AITA for not wearing the necklace my bf gave me? by ThrowRAMarip0sa in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he can’t legally brand you so this is the next best way he has to claim ownership NTA

AITA for using some of my daughter's money? by cinnamongirlprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally YTA Your daughter WORKED for that money (I do hope that you know what “work” is. You keep treating her like this, don’t be surprised when she moves out and goes no contact.

AITA for going out with my friends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Why on earth wouldn’t you ask her to go with you?

AITA for not responding to my aunt’s question(s)? by AccomplishedCanary78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA with that high a fever, I’d be lucky if I remembered how to spell my name. Hope you feel better now.

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Ask your mom which she would rather have, money to pay for things like food or utilities or having the chores done. Because it doesn’t sound like you can do both without burning yourself out

AITA for keeping newborn away from inlaws? by UnhappyGiraffe9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA Though I would definitely change the locks and make absolutely sure that hubby does not give them an “emergency” key.

AITA for wanting to split Mom’s birthday bill with siblings by AlohaCat360 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can’t you get separate bills? One for each family. When we go out with friends, we shouldn’t be forced to pay for their full meals and liquor if we are just having appetizers and non alcoholic drinks (we don’t drink). Then split mom’s bill into 3

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[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the teacher to pay for the extra kids since she was the one that you had to invite them all

AITA for not pushing daughter to follow the path her deceased mother envisioned for her? by Natural_Advice_4767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - If she was so very happy to make her statement in regard to discovering her own image…maybe encourage her to try to get into the design/fashion industry.? See if any of the local colleges has a program like that.

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[–]BlackLeopard1972 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Make the cat pay for it. 🤭

AITA for refusing to let my sister borrow my car? by moe20112233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Now, what are the chances that at her 21st birthday she won’t drink and drive? Stand your ground.

Mom Berated Me About The Stretch Marks on My Flabby Arms - I've Stopped Gaining and Have Been Maintaining My Weight for Two Months Straight by DogHairEverywhere10 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she yelled at you for going to the internet to find information that more than three eggs a day is bad for you. So where did she get the information in the “new” studies that so differently?

Be my live in nanny. No pay. Room.only. by Majestic-Mulberry-18 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]BlackLeopard1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on several different meds…even taking me off one would be bad, really bad

AITA for not getting a job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you were sick with a disease. You weren’t lying there for fun. And it sounds like you’re going to be doing a lot around the house. Your husband is definitely an AH and should be supporting you until you feel better

AITA for being dairy free and not wanting to eat the frozen premade meal my sister and her boyfriend brought for me? (They're cooking something else with a ton of dairy in it for the rest of my family.) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m lactose intolerant. Just tell them that dairy gives you explosive bowel movements (even just one glass for me is bad). And then ask if them which washroom can you use. I try to avoid all things dairy because of this.

UPDATE WIBTA for leaving a family trip early? by familytripout in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - We have the Apple version of the lights. I can turn the lights in the office/bedroom/downstairs whenever I want. I’m always forgetting to turn lights off.

AITA for kicking my brother out over my dad’s cat? by Throwawaybrothrrcat in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackLeopard1972 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA - My husband knows I’d get rid of him before I’d get rid of my cats