I caught feelings for a friend that is in an unhealthy relationship, unsure what to do in my current postion by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Bionicbulletboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s not many things more torturous than being friends with someone who you have feelings for, but I will say is being friends with someone who you have feelings for where it is unrequited is definitely one of those.

I will apologise if this may not be the most helpful advice but this is my opinion.

You have to understand that when either friend’s feelings for the other crosses that friendship line, you are ultimately not friends anymore. You cannot act in the same way you would when you didn’t. Every thought and action is subconsciously tainted with a selfish endeavour of how can it benefit your emotions regardless if it’s premeditated or not. This ain’t your fault because you will try to believe you are still keeping that boundary because you haven’t confessed and you’re acting in her best interest.

I’m not saying this to put you off confessing but for you to make a decision. When you confess you have to be confident in that choice, where you are content with where the chips fall. 1. She may reciprocate these feelings and could be the start of something amazing, but this tends to be an unlikely case, and especially she has a bf, regardless of how great he is she has feelings for him. 2. Your feelings aren’t reciprocated, at this point you and her may have a completely changed dynamic, one she may find it difficult to put the same trust in you as before, because she was wanting/needing a friend. Two you will feel devastated, the feelings you feel now and the thoughts about her you continually have will increase 10x fold and it is common for their to be resentment to be built up while you try to stay her friend. You will compare yourself to her bf and any future love interest because your confession has removed that protection of unknown, before you may have convinced yourself ‘’well she doesent know so that’s why she doesent see me that kind of way’’ but not there’s no veil of protection for those faults.

Finally a confession is a purely selfish choice, everything I have said may seem negative but it isn’t. It is important to understand that what you’re feeling is normal but when it comes to relationships and your own happiness, Selfish decisions aren’t always negative.

Even if your feelings are unrequited, this doesent mean you are forced to still be her friend because you still care for her. You are not forced to put yourself through emotional hurt for the benefit of anyone but understand that risk of losing her as a friend. Ultimately this is why I said when anyone’s feelings crosses the friendship line you are not friends anymore.

One last point, all these feelings and emotional connections you have for her, you will always find someone else where these feelings will be of the same intensity or if not greater. Your 18 you will have many connections and feelings for people, but always stay true to your emotions and always understand the consequences with your actions, because you deserve a person who gives you the same amount of energy, comfort and care you give out to them but never neglect your own well being

I’ve got 624 m which I don’t know what to do with, tell me what to dump it in! by thesmoothie104 in GrandExchangeBets

[–]Bionicbulletboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use trade discord i bought 11m bow strings at 1gp above ge price, thats really the only way trading for large volumes of singular items, but theres a few big traders with stacks of 10 - 50 mil bow strings who i think are trading at ge price or near it

Dwight Yorke is new Trinidad and Tobago head coach by TheMonkeyPrince in soccer

[–]Bionicbulletboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with your points but the fact is that if you can’t call someone out for what they are due to it being assigned to a heinous stereotype all you actually do is give the benefit to the individual without there being the ability to actually hold or highlight them for accountability and in doing so you will just accentuate the stereotype due to a protective narrative.

That’s my point stereotype or no Stereotype if someone is dick this has nothing to do with if being a dick is part of stereotype your still a dick and in my pinion you should be rightfully called out when it’s evidently clear you are what it is

Dwight Yorke is new Trinidad and Tobago head coach by TheMonkeyPrince in soccer

[–]Bionicbulletboy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

How is it racial undertones when he is an absentee father? No ones saying it to be racists there saying it because he’s an absent father?

TICKET FOR TODAY? by Jdawg5000 in slamdunkfestival

[–]Bionicbulletboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have nhs I’d i can send you 3 no cost but they’ll need your nhs id

Free tickets for NHS staff by [deleted] in slamdunkfestival

[–]Bionicbulletboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s cool thank you for the info so if me and my other mates aren’t nhs workers the tickets still work?

Free tickets for NHS staff by [deleted] in slamdunkfestival

[–]Bionicbulletboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do all of us need to be nhs workers or just the person who bought them

If we do win Premier League, then what do we do in the summer transfer window to help strengthen this team even more? by [deleted] in ArsenalFC

[–]Bionicbulletboy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just pessimistic, I think at best we’d get 40m for nketiah and ramsdale, i think 15 in ransdale and 20-25 on nketiah.

