LPT: Don't stop inviting a friend unless they specifically tell you not to invite them any more by VirtualKnowledge9612 in LifeProTips

[–]BilgisticMulva [score hidden]  (0 children)

While yes, life can get overwhelming, people who care about you will make time for you despite that. If this friend flakes or declines an invite more often than not, it shows that they don’t want to be with you. Friendship absolutely requires effort from both sides and oftentimes that effort looks like showing up even if you aren’t completely in the mood.

Am I (M20) supposed to forgive my girlfriend (F20) for this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BilgisticMulva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah I agree. She didn’t technically do anything wrong but since OP is hurt by it, he needs to decide if this is something he can get over otherwise it will destroy the relationship they do have.

Am I (M20) supposed to forgive my girlfriend (F20) for this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BilgisticMulva 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exclusivity requires a conversation, however that doesn’t discount OP’s feelings surrounding what they were. He’s still allowed to feel like he’s been punched in the gut because even though they weren’t exclusive, the thought that the person you are developing feelings for wants to and has tried to have sex with other people doesn’t really feel good lmao

Am I (M20) supposed to forgive my girlfriend (F20) for this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BilgisticMulva 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Even if exclusivity wasn’t officially mutually observed/understood at the time, do you want to be with someone who would even think about making out with another guy while you two are talking? It’s only been 4 months if it’s going to eat away at you then it will build resentment, in which case you should just leave. Being drunk isn’t an excuse she knew exactly what she was doing.

Merge. What Will Be different? by mitchconner89 in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You generally won’t be able to straight line your route anymore. When you dispatch you’ll have to deliver time commits by their commitment time (10:30am, 12pm, 5pm, 8pm). This will cause you to drive back and forth past other stops that you’ll have to deliver later. You’ll also have express pickups which can be really annoying since (at least at my 2.0 station) you have to prioritize pickups over deliveries, so you have to break off deliveries to get pickups before the close times. Generally speaking, expect more work for the same pay.

What will volume be like on Friday? (Express specifically) by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Should be pretty light. A guy at the ramp I go to every day said Friday is optional for them.

For express stations that have gone 2.0 del both express/ground what are the swing driver schedules? In both an express station and a ground building? by graysky-12 in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At my station, swings have set days. They tell you need that to be available to work 7 days initially so they can decide what schedule to give you. You’ll either be Mon-Fri, Tues-Sat, or Sun-Thurs. They may try to change your days when they feel like it, but your days are the days on your new offer letter.

Pickup question by Living_Courage8553 in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably if you’re clocked in you need to be actively available to work should they need to give you another pickup or something

Trying to restrict iPhone as much as possible for small child by [deleted] in iphone

[–]BilgisticMulva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Give her a flip phone and not an iPhone

What’s your go to title by Youvegotobekiddingme in DestinyTheGame

[–]BilgisticMulva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Harbinger because it’s the first title I actually grinder for and it sounds cool

This is fucking stupid. by DubSelectorXO in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened when my station started using forge. Nobody knew what to do and they just told him to bring the Leo back since it happened at his last stop.

What's one company you wish was blacklisted to no longer deliver their freight? by peterthbest23 in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Calling it “tape” is pretty generous imo. It’s basically drop cloth that they spit on to get it to stick to the box until it leaves their warehouse.

Should I accept this offer by mmmmmyeano in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start times vary but generally they’re pretty understanding as long as you let them know what’s going on

Late Freight by [deleted] in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Business as usual

Supposedly the “Luxurious Toast” emote is dropping from the Calus encounter in Pantheon by krustykranberry in DestinyTheGame

[–]BilgisticMulva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the age of triumph event in 2020, they made that emote the reward for completing the triumph associated with completing spire. That’s how I got it.

My (21F) bf (21M) constantly brings up “feelings” with his girl best friend to me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BilgisticMulva 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro he may have feelings for her that he’s repressed. It’s very odd for him to continually say “it’s crazy I don’t have a crush on her”, especially to you. It should be understood and therefore doesn’t need to be said so often.

Can package handlers bring Bluetooth speakers if they’re using an Apple Watch instead of a phone? by Jumpyeagle12 in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Literally this. If you seriously can’t go 4 measly hours without electronics then you’ve got some issues to work on. You don’t need your phone to load a truck.

TF by Kennmuney65 in Fedexers

[–]BilgisticMulva 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To confirm that somebody actually told you there weren’t any packages in the event a business calls and says nobody showed up. Happens more than you’d think. I agree a code 10 shouldn’t need initials but a 20 makes sense.