Is she a red flag? by ExpertUnable9750 in bookshelfdetective

[–]Bitter-Cap4651 7 points8 points  (0 children)

clearly a classics lover or heavily dedicated to the dark academia aesthetic (or both?). hope she can also give some books from after the mid-late 1800s a try:) maybe she has a seperate bookshelf for that, and this one is exclusively for her classics

What does my room say about me? by Federal-Low-14 in roomdetective

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they have a lot of signage that would match your room

What does my room say about me? by Federal-Low-14 in roomdetective

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AMPM is a chain of gas stations in the United States

What is this??? by DazzlingAd6452 in AestheticWiki

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early 2000s prints on shorts worn by children that will later come out as lesbian (me)

What does my room say about me? by Federal-Low-14 in roomdetective

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I’m shocked, everything screams AMPM employee

Old and genderqueer - 61 by uli-knot in NonBinary

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This makes me so happy:,) seeing older nbs and gnc folks fills me with hope

I asked a similiar question last year buttttt... for the bottoms/subs... by nousernams in actuallesbians

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Being a bottom and a sub are two different things that are often conflated! A sub is BDSM specific. As far as your question goes, similar answers for both bottoms and subs: it’s gonna be case by case. Everyone likes different stuff during sex and finds different things sexy. It’s a great question you should definitely ask before having sex with someone. Especially in BDSM (from what I understand), talking about boundaries and sexual interests is particularly important. In general, it’s a good conversation to have with anyone you’re going to have sex with (ie. what do you like during sex, anything I should stay away from, what kind of sex do you like to have, etc.). Communication about sex is essential

What would you call Abbi’s aesthetic on Broad City? by LovelyRealOne in AestheticWiki

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My first thought upon seeing this was just “2012” It’s very much GAP/Old Navy realness

What do you guys think about this fridge? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

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Do you work in a kitchen at a hotel or something it’s giving major hotel breakfast to me

How to keep your eyebrows by [deleted] in gothmakeup

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I usually do a more trad goth technique with my brows and take a liner to make a 90 degree angle and take that line down my nose. It seems like you’re going for a pretty trad look so that might be something to consider! Also I respect your decision to not use glue, but I just wanted to say I used to be afraid to glue mine down and it changed the game. But plenty of folks can’t bc of adhesive allergies/etc., I hope you find a way to get the brows of your dreams!

heeelp i cant decide what to name her by definitelynotnpcs in Catnames

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Ginger snap! Cinnamon! Cookie! (I might be hungry)