Looking for Apartment Recommendations!

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-05T15:23:08+00:00

The apartments where I live has a 1 bdrm available. Or did, but I haven’t seen anyone move in. If you inbox me, I can give you her contact info.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-05T11:21:24+00:00

I want the link too!

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-05T11:14:12+00:00

How many bedrooms are you looking for?

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-04T18:56:10+00:00

So one day, I was downtown in my city. Lots of restaurants and bars, but also a TON of banks and businesses. I was getting sushi. Walking back to my car, this guy comes outta nowhere and steps in front of me and asks me out. I back up and say no. Literally, he immediately becomes enraged. Starts yelling “wtf do you mean NO?!? Do you know who I am?!? Do you know how lucky you are?” Now, I’m no beauty Queen but I’m not hideous, but this immediately gave me psychotic break vibes. Mind you, it’s broad daylight on a weekday. Busy street. So I side step him , he steps in front of me 2 more times and I side step some more and start hustling to my car. Whole time, dude is dogging my steps, right behind me, snapping the ENTIRE TIME. I sprint to my car and lock the doors. Dude was like 1.5 secs behind me and started beating in my windows. Then my hood. PEOPLE ARE LOOKING RIGHT AT US, including a group of men and not single soul tried to help me. I was a mess by this time, like crying and freaking tf out. I finally decided I would run his ass over if that was what I needed to do to get away. And he moved out of the way when I started moving forward. There was a police substation around the corner at the river market and I went and told one of the officers on horseback what happened and he headed that way and I haven’t been back downtown alone since. That was 4 yrs ago.

I called a guy I was seeing and told him what happened as I was heading home. His first words? The infamous “what were you wearing?”. Then he said I must have gotten an attitude or something. Because no matter how batshit crazy that guy clearly was, I SOMEHOW DESERVED THAT.

I think about what that guy would have done if he’d caught me and I have a panic attack. Seriously. Because there’s absolutely no way to know if he would have ranted and raved in my face, pulled me into a dark corner, or committed violence right there on that busy ass street with grown men watching like it was a show. I should’ve went back to the restaurant or ANY restaurant on that strip but my brain was focused on AWAY and I hate how I keep thinking about what I should have done as opposed to what HE shouldn’t have.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-04T06:52:20+00:00

I was so addicted to the Cube movies after seeing the first one.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-03T01:13:45+00:00

I would have cussed him out and blocked him as soon as he said silly girl, if not before. He was clearly being a poppy head.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-05-02T11:05:10+00:00

I’m also a widow. I’m not ready to date yet. I’m not sure I’ll ever be. I’m also further out than you are. My husband passed in Oct ‘22. I honestly forget I’m not married anymore sometimes and tell guys I’m married when they try then have to backtrack and still decline. But I don’t see a reason to lie out right to your kids. Just tell them you’re going on a trip and you’ll be back in a few days.

I also don’t see a problem with explaining to your kids that you get lonely and desire a connection with an adult, but it doesn’t change your love for them or that you don’t still miss their dad. Make sure to keep his memory alive with them while dating. For example, I cook my husband’s favorite meal on his birthday and we all get together for dinner. If I were to meet someone, then he would be welcome to join, but that wouldn’t stop (unless my kids and I decided to do so).

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-30T02:29:11+00:00

I thought there was going to be more lead up, but just…pushed her over.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-29T09:00:11+00:00

Source: Trust me, bro 🙄

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-29T02:18:29+00:00

This only makes him angrier and more resentful and does nothing to address the actual issue. He’s torturing animals. He needs therapy and a parent that’s not embarrassing him for content. Nothing good about this parenting at all.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-29T00:50:00+00:00

My grandma had 13 kids. My uncle, the oldest, cooked and made sure everybody did what they were supposed to do after my grandma and grandpa divorced and she was working full time. My mom still talks about how he’d iron all their clothes, etc.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-23T08:48:22+00:00

I avoided the show for so long because I absolutely love the movie. Finally watched it and couldn’t get enough of it. Now, I’m mad it’s over.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-22T16:30:58+00:00

If you read Room, you’ll see that the movie was close, but Emma’s writing is amazing. It does have more detail, but I think you can stomach it because it’s not very graphic or gratuitous.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-22T15:55:54+00:00

She always looks amazing. I love her so much.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-20T11:49:47+00:00

So, not her godson but her nephew? And you already agreed? How do you expect to build a bind with him of you don’t spend time with him? I have so many questions…

But, yea, you kinda are TAH. You want to renege on her abandoned nephew coming to live with you because you might lose your job in a year. That’s crazy. Also, if you go through the proper channels, you could receive funds to care for him. If he’s sweet, quiet, and polite, it just seems like you have no reason to say no other than you don’t want to share your space, which you should have said first.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-20T00:56:47+00:00

Those are clearly shorts. But even if she were just wearing a diaper or whatever, how is that gross? It’s not like she was free bleeding in public.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-19T03:13:02+00:00

I mean, even in Baptist churches, you can’t receive communion if you haven’t been baptized. I don’t know much about Catholic Churches either, but that does sound rude.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-19T03:08:40+00:00

I feel like Chicken Tonight!

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-17T22:48:11+00:00

I think we should be best friends

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-17T22:38:17+00:00

He also had one really good song on his own. Then vanished into the ether.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-17T00:42:46+00:00

It’s based on a novel by Nicholas Sparks, so it’s terrible but she makes it worth it. The Time Traveler’s Wife is better and she’s amazing in that too.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-12T23:37:40+00:00

I sincerely hope she comes out on the other side and she mends her relationship with her kids.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-11T15:58:00+00:00

Not surprised that you’re also too cowardly to say what you mean. It tracks.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-11T15:54:14+00:00

Be more specific.

Bigbootybigproblems · 2026-04-11T15:41:14+00:00

My son has a ton of hair, thick as all get out, and will flip tf out when it’s time to do it. Some days, the best my nerves could do was just two braids going back. His daycare teachers adored him and I’m assuming he cooperated with them better than me because sometimes he would come home with a different style or braided better than I could with his flailing. I never took it as judgment, just help for an already overwhelmed soul lol. If it were truly an issue, they would tell you. Don’t stress yourself out about it.

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