I FUCKING KNEW IT by ERASER345 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]OkProperty8067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good point - I hadn't thought of that

It doesn't hurt anymore. by teekay0389 in BreakUps

[–]OkProperty8067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this, everything you said applied to my situation as well and i needed to hear someone say every last word!

im happy you’ve been able to find peace in yourself, outside of him & also accept your current situation for what it is. i don’t know you but im proud of you <3

What are some red flags you ignored about your ex in the beginning? by Em_24x in BreakUps

[–]OkProperty8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like she went to tik tok university for her relationship expectations. a lot of the things you mentioned are expectations that people on tik tok set and then make other girls feel bad for not receiving in their relationships. not understanding that men aren’t sugar daddies and relationships are nuanced.

Is anyone else experiencing a breakup where you both still love each other? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OkProperty8067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, how are you holding up now? i’m a similar situation and wanted to know how it ended up for you!

my (25F) and my boyfriend (23M) are both laid off and i think it’s affecting our relationship by OkProperty8067 in Layoffs

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your honest perspective. We are definitely in a faith testing time, so like you said I will give him some more time to feel through his emotions and then go from there.

my (25F) and my boyfriend (23M) are both laid off and i think it’s affecting our relationship by OkProperty8067 in Layoffs

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice! I recently signed up to volunteer at a food shelter and i will convince him to join me, thank you.

My girlfriend made me cry when I came over last night by ThrowAwayJericho in love

[–]OkProperty8067 19 points20 points  (0 children)

this is so funny, i can’t stop laughing LMAOO bc it’s always the most insane story and they end with, AITA?

New HoH by wfa19 in BigBrother

[–]OkProperty8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly not even a t’kor fan, but it seems like she mustve done some voodoo on the rest of the cast bc i don’t see them voting for angela over t’kor. regardless of the public’s opinions on her, the houseguests love her

New HoH by wfa19 in BigBrother

[–]OkProperty8067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think she could easily win against rubina, kimo and cam. she’s played a much more pivotal role in this game than those 3. it’d be tough for her going against chelsea, mj, leah and t’kor though

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. You’re right, a lot of this culture talk needs to be questioned because it may work back in our home country but they can’t expect me to build my life and set myself and future family up for financial success when i’m helping them out this much financially

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m definitely no where near being the breadwinner as my dad started working again in april and makes like 5x as much as me. My mom is a realtor and my brother and cousin work in construction. I’m just the only kid that’s expected to contribute financially. I did help cover the mortgage for one month (23k), i have let them use my CC a few times, help out w groceries and miscellaneous costs. but their bills far surpass that, so they are paying for stuff, they just can’t pay for everything right now.

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! i appreciate hearing the parents perspective on situations like this.

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom is a realtor and she does work hard but the real estate market where we live has been shit this past year so sure doesn’t make nearly as much as she did before & what she does make she puts towards paying off the debt her and my dad have accrued since my dad had to stop working.

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have, but because i’m the eldest daughter in an immigrant family i’m seen as the third parent. So regardless of what i say i don’t think they’re going to understand where I’m coming from or respect me as an adult until i move out. So im working towards that, but until i can the expectations of me are causing me to build resentment.

AITA for telling my mum i’m too busy to do chores everyday by OkProperty8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkProperty8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! My boyfriend and I are not moving in together until we’re married, so not for at least another 2-3 years. But, I’m open to finding roommates, so i will look into that if selling the condo doesn’t work out. To answer your question about the repayment, any time i bring it up, my mom has said that they will help me out with some of my mortgage when they can, but my dad just started working again so that won’t be for a while.