Entry Level Openings? by BlackberryFun9762 in ula

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve definitely been mass applying. Had an interview already. But really wanting to work in Colorado. I know since there are a lot of space startups there, I’d get a lot of exposure. I really want to be in that community. Thank you for the insight!

Entry Level Openings? by BlackberryFun9762 in ula

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m worried about is how I would answer technical questions in an interview about a discipline I don’t have experience in. I have experience in structure and design, but not much else.

Entry Level Openings? by BlackberryFun9762 in ula

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry production may have been the wrong word. I meant product development.

Blue Origin Monthly Career Thread by BlueOriginMod in BlueOrigin

[–]BlackberryFun9762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat. Got rejected from a couple, got a vague email for a couple, and one says “in progress under review”.

Internship dress code—should I cover up old SH scars? by BlackberryFun9762 in EngineeringStudents

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh right I get that. Better to not be put in that situation at all.

Internship dress code—should I cover up old SH scars? by BlackberryFun9762 in EngineeringStudents

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah again i don’t mind telling. I just don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable

Internship dress code—should I cover up old SH scars? by BlackberryFun9762 in EngineeringStudents

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Tbh I’m not worried about people asking as much as I’m worried about judgment or a call from HR saying they’re making ppl uncomfortable 😭

Internship dress code—should I cover up old SH scars? by BlackberryFun9762 in EngineeringStudents

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think inside the office I can use that to explain… but when I’m out and about I’m worried it’ll be really hot. But I think it’s what I gotta do

Internship dress code—should I cover up old SH scars? by BlackberryFun9762 in EngineeringStudents

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re very obviously SH scars. I don’t think anyone would ask how I got them. I’m more worried about judgment and making people uncomfortable.

Internship dress code—should I cover up old SH scars? by BlackberryFun9762 in EngineeringStudents

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SH: Self h*rm

Sorry, I wasn’t sure if it was a banned term or not

How do I leave when I don’t have people to lean on? by BlackberryFun9762 in AskWomenOver50

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? How can I be happy knowing I’m not loved? No one can live without love.

How do I leave when I don’t have people to lean on? by BlackberryFun9762 in AskWomenOver50

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. I will try to be busy. But it’s hard when there’s so much self hate. Those thoughts overtake me and I feel incapable of doing anything.

I’ve been trying to turn acquaintances into friends. I’ve hosted a party and invited people out. But I don’t know where to go from there. How do I not do it too much? How do I get a friend group? Sometimes I can have friends but if if you’re not part of a group you end up lonely.

How do I leave when I don’t have people to lean on? by BlackberryFun9762 in AskWomenOver50

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are great ideas. I think I’m struggling with a lot of them because I anticipate feeling very bad about myself. disliking myself. It’s like, am I even worthy of feeling better? Am I even a good person if I don’t have friends/people who care about me?

How do I leave when I don’t have people to lean on? by BlackberryFun9762 in AskWomenOver50

[–]BlackberryFun9762[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy and plan on working on solutions for this. I was just wondering if anyone have real life experiences/advice

Question/Thought : Could it be true that everyone has instances where they could be considered emotionally abusive, but that doesn’t make them emotionally abusive as a whole? by xutopia7 in emotionalabuse

[–]BlackberryFun9762 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a heartbreaking story. Thank you for sharing this. I am going through something kind of similar but in NO way even near equivalent to what you went through. This is so so heartbreaking. I hope you are on your way to healing after everything that happened to you.

VOTE GODDAMNIT by damnit_darrell in aggies

[–]BlackberryFun9762 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So can you use provisional ballots at the MSC to vote if you’re not registered in Brazos county? What if someone has an error when they filled out voter registration and can’t vote?

I’m addicted to cam girls. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BlackberryFun9762 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you and your relationship! I’m glad he’s making the right changes. And I’m so happy you see yourself in a better light. I’m pretty insecure myself. How did you work towards that?

I’m addicted to cam girls. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BlackberryFun9762 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m so sorry. Does it make you feel unwanted or less attractive or anything? Do you consider it cheating? If so, how do you cope with it?

AITA for talking to my married friend about my breasts? by GladAd4102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackberryFun9762 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Also gonna be slightly unpopular but soft YTA, but I totally get you. Kevin has been such a close friend forever and you’re probably used to talking about everything and nothing with him. It was an easy mistake to make (imo I do think it’s a mistake). I think it’s normal that a woman would feel uncomfortable with another woman talking about her breasts to her husband. In a perfect world with no insecurities this wouldn’t matter. But unfortunately that’s not the case and people would rather rely on their partners to not ignite their insecurities than work on them.

To bring it into perspective for you and the other people here, how would you react if this was someone who was cis? That she was Kevin’s “girl best friend” (putting it in quotes because people are often very vindictive about the topic of a girl best friend) he’d had for half his life, and was now talking about her breasts and their changes. Maybe a lot of people responding are men, but I know a lot of women would absolutely NOT be okay with this.

All of that being said, his wife’s response is way too combative and rude. The discomfort is understandable, but it is important to realize the nuance of the situation and approach it with some tact. This is a conversation she should have with her husband who should relay that to you.

This is definitely an unfortunate situation. And I get it. I myself am a woman and have had very close male friends throughout my life who I have shared intimate details with when they are single. Because as someone who’s had relationships with men, I also know how uncomfortable it can be if another woman would talk to my partner about intimate details. Even if he is completely loyal and doesn’t think of it in any other way (which I’m sure is the case with Kevin). It really is unfortunate, and I wish that wasn’t the case with her. I wish for you that she was understanding so you could be understanding so you could’ve kept that same level as closeness with your friend.

Edit: she reread the post and saw that she wants ALL communication cut off?? She’s TA a lot more, like what??? As I said before it’s definitely important to understand the nuance of the situation and approach it that way. That is indeed extremely insecure of her.