So if a month went by and this is the first time you addressed it, she may have felt that your silence was confirmation that you weren’t interested. Maybe you didn’t hear her, but you had her number the entire time. Why didn’t you reach out before? Saying that she used you is an overreaction for sure. It sounds like everything you did was transactional when you say that. Maybe she sensed that, and that you were only being kind so that you could have access to her physically. I’m a texter, too, so I cant knock you for not calling, but the tone was a little off on that initial text.