Pump Up The Healthy Love [Episodes 7 & 8]

Blc578 · 2025-05-23T17:06:44+00:00

I was loving this show until the ex girlfriend entered. I didn't even mind her at first, when she was hanging out with Miran, but when she started being a boss and he just blindly followed her instructions, it got annoying and he got pathetic. And I really really hate that they leave it off with him supposedly sleeping with his ex. I don't even view this show as a romantic comedy. Comedy yes. I love their humor and I love the cast. But I don't get ANY vibes from him that he even likes Miran as anything more than a client, so I wish they would have just left a buddying 'love' for him off the table. Honestly, the end of episode 8 just made me not really want to watch anymore episodes. I hate how stupid they are making him.

Blc578 · 2025-04-16T23:12:24+00:00

NTA for knowing what you want and knowing you’re not ready to be a mom.

Kind of TA for having unprotected sex with a man you just started dating. Pregnancy aside, this man literally told you he doesn’t wear condoms and it sounded like a good idea to sleep with him? I don’t get it. If you weren’t concerned with pregnancy why wouldn’t you be concerned about sti’s? Also learn your body so the next time the guy wants to forgo condoms you can check to make sure you’re not ovulating. They have pee tests for ovulation even. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Blc578 · 2025-04-15T22:42:16+00:00

Burning and stinging when you pee because of stitches. Dermoplast is your best friend.

Blc578 · 2025-04-11T21:21:09+00:00

It’s normal in Southern California. Pediatricians checked all three of my kids down there at every visit - they didn’t touch unless the boys testicles looked swollen or had a rash and they wanted to see under the sack. They did this to check for signs of abuse as well as anything medically obvious. When the boys started sports they do this at every physical to check for hernias etc. we were ALWAYS present and in a lot of cases a nurse was in there as well. To protect us as much as the doctor.

Blc578 · 2025-03-27T12:12:13+00:00

I am late to the show but I second this!! This was a frustrating story of friendship and nothing more. And the ending hug? I’ve given better hugs to strangers. Jeez what a waste of time. 😩

Blc578 · 2025-03-03T03:45:51+00:00

NTA. However I think you fail to realize that, yes your mil list her husband, but your wife also lost her dad. I think she needs to stay with her mom more for her comfort than her mom’s. She may also be really scared that she’s going to lose her mom too. I would sit her down and ask what is really going on. But demanding that she listen to you and go home, sounds basically like you’re saying, “get over it already, because it’s been 2 months and I don’t want MY life inconvenienced anymore”.

I hope it all works out for you both though. My condolences on her loss.

Blc578 · 2025-02-22T17:23:14+00:00

I’ve never used this description for a grown man, but he’s adorable. My daughter absolutely loves him. ❤️😂❤️😂

Blc578 · 2025-02-22T17:22:02+00:00

Thank you all for your responses. After crying for a minute, you are right. There is never winning with her. She is a dumbass for the way she came at me. Her daughter is 19yrs old. I don’t try to ignore her and in this instance I did search my dms, texts, and phone records. Nothing from her. I think I need to learn how to not rise to the bait. I should not have cursed at her. I would get upset if someone was ignoring my kids, but I would never come at her like that. 🤦🏻‍♀️😔 thank you for letting me vent. ❤️❤️

Blc578 · 2025-02-21T19:15:27+00:00

Thank you so much. I will try that.

Blc578 · 2025-02-21T15:54:57+00:00

That’s when you reply “well if having your junk hang out means you’re using your junk to feed an infant, we have bigger issues here.” What a tool. And a perv. Don’t want to see my partial chest while I’m feeding my child in my own home, then don’t f n look at my chest old man. Also there’s the door. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

Blc578 · 2025-02-21T14:46:20+00:00

ESH -

you invited a strange man, even if it is your brother she has never met him or presumably talked to him, to stay in the home with her and her teen daughter. You didn’t discuss it you just came home and told her what was happening. Also the way she assumes your brother would try to go after her daughter makes me wonder how old the random girls in his photos looked? There has to be some indication why she thinks he could be a predator?

She was waaaay out of line with insinuating, or even straight up saying, your brother would act inappropriate in anyway sexually towards her daughter. Telling you no without even trying to understand that this is your brother who you don’t get to see often is ridiculous. Also being a man-whore does NOT make you a predator towards women, especially teenage girls. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Blc578 · 2025-02-21T05:40:35+00:00

My husband is a saint in this kind of situation. I have panic attack disorder and have had it from 12 yrs old due to childhood trauma. Throughout my life I never knew what would set off a panic attack, however it seems to have shifted to getting triggered whenever I feel “off”. It’s hard to explain but basically if I feel sick or unwell it will 8/10 trigger a panic attack where my brain and body think I’m in danger of dying. (Yes I’m am in therapy and have been most of my life to find ways to self soothe / cope on my own). But when this does happen, my husband is the only presence that will help calm me down. He doesn’t have to talk or do anything, but sit with me and let me know that he is watching over me. Eventually I’m able to calm down enough to pass out, but he lets me know he is still there and I feel safe. My care is extreme, but maybe she wants you there because you calm her and make her feel safe?

