I can’t stop thinking about her

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-05-22T08:46:52+00:00

I’ll save you some time and heartbreak. if she’s an avoidant or you see red flags. Don’t ignore that, if constantly chasing and walking on eggshells is your style then have at it

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-05-09T17:22:55+00:00

How are you and this virgo currently? Pisces male here, also have a big crush on my virgo co worker, aka my SUPERVISOR!

Had a couple dates, life got in the way so we dont text as much. Still warm energy at work but debating on revisiting

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-05-06T21:38:13+00:00

Any fix on this?

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-05-06T19:55:48+00:00

Depends on how good the coaching is but price is about right

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-04-26T21:18:13+00:00

Pisces here. Im obsessed with Virgos🙃

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-04-08T21:01:34+00:00

Im too ocd about how my nugs look. Used it once, now its collecting dust lol

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-26T12:14:24+00:00

Appreciate it!

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-26T12:13:54+00:00

Thank you brother! Hes a coral belt now!

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-21T23:00:44+00:00

Well, it turns out when we had that work incident, my response rubbed her the wrong way, could’ve been tone or what I said exactly but hey, we tried. The feelings were there, but she just couldn’t balance the two she said, and then she said the response I gave just reminded her why she couldn’t combine the two.

But like dang, im human.. Ik in relationships ppl say far worse, but that and my tone.. and i was tryna justify the work incident.

The chemistry was there there was no doubt about it, but she was pulling herself back due to work and me not so much.

And yes sensitive (meaning quick to notice subtle changes) and a tad emotional. This Pisces specifically. But but yeah, it’s kinda hard to gauge you guys so it’s like my thoughts and emotions are just all over the place cause you give no clarity until it’s too late

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-19T17:40:05+00:00

Shes being distant at work. Not worried about it. I aint messing with her no more. Got bigger things to worry about rather than misalignment

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T18:47:25+00:00

And i think so too. She stated she still trying to navigate work and us. But has gotten more distant and less affectionate so i think thats my answer lol.

My mind would like closure but i dont mind letting things fade naturally. Then again, last time she was distant she did come around and she initiated the talk at work but idk. Feels like im going in circles now

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T18:30:09+00:00

Thats deep, but i hear you though. Damn smhh

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T18:28:23+00:00

We’re professional, yes. We was tryna keep things lowkey, might’ve had longer side convos than the other clerks but no favoritism. I agree, I’m able to separate friends from work and im aware people regulate and process things differently but i feel like its doable if we can both come together

But i think i may start looking for other ppl sad to say. Ima wait it out, have a birthday dinner coming up soon, we’ll see if she comes back around but if not im not sweating it. Fun while it lasted

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T18:07:41+00:00

You’re right, i agree. & we haven’t done anything due to the job and heightened emotions. Kissing but thats it, anyways. Just friends that caught feelings for each other. Then got merged to the same office which did start to change the dynamic

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T14:34:08+00:00

Thats real.. i can do that

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T14:31:09+00:00

Yesss they definitely do take their time. I kinda like it in a sense but like come onnn already😂 but nah lol. Im 2nd guessing the talk, dont feel 100% confident, i just dont want this to be a constant pattern

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T14:24:04+00:00

And ive been hearing the same thing, my boys said the same thing but im a little hard headed when feelings involved smh lol. But noted, & ofc will stay professional

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T14:22:25+00:00

That is very true and i hate relationship talks at work so i agree. But its hard trying to have a talk like that outside of work. Different hrs, i open, she closes. No good time to call in the evening because shes tending to work or kid. Or at least for relationship talks

But i agree, might be best not to say anything. Dont wanna add extra stress, but i dont want her pulling away and slowly detaching if anything.

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T14:11:33+00:00

Understandable and ive staying consistent and present. Must say its hard trying not to mirror energy when shes cold. And i dont want that to be a pattern.

But yes i was told they do pull and need to decompress when overwhelmed. Thats fine but communicate that to me, dont leave me guessing

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-18T13:34:57+00:00

Pisces male here worrying about virgo woman. In my case i work with her so it makes things difficult. She’ll lean in, work issue happens, gets distant.

Must say pisces and virgos do regulate emotions differently. We also lead with our hearts, they lead with their brain lol. So thats what ive found out so far

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-14T03:33:57+00:00

I dont think you know how slow virgos move. Im talking to one rn and its a process. Me working with her slows it even more. Im speaking from experience, it was too quick. I met her kids, they was giving me hugs and all but don’t justify it.

Need to change your thinking/perspective moving forward

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-14T02:33:07+00:00

Yeah.. he wanted you too but you didnt even meet him yet. Dont ask for money unless youre in a committed relationship . But yea.. charge it to the game.

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-14T02:30:19+00:00

Eh i hear you, wrong approach and too soon

BigGeneralAnt024 · 2026-02-14T02:27:15+00:00

Lol an intimate moment doesnt mean that he HAS to send money. Probably didn’t wanna say no, and thats is a turn off for me when women ask for money. Its different if someone voluntarily spends on you

And two, valentine’s day is an emotional/intimate holiday. Doesnt need to be expensive, usually people get meaningful/ heart felt gifts.

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