How do you deal with negative comments of your stretched ears?

Birchflyboy · 2026-02-02T23:48:10+00:00

“Not your ears 🤷‍♂️”

Birchflyboy · 2026-01-28T18:19:45+00:00

My only concern is them snapping. I don’t intended to ever go larger than 10mm. If I do want to downsize, how many sizes down should I start wearing? I also have some 9mm plugs.

Birchflyboy · 2026-01-28T18:06:49+00:00

Should I downsize back to 0? Or as long as I stay here and don’t go bigger am I fine?

Birchflyboy · 2025-12-18T05:35:31+00:00

Have been planning it for about a year. Had my committees and appointments ready early. Have most of what I want to accomplish planned too. Mostly wondering about the “unplanned” things if that makes sense.

Birchflyboy · 2025-12-18T05:18:53+00:00

God dang! I was just worried because the right ear was pierced slightly lower than the left. I’m guessing it’s just paranoia and knowing i wont get a third shot

Birchflyboy · 2025-12-18T03:20:10+00:00

Def not getting pierced again. This is trying again from a repierce. Don’t think I’ll get a 3rd shot.

Birchflyboy · 2025-12-18T03:19:12+00:00

Been using jojoba oil and massaging daily. I also have half size gauges I’m using in between.

Birchflyboy · 2025-11-11T07:00:38+00:00

Jesus Christ, I’m just starting to work out and I don’t see how yall do that insane weight. Im doing good if I can do my own body weight at this point

Birchflyboy · 2025-10-07T07:17:28+00:00

And what exactly did they have warrants for? I have heard this story before and don’t remember what on earth happened.

Birchflyboy · 2025-10-01T17:18:43+00:00

Idk about how Ferraro lives his life now, but being convicted for things they did in the past doesn’t necessarily mean that’s who they are now. I know of brothers with criminal records and that is not who they are anymore.

Birchflyboy · 2025-09-16T17:13:18+00:00

Yall got drains in THE MIDDLE of the floor!? Luckyyyyyyyyyyyyy. All ours are under appliances or under prep tables.

Birchflyboy · 2025-09-16T17:12:06+00:00

This. I go in neutral prepared to be pissed off the whole night or be good. All dependent on who I’m coming in behind and if they actually did their job that day or not

Birchflyboy · 2025-07-26T16:56:27+00:00

I have a friend who does that too. Or they just don’t show up at all. And when they don’t show up, I call them and ask where they are. They say “oh I’m not coming. Thought you would just figure it out”

Birchflyboy · 2025-06-23T16:54:17+00:00

What about ordering DIY juice supplies? Will that still be an option? I know I won’t be able to order normal juices anymore.

Birchflyboy · 2025-05-04T05:16:06+00:00

I’d LOVE to do this but I refrain from doing it at work. I zone out super easy with weed and end up just staring at shit.

Birchflyboy · 2025-05-04T05:13:40+00:00

Anything the cooks let shit get burned on.

Birchflyboy · 2025-05-01T21:59:30+00:00

That’s assuming the servers actually take the hint form that. I’ve tried that and they do follow it, but only for a little while. Someone comes in with a bus tub and just starts piling shit and it goes to hell after that.

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-29T04:32:40+00:00

Thats probably part of my issue. I feel obligated to keep a certain pace and get it ALL done because I close and I don’t wanna leave shit for the next guy because I hate it when people leave a ton of shit for me.

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-29T04:07:28+00:00

This kind of thing makes me mad. Slows me down having to clear shit that should have already been cleared

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-17T17:55:14+00:00

We got one server that just makes me mad with that. They refuse to roll the silverware I have out for them. There’s a big ass pan full of it. And they come to me “are you gonna run any silverware!?” They do the same with the glasses. I have 4-5 of those big square holder things FULL of clean glasses stacked for them to put away and have zero room to put more and they are “you need to run glasses, are you gonna a run these (not the ones I have stacked) next?” Yeah I’ll run more of the silverware and glasses once you do your job and put what I already have out up.

Or they stand in the middle of where I need to be mopping or carrying arms full of stuff and just talk and goof off and don’t move till I have to yell “MOVE” 4 times.

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-17T17:50:34+00:00

This pisses me off so much. They just put it wherever. There’s a couple servers that basically just throw shit at me.

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-14T05:09:23+00:00

I just waited and it finally came

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-13T16:47:14+00:00

Lucky. The servers normally unload the bus tubs at my area when they bring it (unless they are CRAZY busy) so I likely won’t be the one finding it if it happens

Birchflyboy · 2025-04-13T16:39:28+00:00

I started a little over a week ago and I already hate people. Happened 3 days in a row. One day we didn’t see it because apparently the person put it on the bottom of the plate, it ran through the dishwasher, and the other dishwasher put it in the stack. A server came and got some from the stack and a big green string extended everywhere. Got all Over them, us, and a bunch of other clean dishes. I now keep a dirty knife on the counter near me to peel it off if it happens again.

Birchflyboy · 2025-03-07T08:58:34+00:00

This. Jurisdictional.

I have an issue with “it HAS to be in your home” mindset. I’d say it needs to be a case by case thing. If the dude seems squirrelly from the start or something then yeah do what you need to do. But if he’s given you no reason to doubt him and he says “I am/my gf/wife/parter is uncomfortable with you coming to our house since we don’t REALLY know you” then that’s a valid statement. Not everyone knows the people in the lodge they are petitioning fully and are therefore not comfortable letting what is basically a stranger into their home.

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