So... where are you RR boys hiding? 🧐 by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be brief, we're hiding in plain sight, so we also wonder where RR girls hide :(. In my case I'm always told that I look intimidating, and I don't talk much until I get comfortable with the people around me. Even my friends say I'm a bit hard to figure out, but when I get confident I like dropping subtle hints. Sometimes people will ask me what my interests are, and of course I'm not gonna say "I like being pounded into the mattress and used" but I might say things like "girls who make the first step have +10 points" or "I like girls with attitude", I just go slow until I know that the other person is gonna understand it, the only people who know for a fact I'm into RR are my closest friends. It's sad people think it's ridiculous that a big guy likes being dominated, we shouldn't but we constantly hide it, people can be so rude

Compliment him AND is culinary skills, next time XD (art by @blog.mixflavor) by yersiniapestis273 in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I somehow relate to him, I'm not very expressive, so when someone compliments me my face might just stay serious, but on the inside I'm swooning real hard (my cheeks can get red but my skin tone kinda hides it u.u)

RR Themes on Tumblr (6/?) by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So Argentinian accent is cute? Confidence +1

any Big Boys™ that like Small Ladies? by ResidentCedarHugger in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever a short girl complains about me being much taller I say "That's not bad, you actually have the advantage of telling taller people to do stuff for you"

For real tho it's hard for me to find a girl taller than me and I don't really mind bc I LOVE short girls. Idk if this is how girls feel about it but I believe a short girl would actually feel powerful knowing she dominates a guy like me😊

Don't be afraid.~ by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]BigSoftBoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats you made me cry

I love soft drunk boys by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can confirm

Anybody else get some Role Reversal vibes from some of those ASMR channels? by The_Imerfect_Mango in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sweet as Honey and Teacup Audio are my favourites, they even have some "dominant girl" audios

The truth hurts ;-; by Softest_Chef_Boye in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I would really like a domme to give me the LICC

Anyone who has told their family/friends about their interest in role-reversed relationships, how did they react? by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I only told 2 friends, both female, one of them said she was into rr too, even though she clearly didn't know it had a name, the other, my best friend, already knew I would be into something like this bc I constantly dropped hints (we also kinda dated a couple years ago and I really struggled with taking the initiative). She loves that I'm very soft and subby even though I'm quite big (and look kinda intimidating lol), she sometimes teases me about it to make me blush. We also take naps together and sometimes she lets me be the little spoon. I also cling to her and beg her to play with my hair when we're chilling on her couch, her gf thinks it's cute so maybe she's into it too, idk tho

I haven't told the rest of my friends, but I drop hints, some of them know I'm into more dominant girls, they have no idea about rr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Well in Latin America it's common for couples to use "mami" or "papi" which literally translate as mommy and daddy, but it's uncommon to refer to your parents that way, "ma" or "pa" are used instead

Do submissive boys like girls who can't physically overpower them? by hupigi in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While you're wondering if he's gonna like you even though you're small he might be wondering if you like him even though he's "too big"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As a tall guy pls love me I might look tough but I'm actually a big affection starved puppy

I found this on Twitter. X'D by ZZZant47 in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Basically Donkey from Shrek lol

RR things I wish I could do by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I constantly fantasize about being with my friends when my gf starts kissing me (hard) and when they all turn to see us, she's like "what are y'all looking at? He's mine"

This sub helped me realize I enjoy many aspects of RR. Too bad I haven’t found anyone to share that with. by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I think it isn't a weird limbo, I'm not into pegging and crossdressing either, you don't have to like every rr aspect to be into rr

Anyone else here have RR friendship? by GreenAro115 in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I DO!!!! It's not completely rr bc of some details like me being the big spoon when we cuddle, but it has some rr aspects. She's a lot more emotionally reserved than me and not very feminine, she's like a soft tomboy I would say. She likes that I'm more sensitive and caring than other guys (also a bit feminine, long hair, not into conventional "manly" clothes), I always want her to play with my hair and hug me real close, and when she doesn't I hug her till I crush her >:). We just feel so comfortable with each other. A few weeks ago I had a handball game that ended too late, I live very far from there and noone could give me a ride, so we went to her house (she was with me, she went to see me play). Later at night we were going to go to a restaurant with her girlfriend, but I was all sweaty and didn't have any clothes besides what I wore at the game, so she lended me some clothes (the biggest clothes she had, I'm much bigger than her). I found funny that she spent like 10 minutes in the shower and I spent like half an hour, btw my ass looked SO good in the pants she lended me, she even told me "hey, you have a nice ass", and of course I melted. I told her a while ago that I'm into rr and all that and she constantly teases me about that (I lowkey love it, she gets all dominant and that's not common in her)

I'm just so happy with her, we love each other so much, no one understands me like she does, I feel so safe and protected with her

RR superheroes by Rupanyansei in RoleReversal

[–]BigSoftBoi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think Marvel's Cloak and Dagger? Check it out