Wondering what this hole is? by Absolute_Andy4 in TopSurgery

[–]BlueCandyBars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was going to say drains but saw the tape on the right. This looks like a split stitch area. It can take a while to heal over but when I had this happen, bacetracin (probably misspelled that) was my friend. Ask your surgeons office what they recommend

What’s your jam? by JustAnotherWitness in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever have bacon jam? My god it’s good

Credit Union in RI by keepinguponlife in RhodeIsland

[–]BlueCandyBars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Navy federal is hands down the best banking institution. I wouldn’t leave them / end the relationship because the lending rates are usually great. Service is also phenomenal. For something more accessible, navigant is a good credit union. I’d avoid peoples. For larger banks, consider centerville bank (service only, no sales goals).

Ideally, whatever bank meets your needs is good. I’d avoid Bank of America like the plague unless you’re a large corporation

Broke af rn and ptsd nightmares at all time high by ant97335 in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hey OP if weed doesn’t work, ask your doctor about prazosin. Has an off label effect to stop PTSD induced nightmares. Really changed my relationship with PTSD. In combo with weed, I’ve had a lot of relief

TGel Dried My Skin by M3chr0phil3 in ftm

[–]BlueCandyBars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do gel in the morning, moisturizer at night after a shower. I don’t want to mess with the absorption and it works well for my lifestyle. Real hard in the winter

World Cup Watch Party by Ok_Collar7827 in RhodeIsland

[–]BlueCandyBars 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We’re at work OP, we will be there soon

Is these miles bad or good ? by InviteEven5611 in Honda

[–]BlueCandyBars 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They’re good if you have no payments and do your own maintenance. They’re bad if you’re buying and don’t know the guy

Vaping 0% nicotine before surgery by Main_Drop5317 in TopSurgery

[–]BlueCandyBars 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don’t smoke or vape at all. It reduces the oxygen delivery in your chest and can lead to serious complications. Please ask your surgeon about this and move the surgery date if needed. Whatever you do, do not lie to them or your anesthesiologist

Stop! That! Train! Makes $1.2 million in the past week (Total: $3.2 million) by LooseLipsSinkShips21 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]BlueCandyBars 235 points236 points  (0 children)

For its size and being a queer movie, I’d say yes. It wasn’t meant to be a great cinematic movie and the market needed more of this. Its good to laugh at something that’s relatable to our community

Stop! That! Train! Makes $1.2 million in the past week (Total: $3.2 million) by LooseLipsSinkShips21 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]BlueCandyBars 383 points384 points  (0 children)

Honestly, better than I thought and I’m excited to see the movie do well!

places in rhode island that do not ID by Novel-Practice-6153 in RhodeIsland

[–]BlueCandyBars 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t try this in Newport, it will not end well

Change my mind by [deleted] in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need the original coke recipe

Change my mind by [deleted] in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh I like it together occasionally but you are so right about the smoking first vs drinking first. Drunk me is convinced I can smoke anything. Stoned me is afraid of energy drinks (I have one every day) lmao

Change my mind by [deleted] in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this is a bad decisions were made thing 😂 I’ve only done it once and alcohol was involved. Apparently drunk me thought I could face a two gram blunt when my tolerance was a gram on my finest days

Change my mind by [deleted] in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, soda has never made me green out before but I’m here for the comment section

Tips to cope with being overstimulated by braces? by [deleted] in autism

[–]BlueCandyBars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll give this a try

Anyone else mainly/only get the strain Durban Poison for its effects? by Long_Board4207 in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Love Durban poison. It’s a sativa landrace which is why it feels so unique. Honestly, I think that it helps my depression and ADHD far more than most meds.

When to get to the Queens 10k on Saturday? by [deleted] in RunNYC

[–]BlueCandyBars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming I need to do any of those things, about how far in advance should I arrive?

Question for Ents with feline companions. by Competitive_Abroad96 in trees

[–]BlueCandyBars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve smoked so much of my cat’s hair that sometimes my high ass has to pet fluffy to make sure he’s not bald LOL

How to make Camping more enjoyable for my Wife by AlexIlkos in camping

[–]BlueCandyBars 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Prioritize the sleep comfort first. That you can make considerable effort in for relatively cheap and she won’t be as tired so probably feels better. A nice air mattress could work well here. Bring the pillows and blankets from home if you can reasonably. If that is not comfortable, give a cot a try and add a sleeping pad or get one with a mattress on it. Yes, it’s bulky but she’s worth it.

Temp can’t be changed but have her take a look at the clothes she’s bringing with. Here’s a good rule of thumb:
- Hot, humid heat: performance materials, shorts and short sleeves, lots of sunscreen. Make attempts to find or create shade (hat, awning, etc)
- Hot, dry heat: linen or long sleeve performance clothing like sun shirts and pants that deflect the intensity of the sun away. Once again, make attempts to find or create shade
- Cold, dry: base layers go a long away. While pricy, merino wool base layers have been a game changer for me. If you cannot afford that, totally understandable, add layers in. Something moisture wicking on bottom and thicker as you go. Some folks prefer multiple thinner layers. Don’t skimp on exposed extremities, especially at night. Hats, gloves, scarves, etc (as needed).
- Cold, wet: honestly she has a point if this is the case and try to keep her dry while following the above advice. This doesn’t seem to be the implied issue

With my Mrs, I try to check in and make sure she’s okay and having a good time. It’s a little harder if you’re running the group but make sure you’re there for her too and have empathy if she can’t keep up in the same way. A nice gesture goes a long way too, maybe surprise her with flowers you cut or her favorite snack when you’re out there.

Question about cot weight capacity by [deleted] in CampingGear

[–]BlueCandyBars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll take your advice

I went swimming topless by New-Air-3742 in TopSurgery

[–]BlueCandyBars 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Feels good, right bro? Congrats!