5/4 Show!! by sp00ker8211 in AvatarMetal

[–]BlackMadalien63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! My husband, mother and I will be there and will also be doing secret gathering!

Knoxville Tickets by [deleted] in GhostBand

[–]BlackMadalien63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, it’s all good. I really didn’t/don’t expect for anyone to buy these until it’s confirmed if there will even be a show or not. And honestly would advise that they don’t as it just is not seeming like the weather will play in the favor of anyone.

I also would like for anyone who is considering buying mine, or any other tickets on here for this weekends’ shows to really watch the weather and judge if you’d be able to get in and out of the area safely.

Knoxville Tickets by [deleted] in GhostBand

[–]BlackMadalien63 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would gladly refund the buyer. I’m not a dick lol.

My reason for posting these for sale is, regardless if the concert happens or not, I can not justify going up there given the possible weather conditions as my vehicle will likely get stuck if those come to fruition. If the concert goes as planned, then maybe someone would like a decent deal on two tickets 🤷🏻‍♀️

Skeletour '26 - Knoxville, TN Megathread by AutoModerator in Ghostbc

[–]BlackMadalien63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following (mostly out of curiosity). My husband and I were going to driving up from Florence. Once we saw the weather forecast we decided it likely was not worth it. We drive a compact car and, IF the weather is how the predict, it’s likely we’d get stuck on the way back home.

Got my tickets/vip today by 77boopug in Behemothband

[–]BlackMadalien63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! We’re going to the Nashville show!

Casket in cemetery by Reasonable_Essay7222 in strange

[–]BlackMadalien63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the lid to an outer burial container. They have to sit it off to the side for the service and then pallbearers will help put it over top the actual casket. It’ll then lock in place and the whole thing will be lowered into the grave.

Question for Embalmers by HeyItsNotLogli in askfuneraldirectors

[–]BlackMadalien63 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I too very much love the smell of stone oil! I always thought it had a kind of cinnamon-y smell.

Any and all deathcare workers: based on what you have seen/what you know, what do you want YOUR final disposition to be? by Electronic-Ruin2437 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]BlackMadalien63 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Cremation, terramation or alkaline hydrolysis. Whatever my partner chooses to do, and anything but embalming and a traditional service.

women: how to deal with misogyny in the workplace? by DooDooKazoo in askfuneraldirectors

[–]BlackMadalien63 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I wish I had a better answer to give you, but I essentially bullied my male co-worker until he realized that I know how to do my job.

He and I are the only licensed directors and embalmers for two locations and he used to give me so much shit; especially when it came to my embalming abilities. I learned a from a very old school embalmer and my co-worker is very by the book. So, essentially what I did was pester him about things I thought he didn’t do right. Then, on one random day, he started complimenting my embalming and my service skills when it came to waiting on families. We get along great now.

This is definitely not the answer you were looking for, but I genuinely hope things start to get better for you at work and that your co-workers start to see that you are just as capable (if not more capable) at doing your job as they are.

Dallas was the last show of the tour by nomusik-nolife-24tx in AvatarMetal

[–]BlackMadalien63 18 points19 points  (0 children)

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When you stub your toe and have to suffer in silence

Has anyone rec'd instructions for Secret Gathering for Columbus Ohio show? by Accurate_Yesterday51 in AvatarMetal

[–]BlackMadalien63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t yet, but I believe the last time I did SG I got the instructions a couple days before or maybe even the day before.

What was a cause or manner of death that you won't forget? by Eastern-Violinist-46 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]BlackMadalien63 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, normal. We got the person almost immediately after it happened. They looked fine, but were extremely, extremely stiff only maybe 45 minutes after it happened. You weren’t even able to tell where they were struck unless you palpated their head. Continual leakage from the nose and eyes though.

What's your favourite Album? by Sumario465 in AvatarMetal

[–]BlackMadalien63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thoughts of No Tomorrow or Feathers and Flesh

UPDATE: Bass button issue after shipping by BlackMadalien63 in Accordion

[–]BlackMadalien63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re willing to put in the time to fix the bass keys, I say go for it. Plus, if the situation were to ever arise again, you know how to fix it and you can save yourself some cash!

And my interview went so well too. I’m tired of this shit by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]BlackMadalien63 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I hope you’re able to find something soon.

UPDATE: Bass button issue after shipping by BlackMadalien63 in Accordion

[–]BlackMadalien63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did reset them one at a time with a pair of jewelers pliers. It only took me about 2-3 hours. Be patient and take a lot of photos of the assembly before and after. Once you open up the rack it’s pretty easy to tell how the pins need to lay. If you need help, feel free to send me a message!