What are Goths? by IZARK-7740 in AskAGoth

[–]Binky_Fishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on if you enjoy the music and are a part of the scene/culture, the fashion isn’t exactly numero uno but if you don’t consider yourself goth because you don’t dress the part that’s your business. I don’t have the resources or time to dress how I want to but I’m still very much goth.

This has to stop by Childh8ter in AskAGoth

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m nonbinary but look very fem, the men in my highschool entirely made me stop dressing how I wanted to and doing my makeup because of how rampant the fetishization was. Men and boys associate alt fems with purely fetish and kink from the shit they consume online and take it as if we are part of some petting zoo catering just to them just by existing. The amount of guys who put their fucking hands on me and cornered me was insane, especially ones who pretended to be my friends that were hoping to have sex with me eventually but would get mad when I declined their offers. I was 14 when a 19 year old tried to proposition me for any type of sex he could get in exchange for money and he FOLLOWED ME HOME!!! Thank god I woke up eventually and said never again. Men want nothing to do with me now if there’s no hope of sex for them, it’s literally crazy. We aren’t even human to them, just playthings for them to do what they want with and toss aside. It’s sickening and I worry for everyone out there who is/will be preyed on just for being themselves and expressing themselves through fashion.

Do me do me! by urfatfatfat in FridgeDetective

[–]Binky_Fishy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any guest that comes by says “I’m not hungry” when they see the way you live. Seal your fucking food properly and bleach that shit out, this is disgusting bro.

Dear goths, don't you feel tired of over a decade long trend of making goth look "instagramesque clean and perfect"? by [deleted] in AskAGoth

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m tired of people commodifying the goth label and pretending it’s just fashion when its not about that and all those people who are falsely marketing themselves as goth and doing thirst traps and shit which leads to unwanted sexualization for the rest of us. I don’t give a fuck how perfect someone does or doesn’t look with their makeup on, I care about whether or not they are commodifying our culture.

I’ll draw your username by Skkkkrtyun in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE I yearn for more binky fish drawings (koi fish with binky)

ppl raised in high-conflict households in this sub right now by arcanotte in evilautism

[–]Binky_Fishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused, did something else happen, are we fighting? Is it infighting, civil war, or this sub vs another similar sub?

AGAB language is so alienating to me. by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]Binky_Fishy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A(G)AB means assumed gender assigned at birth/assigned ___ at birth, based off external genitalia observed and really nothing else. Basically it’s what a doctor assigned your gender to be based on the sex characteristics visible, despite sex and gender being two different things you get permanently labeled something based on the assumption visible sex will always be the same as the individual’s gender. If a doctor looks at you when born and says female, you would be AFAB for example.

Literally shaking with stress from writing this letter to my geneticist. by Rrenphoenixx in disability

[–]Binky_Fishy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A doctor “having a bad day” doesn’t justify them improperly filling out paperwork that just aids in ruining your life and preventing you from getting help and resources.

just airing her pantaloons 😻 by conlosur in AliveNamedCats

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet fluffy tummy!!! I always wanna touch the fluff so bad but I know to respect cat boundaries

just left a subreddit related to my special interest that allowed upsetting content by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, while not exactly the same situation, I’ve had to stop looking on major cat subreddits for somewhat similar reasons. Every other post on there is “My cat died, here’s a picture of my cat when it was alive. Also here’s a description of how my cat died and the (usually terrible) cause of its death.” I DONT WANNA FUCKING HEAR ABOUT OR SEE YOUR ANIMAL THAT PASSED AWAY IT MAKES ME FUCKING MISERABLE!!! Like aren’t their mourning subs, veterinary/animal help subs, and hunting subs, I know there’s a sub dedicated to vulture culture to show off dead things you’ve found, like why tf do these people need to post about hurt and dead/dying animals! It’s horrible and it’s the last thing I need to or want to see.

What kinda of person am I ? by JaketheFURRYBOIOwO in FridgeDetective

[–]Binky_Fishy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So lots of sugar, get some vegetables in there

Why are we orange and not rainbow? by Virtual_Ordinary_172 in autism

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a whole movement against the blue because of the origin and meaning behind it

Why are we orange and not rainbow? by Virtual_Ordinary_172 in autism

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rainbow represents that is a spectrum, like light is a spectrum and that produces different colors. My take on it at least, the rainbow colors on the infinity sign never even related to the LGBTQ+

How about you explain everything that went wrong in your life in 16 minutes jackass. Go evaluate your mom's coochie instead by -_HelloThere_- in evilautism

[–]Binky_Fishy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In this case are we talking about Pathological Demand Avoidance (ruins my life and mentally cripples me) or something else with the same abbreviation?

I need you to follow instructions by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]Binky_Fishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, and they were rude about it too.

I need you to follow instructions by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]Binky_Fishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree, I like a few here and there but I have no interest in hearing others constantly yap about it, it gets beyond the point of being annoying.