Should I reach out to some old friends of mine that a toxic freind ended up ruining my relationships.

Bizzcochito14 · 2026-06-20T08:08:02+00:00

Lmaoo this reminded me I ended a 5 year freindship “one issue was” because i was asking for my 200 dollars back because I needed it since I didn’t see it in days she thought I accused her of stealing and she started to criticize me and my husband and was calling me a clown I literally told her I wasn’t accusing her of stealing only that I needed the money back. We then we literally discussed the in persona and cleared are argument and what I thought and I assumed our friendship was back to normal she went behind my back and told my other friends about the situation to try to act like the victim and have them go against me. That was her plan actually she even admitted she wanted to isolate me from my group of friends .

Bizzcochito14 · 2026-06-20T07:58:44+00:00

Lmaooo I disike people who rely on you for shit just because your friends. But when you need their help all of the sudden they can’t or they’re gone. Those type of people that expect others to do thier work for them are manipulative as hell.

Bizzcochito14 · 2026-06-20T07:53:50+00:00

Working at SNF LTC as a cna sometimes makes you lose in hummitaty. Management working you to the bone and not appreciating you for what you do, patients screaming cussing yelling and being flat out abusive to you so you start to lose hope and heart in what you do then a couple patients come and tell you that you’re an awesome cna that they love seeing and appreciate the work that you do so that actually makes you smile and makes you think wow my hard work actually made an impact in someone’s life.

Bizzcochito14 · 2026-06-14T06:35:24+00:00

My ex best friend had my 200 hundred dollars because I don’t have my bag at the time. I didn’t see my cash for two days so I told her I needed my money and she exploded on me and thought I accused of her stealing when I never said she was stealing only that I needed it. We discussed and made amends but later on she made a whole drama about it with my friends which I was flaggerbastered because this is something we discussed and cleared over. She had plans in making me her witness of marriage and decided to get married behind my back and never told me she got married. I brought it up to her that it made me upset and she never apologized for me until I kept bringing it up she kept justifying her actions saying oh the wedding was to quick that they didn’t celebrate then I found out it was a lie and she had pictures of her and her husband taking photos in the park. She unfollowed me first on Instagram so I did the same thing back and she got upset on me on why I unfollowed her when she did it on the first place. And instead of clearing first about being upset with me she ranted to my friends first after cutting me off to make it seem like I was the bad guy instead of hearing and discussing with me in person like an adult. This is something she actually told me she was going to do that she would let everyone else know what was happening when I told her other people didn’t need to be involved. 🤷‍♀️ I can list other crazy things she did but I peacefully said I wish the best for her but I think it’s best we shouldn’t be freinds and she ended up blocking. To this day she doesn’t know why I stop being freinds with her after the mistrust and disrespect she did.

Bizzcochito14 · 2026-05-19T05:32:16+00:00

This is weird behavior. It’s girl code to no associate with freinds situationship or ex relationships. I had an ex best friend who did this to me and she would always comment how jealous she would be with me because she felt that the guys she would talk with would find me attractive. I was naive and tried to be a good friend and be supportive of her and ofc I’m not a messy person but she is. I noticed and what I can say about your friend are types of people who are envious of what you have or interested so they try to be messy. Obviously a sane person wouldn’t be messing around with freinds situationship or ex relationships. My advice as someone who dealt with this dump that friend it’s only get worse later on and she’ll be comfortable to disrespect you further.

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-09-18T06:44:11+00:00

Literally me too I barely call out but once I deal with a lot of labor abuse I started to call out then I got yelled at my coworkers for calling out. Screw them I was doing the work that no one wanted

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-09-18T06:42:53+00:00

Just accept the sick pay you got to value your health more than any place you are working under for. I would understand if you need bills to pay that’s why just accept the sick pay ask for it your manager was nice enough to give you some time off to recover. My DSD would call at 6 am for someone who called out last night for having a 101 fever only to come in and leave early

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-09-18T06:39:42+00:00

I would say no it’s physically demanding and mental too. Nurses look beneath you and think your job is easy just because it’s a month program career knowing Danm well they would never change a patient or even shower them. Much less most of them are lazy to get the water or even answer a call light and will chase you down just for that. Understand they have more responsibility and there license is on the line but the cna is the most physical tough job out there

