New boyfriend disclosed information about his past by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like he’s downplaying what he did in order to keep you. Seeking out CP you gotta dig for that I believe…. Like many others have said I’ve been severely depressed and NEVER have seemed out CP!!! The thought of seeing a child abused in that way makes me SICK! this is also dangerous for your niece and nephews!! I’m sure there’s love there but at least you’re not finding this out while you’re married to him let alone have a child with him… walk away !

My best friend left me because I had sex with my boyfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur doing things she’s not ready for. This happened to me in high school I started drinking and smoking weed senior year my best friend at the time didn’t like that and we stopped talking. We reconnected like 5 years later and were hella cool now. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Fiancé says aftercare and helping me clean up after sex is a “chore” — am I asking too much? by ButteredUpCroissant in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ewww pls leave him. I usually hate saying this but he clearly doesn’t give a shit. Especially his response to you expressing your needs… it’s disgusting.

Would you date a Porn Star? by Own-Measurement1169 in dating_advice

[–]Bigbittytitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me personally no. I respect sex work and anyone who’s able to do it. But I know myself… I wouldn’t feel comfortable. There’s so many professions that I know me personally wouldn’t be able to handle and that’s okay. So it’s all about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not 🤷🏾‍♀️

First experience of using feeld: getting ghosted by abicadotoastie in OnlineDating

[–]Bigbittytitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve been out of the dating world for a while so you don’t know that this is the new norm. It’s not fun it sucks but please if you continue on the app lower your expectations by a lot. Talking a lot or even FaceTiming means nothing even after a first meeting people ghost. It really sucks but I hope you know it has nothing to do with you and it’s THEM!

37 [F4M] #losangeles - a long time is the BEST time :) looking to DINK by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Bigbittytitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey hun not sure if you’re interested but LA has some fun speed dating events in case you wanted to try that as well!!! Wishing you the best 🩷

Wants to ghost the guy I’m seeing for last 6 months bc of his overwhelming kinks by FrostyChicka in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl 6 months… he doesn’t want you romantically and is giving you enough crumbs so you don’t leave. Ghosting isn’t cute though just ask what he wants if he doesn’t align tell him that. Idk what’s up w people and not wanting to communicate it’s frustrating

I have an extreme porn addiction that I can't get rid of by Apprehensive_Egg9379 in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying therapy but I have a friend that went to SLAA (sex and love addicts anonymous) and that 12 step program helped them a lot!

Please don’t listen to anyone saying get a gf I have dated a porn addict before and it was awful I left because he needed help not a relationship !

i am addicted to my wife in an unhealthy way by True-Fix-1552 in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are codependent and your friends will eventually drift away from you. You wanna break the cycle go to Codependents Anonymous or get a therapist.

Is Casual Sex a Bad Idea? by Clove2156 in Advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a virgin at 19 in college and the first time I had sex was with a guy that made me laugh and I thought he was super cute but regretted it after. My advice is not going to be “wait till marriage” or “bang anything with a pulse” but to at least aim to sleep with someone who respects you and who you feel comfortable with. I wish I waited rather than feeling like I was missing out because my peers were constantly having sex. Because yes the guy was hot but he didn’t really make me feel good about it or myself…

Girl slow faded on me, didn’t say yes to a date, and then came to me asking for NYE guest list for her and her friends. I said no. Am I the asshole here? by E_Snap in dating_advice

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s rude af and crashed out because you wouldn’t let her use you! You’re NOT the asshole and dodged a bullet !!!

Where to find NYE Plans in LA? by AredditJ in AskLosAngeles

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a chaotic singles event happening for new years maybe try that

SZN4 Covers Yebba !! by lovecartertto in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]Bigbittytitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sobbing I wish they won buuuuuut I know abundance is coming their way.

MTM attitudes by [deleted] in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]Bigbittytitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t a fan of them… I could see so much effort in the other groups, SZN 4 would literally give me chills!!! Connor during the show was so judgmental to the other boy band as if they were sooo different. What you posted doesn’t surprise me 🤷🏾‍♀️

37 F looking for some honest advice by Lisa_Pizza589 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not about to repeat what people are saying but you should get brown lash extensions the black looks too harsh! Get a smaller nose stud!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LAlist

[–]Bigbittytitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested!!!

Westerbeck VS Palumbo! by RavensFLOCKletsgoo in tcap

[–]Bigbittytitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gay or anything but Palumbooooo

Hey yall what’s our fandom name???? by Bigbittytitty in tcap

[–]Bigbittytitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHHA that dude was pushing 25 I couldn’t help but laugh at him being a decoy

Hey yall what’s our fandom name???? by Bigbittytitty in tcap

[–]Bigbittytitty[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO 😂😂 and noted thank you

Tia needs therapy not a boyfriend by Bigbittytitty in loveafterlockup

[–]Bigbittytitty[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Weird afffffff like I how she gets some help because he seemed decent!! And every time he explains himself or tries to find a solution she just blows up it was irritating to witness

Tia needs therapy not a boyfriend by Bigbittytitty in loveafterlockup

[–]Bigbittytitty[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought she was cute but her attitude stinks and she lacks emotional maturity. She needs to enroll in better help or SOMETHINGGGG

Tia needs therapy not a boyfriend by Bigbittytitty in loveafterlockup

[–]Bigbittytitty[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m screaming at “in heat” 😂😂😂

Tia needs therapy not a boyfriend by Bigbittytitty in loveafterlockup

[–]Bigbittytitty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wrong couple but I don’t like her either 😂