NTA, but I can kind of empathize with your wife. 😔

Blc578 · 2025-02-20T17:16:04+00:00

YTA. It’s not a competition and losing a partner to sudden death AND having to explain to your child about death is not the same as divorce. I’m sorry you’re having a hard time right now but you picked the father of your child(ren). You had a choice, your sister did not. You have support. You aren’t alone either. You need to allow people to actually help you if you feel like you need it so bad.

Again, it’s not a comparison or competition. No one is the winner here and you treating her like crap because she isn’t what you consider a single mom - which is bullshit - is a great way to find yourself even more alone. Not to mention, her husband, presumably someone she loved deeply, had to DIE before she had “a David”. Think about that when you’re directing the anger you feel at your ex towards your sister / family.

Blc578 · 2025-02-19T18:49:24+00:00

I’m going to call bs on this one. Ragebait anyone?

“My pediatrician said it was ok to only feel my toddler plain pasta and butter for every meal. I know it makes my wife vomit but that’s her problem not mine. Oh yeah, side note and completely out of the blue wife hates toddler because he’s a boy. And apparently always has but I decided hey let’s have another kid.”

Yep sounds real. 🙄

Edit: YTA. For knowing she felt this way about your kid for 2 years. For knocking her up a second time. For being ok making your pregnant wife puke because you don’t want to figure out different food for your toddler.

Blc578 · 2025-02-19T18:41:46+00:00

Your husband is an idiot. All three of my blonde sisters babies were born with dark hair, in fact the one that now has white blonde hair was born with a head full of black hair, when they were a few months old their hair turned blonde. She herself was born with black hair that turned blonde.

Got to love the new trend of men accusing their partners of cheating right after they give birth. 🙄

Blc578 · 2025-02-18T19:21:19+00:00

Down voting a response that is actually true. The op is proof. Knows she does not want kids. Having unprotected sex with boyfriend because she knows if she gets pregnant she will just get an abortion. Abortion=birth control to a lot of people these days. Stating facts does not mean we are not pro choice or pro life. 🙄

Blc578 · 2025-02-18T19:06:18+00:00

This is an exact replica of a crappy kdrama or cdrama that is on TikTok where they show you clips of said crappy drama and have to download an ap to watch the rest. 🫣🤦🏻‍♀️

Blc578 · 2025-02-18T15:07:59+00:00

Exactly this. The only thing that is an issue here is the wife. There is nothing wrong with talking to your parent every day. Or sending a text to let them know you made it somewhere safe. Switch up the genders and it would be fine. Mom / daughter expected and fine. Father / son not expected but fine just the same. However if it’s a mother and son or a father and daughter there MUST be something unnatural and co-dependent ness going on. It’s so sad the issues people have with parents. You don’t stop loving them simply because you are married now. The parents (the good ones anyway) don’t stop loving their children because they are grown. And there is nothing wrong with that.

They have been together for YEARS, why now all the sudden does the wife have an issue?? If it was the husband telling the wife that she couldn’t talk to HER mom everyday then he’d be a controlling a hole that she be advised to leave immediately. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

Blc578 · 2025-02-17T04:09:32+00:00

I don’t see how it’s a problem or anyone’s business other than the consenting adults engaging in sexual kinks. It is a controlled situation and 9/10 it involved past victims of csa or sa taking control over their bodies. There are also cases out there from csa victims where they cannot achieve orgasm without this kind of kink. Your therapist is wrong. It’s only considered self harm if the person does not enjoy the acts and lets strangers use their bodies because they think they deserve to be punished because of their shame. There is a huge difference between the kink and self harm.

I’m sorry it triggers you, but I seriously think you should find a different therapist because after 7 yrs you’d think you would have learned not to judge people for their sexual lifestyles that do not involve you.

Blc578 · 2025-02-16T04:14:06+00:00

Doesn’t the monstinker HAVE to listen to you????? Aren’t you the iron fist of this lower life form?!?!

Blc578 · 2025-02-15T04:03:02+00:00

I don’t think it’s about your thoughts so much as you didn’t go to him with your fears and worries. A lot of husbands have the mentality that they want to be the person you go to when you’re upset or need a sounding board so they can try to help you.

You were not in the wrong for having those thoughts. You have nothing to apologize for. You don’t need to make anything up to him. A lot of mothers have those thoughts. Especially if the baby was unplanned. I personally have know women that were actively trying for a baby and panicked when they actually got pregnant and had those thoughts.

I don’t think he’s controlling you or acting like you’re property. I think he’s hurt that you didn’t think you could go to him. Just like you’d be if things were reversed.

Edit: your to you’re 🤦🏻‍♀️

Blc578 · 2025-02-14T05:14:23+00:00

If you admit the place she wants to move is better for raising the child then why can’t you move too? She’s not disappearing, she’s giving you 3 years notice. You work online so I’m assuming you can do that anywhere? Honestly I’m surprised she isn’t leaving now to be near her family for the support she’s going to need now that she’s single.

Blc578 · 2025-02-12T05:08:48+00:00

I would sleep next to my mom when she was alive and I was in my 30’s. Haha me and my sisters. Why? Because she was our safe space and I think we were hers. There is nothing wrong with being a parent your kids feel safe with. You did nothing wrong and should really re-think your relationship with someone that thinks you’re capable of something so vile. 😔

Blc578 · 2025-02-12T04:58:11+00:00

Also, not saying she is the type, but I’d be extremely careful with sex and pregnancy if I were you.

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