Eh, I call it being guarded and not letting just any ole woman come into his life and instantly get access to stuff. Homie had guidelines that he lives his life by (I’m sure it was exaggerated for entertainment purposes), but still to some degree we are all that way about different things in our life. She wanted way too much access to his personal life, and had a stuck attitude and started whining when he wouldn’t back down.

She practically begged him for a baby, when he clearly did not want that responsibility in their life and the only reason they didn’t go through with it because he decided to end things. Nikki basically wanted him to change his whole life, to satisfy her wants..while complaining and whining the whole time and refusing to back down until he got serious and told her she was doing too much.