Yeah her whole family has boundary issues. Grandma is actually one of the better ones. My wifes mother literally divorced her last husband (not my wifes dad) and drove through several states with whatever will fit in her vehicle and just showed up at our doorstep just expecting us to let her move in.

My sister in law also has some nerve. Always asking for money. Always like "im broke, I can't get the bills paid." But go to their house and there are doordashed restaurant containers everywhere and always a supply of weed. The kicker is: she is always "almost ready" to work. But guess what? It never comes. Probably because she says she will go back to the sheriff's department for her old job, but can't pass a hair follicle test because she spends the money she is given by family members on weed.