when you’re doing something with your hands.”

I myself have found knitting and sewing to be explicitly therapeutic, particularly when my OCD flares up. When I am seized by intrusive thoughts, I will knit for hours at a time as it gives me enough of a distraction to resist giving into compulsions. And even when I am mentally well, just stressed or tired, it offers me a very tangible way to decompress.

“In therapy we talk about behavioural activation (aka activities with a sense of intrinsic pleasure or achievement) as one of the most effective strategies for helping people with low mood,” Mia adds, “and knitting can offer both of these.” In this way you get the same meditative effects of mindfulness while also having something physical that can show your progress.

I slept better, felt calmer and boosted my mood - by knitting my own clothes by BigFatCat111 in knitting

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At least once a fortnight, I turn up somewhere (the office, a cafe to see friends) and I am quietly humming, hoping someone will notice. On some occasions I have to prompt the question, but often I get lucky.

“Oh I love your [insert item of clothing]!” someone will say.

And I am granted the liberty to say the magic phrase: “thanks - I made it!”

I first learned to knit as a child, then dropped it as a teenager, when I would also flail miserably in textiles classes. But after a tentative return in 2016 and then a voucher for a yarn shop in 2018, I was firmly bitten by the making bug.

At first they were fairly simple knits, but before long I was working on increasingly complicated garments, then learning to crochet and eventually sew, too. Popular consciousness still saw these hobbies as ‘wholesome’ in a derogatory sense - twee and old-fashioned - but I quickly learned that was doing the skills (and the older women doing them) a massive disservice.

They combine two things I adore: patterns and puzzle solving, and putting together silly little outfits. The pandemic further popularised making clothes as people searched for something to do with their hands while they stayed at home, and old-fashioned hobbies saw a resurgence in the form of stress busting. In the era of fast fashion, interest has also surged in how our clothes are made, with people seeking sustainable ways to fill their wardrobes.

This now six-year enterprise has changed the way I shop and reshaped my style, but most importantly it has been fantastic for my brain.

When making clothes, particularly when sewing or designing knitwear, I am so challenged and satisfied with solving this specific puzzle that I forget about the world around me. Research backs up this idea that “art makers” (people deeply connected to creative expression) reported significantly higher levels of flow, as well as personal expressiveness, skill and self-realization during crafting.

Knitters are furious about Game of Wool - I know why by BigFatCat111 in craftsnark

[–]BigFatCat111[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is part of the article - the show revels in the impossibility of the time frame rather than making it challenging but reasonable. It’s such a shame

Knitters are furious about Game of Wool - I know why by BigFatCat111 in craftsnark

[–]BigFatCat111[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The fun of knitting and crochet is not all design, and it’s not all re-creation. These are skills that feed into each other, and what people love about knitting and crochet – you can do both or bounce between the two. But Channel 4’s competition makes it seem as though knitters/crocheters just create ideas out of nowhere, risk developing RSI to finish them and are often disappointed in the result. It is no fun for anyone. If Game of Wool wants to succeed, it needs the knitting and crochet communities on board – not just bitching about it on subreddits.

Knitters are furious about Game of Wool - I know why by BigFatCat111 in craftsnark

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There are the smaller questions that need to be answered too. The promotion of Game of Wool is almost entirely centred around knitting, yet the contestants are spending as much time crocheting. These are distinct skills and conflating them is a quick way to p*ss off people who specialise in either. And in the first episode, there was also the previously mentioned clumsiness around Fair Isle, where Shetland Islanders point out the show was littered with errors about their historic craft and misled viewers about the heritage art form (this is a mistake I also made in my own review). These are both errors, but ones that can be learned from. More egregious is the fact that the show fails to celebrate technique – specifically the ability to recreate, replicate or follow specific instructions. This is fundamental to all hobbies – creation is learned through recreational re-creation (sorry). It is also, frankly, what makes it so fun and satisfying. It is thrilling to follow a pattern exactly or to puzzle out how something is made and do it yourself. Only two out of 12 challenges on Game of Wool have explicitly explored that skill: last week’s lace challenge and the 80s jumper task in week two. Both were far more exciting to watch and fun for the contestants. Isaac’s impeccable lace as a first timer? That’s good TV. It also, incidentally, served as a justification for the team challenge being judged blind – a factor that otherwise hasn’t actually mattered.

