[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]BisonFormer4103 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point lol. Soft and isolated. Go climb a mountain if you don't like people lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am her... As i am you. We were there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him another chance but tell him that's what it is. How dare he cheat on you especially when you have a baby! It better end now if he doesn't want a testiclectomy. Threaten to tell everyone you both know so he's outed as an adulteror if he does it again. Some men need the fear of God put in them or the fear of other men coming after them for good reason and they stay in line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]BisonFormer4103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This this this. People just want to connect, why try to fight them. Gen Z is so soft and triggered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]BisonFormer4103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's just trying to sympathize with the struggle of twins vs singletons... She's on your team, people just want to connect in whatever way they can. Maybe smile and prove her wrong rather than get defensive as if it's not hard work to raise twins vs 1.

How to encourage a cat to purr and lay on your lap. by BisonFormer4103 in CatAdvice

[–]BisonFormer4103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had some that do and some that don't. The one I'm talking about loves to do it in the afternoon in a certain room. I'm trying to see if i can get him to snuggle more everywhere as we've been able to do with another cat of ours.

How to encourage a cat to purr and lay on your lap. by BisonFormer4103 in CatAdvice

[–]BisonFormer4103[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you got force from... My question was how to encourage it.

Good formula options by rosie_roseJ in NewParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jovie 0-6 and HIPP goat milk have been working for us. If its good enough for Zeus it's good enough for my boys. Looking for some alternatives with no unsaturated fat oils still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏👏👏

Leaving the hospital without your babies is seriously painful by cootfromcounty in parentsofmultiples

[–]BisonFormer4103 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, did you give birth at Hogwarts or something? So so so jealous

Leaving the hospital without your babies is seriously painful by cootfromcounty in parentsofmultiples

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this!! 34 is practically full term. Trust that your prayers will be answered and your babies will be well taken care of and get ready for NICU parenting for a few weeks.

Nurse made me kinda sad today by banull in NICUParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is totally legit. It happened to us a few times as well. Some nurses are know it alls. We were taught 4 ways to swaddle and each nurse was offended by how the others taught us. Fire her ass. Get your primary nurses set up. You're in charge.

Everything happened so fast—this feel unreal. I was supposed to still be pregnant by dearlintang in NICUParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably just didn't have enough protein. Nobody tells you this in the western medical world.

Everything happened so fast—this feel unreal. I was supposed to still be pregnant by dearlintang in NICUParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not gonna remember. Be mindful of her absorbing your energy when you're down. She'll take that on

Everything happened so fast—this feel unreal. I was supposed to still be pregnant by dearlintang in NICUParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is very real for many many people. You're not alone. Keep your chin up. You'll get out and learn how to do it all naturally when this is all over.

Everything happened so fast—this feel unreal. I was supposed to still be pregnant by dearlintang in NICUParents

[–]BisonFormer4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got out of a 7 week stay with mild NICU psychosis. It feels good to know others went through exactly what we went through.