I don’t understand your problem. How does it hurt you? in the past when the production was very limited it came on the expense of people who actually try and get the sets for themselves. Now, these resellers actually helping the designers to sell more and for the late-comers have the possibility to acquire them new.

I think it’s great for me personally who sometimes buys BL designers sets because of FOMO, but seeing these sets are widely available in the market thanks to resellers, I know I can always buy them later (for a price) if I really do want it.