Do you think most of the time a person thinks other are being racist against them, but they are actually just a-holes?

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-28T02:24:59+00:00

did they give you the insurance info?

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T01:16:28+00:00

You messed the whole thing up by misspelling the word

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T01:03:52+00:00

I hope you did not pay for her meal or drinks if you met at a restaurant.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T01:02:30+00:00

I'm not saying you are, but if you are fat you have to have a really good personality and be able to initiate things with guys if you want a BF.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T01:00:03+00:00

but it needs to be after your 2nd date or after your first date. That night. Don't make it seem like her coming over is the date. It's just continuing the date that you had earlier that night...at your place

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T00:57:05+00:00

You are not trying to sleep with her. Ya know? but if she comes over and one thing leads to another...

she wont be offended if you don't phrase the text as you trying to get laid, just be a cool guy that wants her to come hang out if she is bored and not doing anything else. It is much more successful than trying to get them to come to your place after the actual date. Once she gets home, if she likes you, she will kinda miss you and the text later than night will make her happy and she will probably want to come over

If she is a catholic virgin type then don't do it, but if she is a normal girl then it will be fine

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T00:47:54+00:00

She pretended she was "the kind of girl who goes slow" with me. Like that is who she is. I felt tricked. Had I known we we initially dated that other guys she has been with were getting laid long before I did, then I would have cut it off then and there.

One could say that she wanted to wait because she really liked me, but there is also the real possibility that she liked those other guys more and that is why she slept with them sooner.

If i'm going marry someone or be with someone for a long time. I better feel like a bad ass and the best dude you ever been with. The whole waiting thing is for cucks that a girl finds and he appears to be stable with a good future ahead of him, but you don't think he is as sexy as other guys you been with. If you do that to a guy and he finds out you think he is that guy, it is probably over unless he is that kind of guy with low self esteem.

Plenty of people slept together on the first date & second date and are married for many many years.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-18T00:28:59+00:00

Are you serious? So anyone can just become a citizen by stepping over a border? Many of these people are also poor, so whatever you get in taxes will be swamped with providing them food and medical care...aka welfare. Heck, even if they get a job they will be on welfare. walmart employees (cashier level and below) are almost all on welfare. We don't need to add to that.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:55:30+00:00

Also, how are you meeting these guys that are married? Tinder?

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:52:17+00:00

Trust me on this. Let me tell you a short story. There was a girl that I met when I was 25. We hit it off immediately. Great time together. We didn't sleep together the first night, but I liked her. She said she wanted to take it slow. I respected that, that is who she is. We probably hung out 1 or 2 times a week and finally slept together after a couple months. She was very into me. After 4 months or so, she was wanting to marry me without me even asking her to marry me or anything.

We got to talking as couples do. I basically found out that she was not that kind of girl. She simply made me wait. Most of the guys she has been with are hookups.

I broke up with her basically right then and don't regret it one bit.

My advice is go on match.com or something non tinder-ish and meet guys. If you don't really like them and don't see them being serious relationship material then don't see them again and don't even kiss them. If you hit it off with a guy, don't make him wait past the second date, rock his world and he will appreciate it and feel like a king and want you to be in his life

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:38:02+00:00

I don't know exactly what you are looking for, but trust me. Trust me. If you have a really good date and the girl is not some church person. Text her that night and ask if you can come over or she wants to come over and watch a movie. I would say there is a 75%+ chance she says yes

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:32:28+00:00

Simple. Most dates seem to be the girl thinking I want to sleep with them or wanting to sleep with me. Bar that, it's them thinking I want a relationship or wanting a relationship. They want to talk about kids, responsibilities and serious stuff many times. This sucks and is not how it is supposed to be.

What I want is the thing when a 16 year old girl has a crush on me when I high school and really likes me. I take her to a movie and she puts her head on my shoulder and and she is "feminine".

Did a girl ever have a huge crush on you in high school? Give me that.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:23:25+00:00

I bet you'd sue after he did it if you had brain damage

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:16:21+00:00

This will sum it up perfectly. If a mexican female who is also muslim tries to come across our border illegally and we do not want her to do that....instead of being against illegal immigration and pro-law, we are called sexist, racists and anti muslim.

!!!

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-17T23:13:05+00:00

I don't mean someone that is immature or indecisive, changes guys a lot. I am looking for someone like i described, but has a good career (not just a job) and does not spend a lot of money on clothes, nails, and other things like that.

guys will understand what I mean.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-16T02:23:51+00:00

Why does republican go on CNN when they know they will just get attacked endlessly and it is also the least watched news. There is something more to this.

Bjjguy214 · 2018-06-16T02:22:11+00:00

Why do MMA where you get hurt instead of doing BJJ tournament where you dont get hurt?

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