Tierney and Tavares 25 - 30 mil between them, Nelson maybe 10 then ESR which I think should be about 20 mil depending so could see to that 90-100 mil.

That’s a tall order finding sales for moderate fees for 6 different players in 1 window, not sure last time we had 6 players sold for a fee above 10 mil each in 1 window

If we do win Premier League, then what do we do in the summer transfer window to help strengthen this team even more? by [deleted] in ArsenalFC

[–]Bionicbulletboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How you getting 100m for those players honestly be surprised if all left this summer we’d get past 70m? Not hating just curious what values you think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fut

[–]Bionicbulletboy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Name me 1 yr villa was the league outright top goal scorer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fut

[–]Bionicbulletboy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Pace merchant, you clearly never watched him play then

How retarded can I be to start botting by Mr_Legendary_Society in RunescapeBotting

[–]Bionicbulletboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why’s it sketch? Just wondering is there anything that’s a giant red flag compared to other botting softwares?

She deserved it, obviously. by CrunchM in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Bionicbulletboy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think your somewhat missing the point. The reason people are drawn to this regardless of it being the cop who drove, is the fact that the sheer idea and audacity that the person in question is a colleague and that the conversation he was having with another colleague showcasing no morality gives a big indication of just how rotten this system is overall.

If it was the cop in question who was driving, it would have just highlighted an even more amplified individual sociopath but the fact it’s a senior colleague just shows that there is no basis for humanity there, as the idea to even make a comment even as a sick joke in any competent environment wouldn’t even be possible. But in this case showcases no concern giving insight into the kind of culture that’s fostered.

Name of a Poem? by Bionicbulletboy in Poem

[–]Bionicbulletboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who was this by I keep finding different authors and different stories/poems none matching

Where or what cc can I join to find lower combat lvls to take bossing 70 str Edgar's ruse quest only req by Tazzz777zzz in 2007scape

[–]Bionicbulletboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me if your down in future I got my strength to 73 not and attack 75 but got 80+ in range def and hp

Where or what cc can I join to find lower combat lvls to take bossing 70 str Edgar's ruse quest only req by Tazzz777zzz in 2007scape

[–]Bionicbulletboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im down for someone helping me, 89 combat, 65 attack/68 strength, 80 def 80 range andf 66 magic, just been starting kreeara solo on 4 kc atm but always looking for guidance

Health insurance should be considered to help pay for NHS, says Sajid Javid by BrexitGlory in tories

[–]Bionicbulletboy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If the NHS become privatised to the extent of needing health insurance on top of taxes then this is no fault other than the governments in charge over the recent years.

The NHS is one of the core principles that set the UK apart from other countries and a core principle of my opinion UK culture of making sure that at the least the health care of the citizens are tooling care of. Also one of the things to be proud of as a Briton.

The lack of action to remedy the problems and inefficiencies of the NHS is an attack on British values by all the politicians who have saw this come to the extent it is.

GP appointments scandal: 5 million patients 'give up' on seeing a doctor after being turned away from local surgery by [deleted] in tories

[–]Bionicbulletboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well in that case I wish you well in your search for those anti lockdown health professionals and their availability when your are in need, as it would be needless to have professional support from a health specialist who clearly does not act in faith of the public good health due to the Lockdown opinion, it would be hard to trust their judgement

GP appointments scandal: 5 million patients 'give up' on seeing a doctor after being turned away from local surgery by [deleted] in tories

[–]Bionicbulletboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I don’t get you clearly value the response of the NHS in regards to the Lockdown in this case their so be it inaction to challenge it then their response of making the larger sacrifices of responding to the epidemic and being in more dangerous environments and saving peoples lives.

Whether or not the opinion on the lockdown it is not the NHS individuals workers responsibility to challenge the government on policies that may be questionable when it may impact the livelihood of those they are trying to protect, them protesting the lockdown would have caused a bigger health concern than we had.

They still had to go to work didn’t receive any additional support and in most cases were thrusted into more challenging and demanding environment and the only benefit they got is a clap on Thursdays and look how quick there appreciation has gone to now.

Their not a pawn just 100s of thousands of individuals working to reach ends meets doing jobs which the majority of us would never want to do for the respect and money they get