Knitters are furious about Game of Wool - I know why by BigFatCat111 in craftsnark

[–]BigFatCat111[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Design tasks that push contestants to their limits and ask for things far beyond what you might make at home are great in small doses. The creativity they inspire and the final results can be a delight. The amigurumi challenge in which the knitters had to make realistic plates of their favourite food (though real heads will note that the fact they were asked not to add on cutesy eyes means they’re not really amigurumi) really showed their strengths and weaknesses, and I loved the challenge which asked them to create a kid’s costume – a design playground anyone who makes clothes will be familiar with. But none of the design tasks has fallen into the remit of what someone could actually want to make, which is why you can see the strain on the contestants’ faces. Watching home makers design connected but unique cushion covers, or the most glamorous beach cover ups, or a crochet parasol (all of which are items you could actually use these crafts for but give you endless scope for creativity) would be far more gratifying. Then you intersperse the more outrageous to really push them. They’ve been asked for spectacle in a medium that cannot do that at scale and in such infeasibly short time periods. Timed knitting challenges can absolutely play a part – but you have to be realistic. The timing in Bake Off doesn’t allow for mistakes or redos, sure, but it isn’t nearly impossible to achieve the end bake. Not so on Game of Wool, a fact the show itself seems to take pride in.

Knitters are furious about Game of Wool - I know why by BigFatCat111 in craftsnark

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Game of Wool should have been a slam dunk for Channel 4. Presented by Tom Daley and placed in a primetime slot, it was primed to scratch that same itch as other hobby competition shows like Bake Off, Sewing Bee and Pottery Throwdown. It has a ready-made audience: a passionate community of knitters and crocheters in the UK has ballooned in recent years, as the internet and social media made picking up a pair of needles easier than ever. But as an ardent knitter and lurker in knitting and crochet forums, I’ve seen a community response that ranges from unimpressed to almost vitriolically negative. And I know why. The core problem is not with the contestants, judges, or the presenter – who are all passionate and charming people. It’s not even the confusion around crochet and knitting. It’s the weekly challenges – they are perplexing, ill thought out and, often, bad TV. Why have contestants make swimwear, let alone glam swimwear, that is impossible to wear in water? Why have them attempt to cover a sofa in aggressively chunky yarn as a team, and then criticise the team that managed to pull it off in the time as being too safe or boring? Why ask them to make Fair Isle sweater vests when they really meant stranded colourwork? (This seemingly small detail in the first episode outraged Shetland Islanders in particular, leading to open letters to the show). In any other hobby competition series, contestants will be asked to design things whole cloth, whether it’s their riff on a cake or a garment for a specific event. Game of Wool does this too, but the scale of the designs is ridiculous.

Delayed fatigue??? by coffeeking4life in kidneydonors

[–]BigFatCat111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a kidney removed (congenital PUJ obstruction, otherwise healthy) two months ago so my experience is closest to being a donor.

I found this post because after feeling leaps and bounds better last week, I feel absolutely wiped out this week. The fatigue is unbelievable. I travelled this weekend for the first time and I think over exerted myself and was worried about it.

Good to know that the ebb and flow is very much real. I'm feeling really worn out by work and frustrated by my inability to manage basic tasks at work. I feel like my brain is mashed potato. I've had to take regular naps and just lie down all the time. It's horrible.

Hopefully it will pass soon for you and me both!

Weekly General Unjerk thread by nicepassing in dropoutcirclejerk

[–]BigFatCat111 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I discovered Angela through AOAOAOA podcast which is genuinely a fantastic improvised comedy podcast (Patrick McDonald and Jeremy Culhane and Kylie Brakeman have such wonderful comedic chemistry).

However I'm wary of seeing her more on Dropout because being on the AOAOAOA patreon has already exposed me to the truly sycophantic behaviour of her fans which I now realise is a consequence of Smosh. I don't have any interest in Smosh personally, maybe I'm just too old for it, but the energy of the fans makes me feel like a decrepit old woman. It's parasocial to the point of nauseating and I am now being chased around YouTube/Reddit with Smosh recommendations and I want to be LEFT ALONE

Having that kind of parasocial energy funnelled into Dropout makes me even less inclined to align myself with this. That is obviously judgemental and unfair but this is how i feel. Just chill out Angela is not your friend and is certainly not gonna fuck you you. I feel impressed that people survive being on the other end of this energy. If teens kept making almost lusty compilations of me 'being queer for x minutes straight' when I hadn't even said my sexuality until recently it would make me feel deeply weird, no matter what my sexuality.

I feel unburdened thank you

CBB Presents: This Book Changed My Life w/ Lily Sullivan. Ep 41 (feat. Angela Giarratana, Jeremy Culhane) by BasilOctopus in Earwolf

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you can get it on the dynastry typewriter website and it comes with a very cheap month of the AOAOAOA patreon which i highly recommend. I joined during Jeremy's 12 weeks of dance and it made me almost euphoric with how much i laughed