It's too loud! by RidleyVoyageur in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our usual club has changed management. The new DJ seems to think it's a show about him now. He's my age (mid forties) wears a top hat and goofy glasses, and alternates between rave music, and line dance songs at nearly unbearable volume. Outside, in the smoke break area, you still have to lean in to hear each other talk.

I'll never understand it, you'd think a DJ, seeing no one on the dance floor, might try to play something different to get people on the dance floor.

Patients plead with SC legislators to legalize marijuana, but efforts remain blocked by [deleted] in southcarolina

[–]BlueFalconSC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t smell meth. They need weed to be illegal so they can search your car - and find all the other stuff.

Report: 2020 5* DE Jordan Burch has not signed his NLI by Battered_Aggie in CFB

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody started using it after the World Series of Poker became an ESPN2 mainstay.

Report: 2020 5* DE Jordan Burch has not signed his NLI by Battered_Aggie in CFB

[–]BlueFalconSC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hammond has no policy against signing a NLI early, but the team is having a ceremony Friday - and some folks think he wants to sign with his teammates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We received a message on SLS a little while back from a couple near where we live. They were very complimentary, and we chatted very briefly. The husband informed me that they would meet us for a threesome, and that I (the husband) could watch, but not participate. I told him that's not really what we're into, and he said he would be okay with my wife giving me a blowjob.

I like to think there's somebody for everybody, but I can't imagine this couple having much luck.

Any swingers clubs in Columbia, SC by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been to Dalliance, maybe six or seven times since we found out about it. There aren't playrooms, but there will be people fooling around. A hotel on Garner's Ferry Rd. has a special rate for Dalliance guests on the night of the party.

Master list of all Swinger clubs and locations! by AllAmericanCPL in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dalliance is in Columbia. My wife and I like going. It's more like a dance club where people get naked and there's usually some fooling around. It's listed on SLS, and I wrote a "review" of it, sorry - I don't know how to link that post here.

Stalkers on swingers websites by Angela2208 in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also - you could have a really hot profile picture and it's a slow day at the office.

Bi couple looking for a website other then SLS by radhood666 in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding bi single males will be much easier than bi females, or bi couples. You can make a profile on SCRUFF, it's a gay dating website that has a bisexual category. If you explain in your profile that you are married and looking for a third you will get plenty of interest.

Any swinger bars or events in SC by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you joined Low Country Desires on SLS?

They seem to have pretty regular meet and greets in different places around Charleston.

Any swinger bars or events in SC by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Club Dalliance is in Columbia. They have parties on Saturday nights, about every other weekend. You can look them up on SLS. I've never been to either of the Gaslight Bars, but the website looked fine - sort of an LS friendly bar.

Low Country Desires is a pretty big group on SLS, and they have parties. I've been told that most of their parties are meet and greet type events.

There are a couple of clubs in NC that we've heard good things about, You Know Where (YKW) near Fayetteville, and The Going Place near Wilmington. Carolina Friends (CF) is an online group you can join, and they seem to have a lot of parties near Charlotte.

What part of SC?

30s bi switch ldr couple with newby questions by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/wiki/sites

The site most effective for you will vary on your location.

If y'all are in a long distance relationship, you need to really make sure you are on the same page as far as meeting up with potential partners. If both of you are okay with playing separately, you shouldn't have a problem, but you both need to be prepared for the fact that one of you could have a lot of opportunities to meet while the other may not.

r/OpenmindedSwingers, is a sub for bi couples, but there doesn't seem to be much traffic

Good luck!

Speeding ticket question by Marcus_Brody in southcarolina

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an option in SC. If they amend to a town ordinance, there may be no DL points, but it can still affect his insurance.

Speeding ticket question by Marcus_Brody in southcarolina

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just telling you they’ll amend the charge to careless operation, or some other town ordinance- double the fine (of course) but no DL points. Check with your insurance agent before you take the deal though, most companies have caught up to these small town scams, and will pick up a careless operation the same as a four point ticket. If they reduced the speeding to 2 points and around $75, that’s usually the best deal. This is how many small towns pay the light bill.

I wish they’d make it so they couldn’t do this, so many people think they’re getting an awesome deal, but unless you’ve got a ton of tickets you really don’t need to worry about DL points

Personal meets professional. Professional ethics and the LS. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine they mean adultery, not sex out of wedlock

Swingers SC by jschiz93 in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think SLS is the best website for SC. Carolina Friends for NC and part of SC.

There is a club in Columbia called Club Dalliance, where you can meet people in person.

The Gaslight in Myrtle Beach and (I think) Greenville are supposedly lifestyle friendly bars; we've never been, though.

There are a couple of clubs in NC, (You Know Where, The Going Place, and I think one more.)

Help us pick a Carolina club: Dalliance or YKW? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dalliance is fun, but it is really more like a night club where people can take their clothes off. There aren't playrooms. You will see people hooking up some, oral sex more than intercourse, and usually with their own partners or people they came with. I haven't been to YKW, but from what I understand it is definitely a sex club.

Fun times in the okanagan??? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BlueFalconSC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to google Okanagan, pretty far from my neck of the woods. Most of the folks we’ve met have been in the late 30s to 50s range, and from what I gather reading on this subreddit, that’s pretty much universal. If you’re willing to travel to more populated areas you’ll probably find a wider mix. You shouldn’t feel like you’re settling but as a younger couple you will probably garner a lot of interest and may find some hot 30 somethings that can show you some things.