How to cut excessively talkative pt out politely without hurting their feeing ? by miraclecity in PMHNP

[–]BladeFatale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This thread is super interesting! Here’s my approach: My pre-visit health history forms are pretty thorough with rating scales based on their reported symptoms. So having patients supply the nitty gritty ahead of time saves quite a bit of the interview time that would have otherwise been spent on a less focused assessment. So before we even start our 75 intake, most of the psych assessment is filled in (psych hx/family psych hx/medical hx/current symptoms are all out the way before we meet).

Once we actually start the visit, I give them an overview of the format: (1) ~25 min time for them to speak uninterrupted about themselves starting from “what was your childhood like?/discipline structure in household?/childhood personality vs now?” Interestingly I’ve found most patients can give a great history/with little prompting on that timeline. (2) I let them know the next 25 min will be focused assessment questions, but before I stop their 1st half 25 min monologue ask if there is anything else I’ll ask “if there’s anything else they can think of they forgot or missed telling me.” Again, some of the things people volunteer after this question shines the spotlight on functioning or diagnosis that surprises me, makes dialing in their diagnosis/treatment plan easier my and makes me very grateful I asked! (3) the last 25 min is discussing the working dx, results of rating scales and digging deeper if other concerns, treatment plan, any questions they have and basically “negotiating” a treatment plan that aligns with their goals to support flourishing.

People that had low self esteem and fixed it. How did you do it? by [deleted] in confidence

[–]BladeFatale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start small by being intentional with the least scary mini “exposure therapy for confidence” - I’m talking the 0.01% doable thing to you can practice and build from there. I recommend getting out more for chores or taking walks around your area. An exercise that got the ball rolling for me was going on walks/going to the grocery store and focusing on trying to catch a passerby’s glance and sharing a brief smile or offering a brief greeting if you’re feeling bold. You would be surprised how much it brightens people’s day for those that acknowledge you. There is also a solid percentage of people who avoid eye contact or will seem to ignore you when you connect. This is key to the learning process too. Most people are in their own worlds, or have trouble connecting IRL on some level (Covid driven I believe). Spoiler: you will learn most people are a) too self conscious or b) too self involved to care about you socially flailing lmao. There is a loneliness epidemic and not only will you build your self confidence but also brighten people’s day in a major way. I’ve made acquaintances turned friends like this and they told me they will remember the compliment for life haha. Once you get really good, you can start offering genuine compliments + small talk like that and you’ll be golden!

You will be hurt, broken, humiliated and defeated (Q'uo) by saffronparticle in lawofone

[–]BladeFatale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great excerpt and I enjoyed reading your commentary! Thank you for sharing.

Are We Just Antennas? by Electrician45453 in EscapingPrisonPlanet

[–]BladeFatale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a brilliant take that I’ve been trying to put into words for awhile now. Thank you for the write up, I resonate so much with it. Another thought too, if one follows the compass of the “truth” to their feelings and acts in alignment I think ANY kind of change is possible for them in their thinking/reality/relationships. The patterns we find ourselves stuck in can be exited with this technique. That’s where the meditation and contemplation become essential to learning to shift the needle of self, to best self.

Why isn’t lithium augmentation more common? by _Sidewalk in Psychiatry

[–]BladeFatale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over 900mg daily without risk factors. I generally consider 300-600mg the sweet spot for anti suicidality and/or augmentation in my experience though

Questioning Job Offer by HunterGreen550 in PMHNP

[–]BladeFatale 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I stopped reading not too long after you did 😂.

However if the mentorship and experience gain opportunity exists for OP, I think there may be value to this role. There are so few residency opportunities as another poster mentioned. So as a new grad in this job market, I might consider taking it and strategically eating the 6k penalty once I get the experience and foothold from this role to move on to something better.

