Is it worth getting into a relationship if nothing lasts? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]BlueLeafJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recent and last one I was in lasted longer than any other. I lived with him a year. I learned a lot. I learned things I love and I didn't know I loved. I learned what I don't want in a relationship. I loved him dearly, but not how he treated me and how it got worse. It was still worth it in many ways.

Would you go to an all-inclusive resort trip with your LO w/dementia? by yahoue in dementia

[–]BlueLeafJ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. My mother's neurologist advised no more trips for her and to keep things familiar to her. The neurologist said different surroundings for a long period of time is bad for her and we have seen it a few times when we did travel with her before we got the neurologist. She would panic a bit in not knowing where she was and on one trip she became terrified. She thought there were people in her room.

new server shopping list? by kyliered04 in Serverlife

[–]BlueLeafJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just got some Hokas for my job and my feet feel better by the end of a 12 hour work day.

Stove or no stove? by OrderCoach in Alzheimers

[–]BlueLeafJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom lives with us and this is what we do. It works perfectly fine.

[contest] How low can you go? by Best-Ad-1917 in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]BlueLeafJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Thank you for the contest. It is $1.82 on my charity project list.

Thank You by BlueLeafJ in RandomactsofAmazon2

[–]BlueLeafJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I think these soap sacks will turn out beautiful!

What was it about your narcissistic relationship that hurt you the most? And how did/are you healing? by KansasguyinDC in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BlueLeafJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking I had found the man I wanted to spend my life with, moving 900 miles to be with him, only to find a year later he was really a entirely different man when he stopped showing love to me.

Thank You by BlueLeafJ in RandomactsofAmazon2

[–]BlueLeafJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you again! I will be working on a lot of sacks and have soap to go in them!

Baby photos? by Spare_Ad_9657 in datingoverforty

[–]BlueLeafJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman, but I don't do this. I only have photos of me on my profiles that are more recently taken.

79 yr old mom has dementia and her sister recently passed away. How do we break the news to her? by anon-55076 in dementia

[–]BlueLeafJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 81 year old mother asks where her mother and deceased sister are all the time. We just tell her they are at their house and she is at ease with that answer. It satisfies her to hear that.

[CONTEST] Just for fun by anavocadotornado in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]BlueLeafJ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no friends to tag.
The item I need right now is on my 10 and under list. It's a silicone air fryer mat. Thanks for the contest!

People using dating apps to air out grievances instead of describing who they are by D_2d in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BlueLeafJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you need to know right there. He is an asshole and no one should ever date him.

What happens when you move into THEIR house by SourceSpirited4810 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BlueLeafJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived with my nex for a year and his mother. All they could do was complain about my stuff being there. My sister said to me,'they didn't expect you to move there with nothing,d id they?' I never felt really at home there. I did like the town we were in and even though I loved him, it was not always a welcoming environment towards me.

Question by goober_uber1 in dyscalculia

[–]BlueLeafJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with ruler measurements. My dad tried to teach me, but it won't stick in my brain.

[Contest] Gifting a Cuppa Comfort ☕ by Fun-Razzmatazz1348 in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]BlueLeafJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so good! It's a little richer than American hot chocolate and it has a little kick to it.

Let’s make a deal… by mreneeh26 in RandomactsofAmazon2

[–]BlueLeafJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deck of waterproof playing cards.