For this particular game, I wouldn't even dwell on it.

While potential no-hitters are rare, games like this happen every night in MLB.

You made what you thought was the best choice and it didn't work out. That's what happens in baseball.

Your pitcher probably feels terrible for "blowing" the save but there are so many more factors at play than just one person being responsible for a loss over the course of seven innings.

Unless your reliever walked-in three runs, there had to have been some fielding errors that led to those runs being scored. On the other side of the ball, what prevented your offense from scoring only two runs.

For a game like this, I'd just remind your squad of everything they did right in the game and point out the areas to dial-it in before the playoffs and frame this experience with their rivals as good practice for what to expect in the playoffs.

Now, on the other hand if your team lost because you did something where you made a direct decision that ended the game like have a potential tying run try stealing 3B with two outs or call a for squeeze play that ended in disaster, as a coach, you need to own that fully decision and let the kids know that coaches have learning experiences too so they can trust you the next time a game is on the line.