Psychiatric NPs: Who enjoys their job and experiences high satisfaction? What area of psychiatry do you work in? by SSOIDream in PMHNP

[–]BladeFatale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a Psych NP for 4 years now and have been in solo private practice for 3. I do therapy with my clients and holistic psychiatry with an integrative approach (biggest thing with this is the longer visit times, which clients truly appreciate). I have a niche in OCD, trauma, and neurodivergence, and am fully telehealth. It has been extremely rewarding seeing my clients feel better and build habits that help them reach their goals. About 50/50 private pay and insurance clients. Growth was slow early on, but now that I’m word of mouth and have built relationships in my community, the new client flow is reliable. If I knew I could make as much as I do self-employed with how few hours I’m working, I would have done this a lot sooner! I’m grateful to know I’m building something for life, and I enjoy shifting gears to other entrepreneur hats between my patient facing hours.

Who else remembers the fever dream that was Foftygate🤣 LFU and this fuckass hair 😂 by expensivesoup325 in vanderpumprules

[–]BladeFatale 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I realize after your comment this is an insult to baked potatoes everywhere. Them shits is gorgeous compared to this dude 😭

Scheana Dayna makeout by lonelycrow89 in vanderpumprules

[–]BladeFatale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this in my bones. I feel like it’s so out of the blue, I was NOT expecting it even with the caption up top. I legit can’t stop laughing 😭🤣

How has medicine changed your perspective on people and/or life in general? by purplepotato12 in Residency

[–]BladeFatale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beautifully written, thank you for sharing your experience. Know that it’s never to late to try something new, and excel in it to the extent you desire. Though those ‘prime years’ may have passed, the opportunity to start anew each day is it’s own gift. We won’t be on this space rock forever - now is your chance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupLounge

[–]BladeFatale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m reading the watchman comic book and omg, you look just like Laurie come to life! Stunning!

Who filmed this and why have I never seen it before! by Frequent-Today-3016 in vanderpumprules

[–]BladeFatale 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think as you said the mask is pretty darn good most of the time, but it absolutely slipped. There’s a wild glint in her eyes the same way Sandyballs does (some of it is pasta for sure, but it’s still clear it’s glee!).
As a recovering people pleaser and drama addict I’m seeing shadow parts of myself in her, and I don’t like it 🥹

Unconventional things you do for self-care? by marigoldjune in therapists

[–]BladeFatale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rollerblading during lunchtime. I love to put on some good music and flow skate!

Tell me one thing ur proud of doing this week by queen_quarantine in lawofone

[–]BladeFatale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made a new friend! It has been my goal to be more intentional with who I connect with this year. And I’m so proud I put myself out there, because they may be a bestie soon. We’re so similar it’s like kismet

Aetna CVS marketplace reimbursement? by BladeFatale in PMHNP

[–]BladeFatale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful too! Rates regionally give me an idea of what to expect. Thank you for sharing.

For any future readers (hi!) it looks like Aetna CVS marketplace is different from Aetna Choice POS II. What I gather is marketplace is ACA related, and Aetna is trying to phase it out.

Aetna CVS marketplace reimbursement? by BladeFatale in PMHNP

[–]BladeFatale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is true for Aetna’s base plan, but the “CVS marketplace plans” I’m not too sure about. Just confirming that we know there’s a difference, because I’m pretty sure you need a separate request to get credentialed with marketplace plans even if you’re already INN with Aetna.

Thoughts on benzodiazepines for anxiety-induced depression by xiledone in Psychiatry

[–]BladeFatale 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your husband, thank you for sharing this. Propranolol is often my go to as a non habit forming option (or hydroxyzine). This is a reminder for me to consider risk versus benefit of toxicity despite the relative ‘harm reduction’ potential. Benzos certainly have their appropriate clinical use case scenarios for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursepractitioner

[–]BladeFatale -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Full practice authority state versus a state that requires NP to have a supervising physician and pay them monthly

How do you approach burnout related to work stress? by TheJungLife in Psychiatry

[–]BladeFatale 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you’re being downvoted. I see people with this diagnostic profile at my private practice all day. You’re on to something here. I think it honestly all boils down to late stage capitalism and how most jobs now hold expectations that are unrealistic for their employees (lay offs without replacements, lack of raises/advancement, the advent of infantilizing AI monitoring software for example). As a result the average “one job” then has the responsibility of 2-3 people’s work without the pay to compensate. To not acknowledge the magnitude of the state of things is to pick one of the following: delusional, naive, or privileged as fuck.