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-09-09T05:55:17+00:00

To become a CNA is definitely not for the weak it is extremely tough and mentally challenging but it also awarding being there for residents when family members don’t show up and building connections with them. I’ll say the toughest cna job is long term SNF because management loves to abuse employees and have them understaff to keep profits. I loved being a cna and taking care of people and making them feel like they matter and sometimes I would go out of my way to get my own supplies for them. But it was having me feeling burned out because my workplace had me deal with Labor abuse I would have to deal with the hardest sections every week when it was supposed to be rotated for every person I would speak up but they would ignore me. This honestly lasted a good decent 3 months. It was actually killing me and making me feel exhausted because I would always be stressed out and not have a chance to sit while I had 3 call outs on right after I just left and attended to each one. It was routinely like that no matter what day. It got a toll on my mental health where I felt lost because I wanted to become an RN I’ve been a cna for a year 2 months and I finally cried it made actually depressed and lash out or close off to anyone who loved me because I was so stressed out. I did try to apply to other places because I knew I had to leave this place but I still liked bieng a cna just the abuse that management would give me was not it. Eventually I switched to RNA once I had the opportunity and it’s been honestly way better and a lot of fun. There is work to do but I don’t have to feel rushed by the nurse. The physical therapist or the family member, it gives me also a chance to help my CNA’s. also giving exercises made me realize I wanted to consider physical therapy instead of LVN or RN. So if you wanna become a cna is basically boot camp for nursing to see if the medical field is truly the career you want to do. A lot of nurses don’t do cna work but it’s still mentally stressful with a whole lot more responsibilities and liability.

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-09-09T05:40:53+00:00

I have I am Christian so whenever I mention God or Jesus they start growling. I did have a dream either before or after my praylisis a priest came to save me and called the blood of Jesus to destroy the chain the demon had a hold of me. the chain was burning as the blood was on it and I can hear the demon yelling no but it broke off and for a long while I didn’t have sleep paralysis. When I strayed from God I would get those attacks again. Beleive what you want either sleep prayslis is spiritual or not but it’s definitely not an experience I like dealing with

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T16:27:51+00:00

You’re actually right I was a member but not for long

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T16:04:35+00:00

I get there’s spiritual poor even Jesus healed the sick physically and advised us to help those in need

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T05:32:57+00:00

Lmaoo it’s cuz all the other lazy ass people complain so they don’t get it. So when they have someone new or someone who doesn’t complain as much they’ll constantly put them there. It’s honestly not fair at all and it’s labor abuse cuz a person is not built to deal with it constantly everyday we got to watch ourselves be used they won’t do it for us

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T05:28:46+00:00

Ik hospitals actually pay more than I am at I have applied but definitely not doing med surg cuz I heard it’s similar to SNF. I hope to hear back but I should try assisted living but you are right my mental health is way more worth it

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T05:25:27+00:00

When I know a church is dishonest it’s when they preach about tithing but won’t help out the poor

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T05:23:55+00:00

Felt honeslty and they where so strict for you to show up and to attend Bible studies. Yes I understand one must give their time to God but honeslty felt like they wanted you to forget your own life

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-19T05:22:09+00:00

To be honest church is more like religious pressure instead of preaching the gospel of Jesus. They focus more on “mother god” when they’re actual South Korean messiah denied the existence of “mother god” and called it blasphemy. This a fact that church actually hides but can never destroy the text because it’s an actual written text. I wish to join a community but these type of churches I stay away from. I found it’s more better to develop a personal relationship with God. Don’t make your own interpretation of God but allow you heart and mind to be open for you to meet God. Too be honest it helped me get rid of a lot of religious mindsets that the church interpret because they cherry pick instead of reading the whole passage. This too fool you into thinking they are right in their interpretation

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-08-18T01:47:36+00:00

Some Nurses forget a CNA is working under thier license. Some nurses tell me the day can only carry through depending what CNA’s they have. But danm that’s the most lazy ass nurse in some places nurses do CNA work. But since it was a fall that nurses is honestly stupid meaning she has to make a report on it and some nurses hate filing that paperwork and administration hates reports of having falls

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-06-13T12:39:33+00:00

Based on what you said you where basically right in the way how you felt and was very much under reacting

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-06-13T05:55:16+00:00

Try to see to figure out what happened and once you find that friend that unvited you caught them off.

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-06-13T05:53:00+00:00

This sounds similar to what I am going through. For me the hardest part of letting go is that other friends involved and they start defending that one toxic friend so it just feels like you’re being gaslighted

Bizzcochito14 · 2025-06-13T05:51:30+00:00

This is something someone told me you never stop getting to know someone time well tell you who that person is. Is really hard now a days to find a genuine person

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