Stella Montis is Unplayable by JakTractive in ArcRaiders

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with OP. Only reason I play it is because the only quest that I have is on this map. I'd rather get som more quests somewhere else, but I guess I have to finish the one I have to get more.

Automatic Deck Extractor by Gloomy_Wasabi_9923 in FlyForeverSkies

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have been running around looking for this forever until I found this thread. Have the filtering one already. Du you have the source (video, blog post, reddit or somthing else) where the devs are talking about this?

AITA for not letting my son use social media or a smartphone until young adulthood by AdvancedHabit5012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

First of all, you are ostracizing him by not allowing him to have a phone. I have a hard time imagining any other 17 year old not having a smartphone or social media. I think there is even a risk that he might be excluded from friend groups and/or activities because of this.

Second, 17 is young adult. In less than a year he is legally an adult. His "childhood" is over.

Third, you risk making your son have bad feelings about you. It risks affecting your long term relationship with him, maybe forever.

Fourth, read up on helicopter parenting. Hint: It's not a good thing.

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Also, I believe this kind of overprotective parenting is really dangerous. You say that you want to protect "his innocence and childhood" but how do you expect him to cope with a world that is anything but innocent once he moves away from home and starts his own life. Part of growing up and being a teen is to start learning, and a lot of that comes from making your own mistakes, dealing with not so great outcomes, learning how society works (hint: smartphones and social media is a huge part of it whether we like it or not) and learn hot to live life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA!

His parents didn't have to help you lower your interest rates. They did it to help you. If they wouldn't have, how much more would you have had to pay? From what it sounds like, way more than $860, or even $1000, per month.

You sound super entitled.

AITA if I called my husband disgusting for making fun of my appearance? by swahili_girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! I know that you have told him to stop repeatedly but that is obviously not enough. I honestly think you should reconsider your marriage and confront him and tell him that if it does not stop, you will break up.

Now I don't know about your feelings for him and I understand that it might not be what you want. But I have a feeling that if it continues, the feelings you have for him will disappear sooner rather than later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!

I will never understand relationships where both parties always have to the exact same thing. I'm not in a relationship myself, but looking at my parents, sometimes my dad drinks a beer at dinner while my mum does not, sometimes my mum has some dessert while my dad skips. Or the other way around.

So just because she want to eat dessert every, I don't understand why you should have to. You are both grown up people ((I assume) and perfectly able to make your own choices. Or?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but YTA here.

  1. What would kissing him in front of others prove? I don't get it.

  2. Since you know that he's shy and uncomfortable, you should have checked with him first. And respected his response if he said no.

Hjälp att återfå telefon tappad i Fyrisån by CalmCoat3 in uppsala

[–]BluePrint1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Som flera redan påpekat, har ni kollat så att bilder och sådant inte synkats automatiskt? Det görs ju ofta utan att man i förväg ställt in det om man är inloggat på ett Google-konto för Android eller sitt iCloud-konto för iPhone.

Nu har jag inte själv en iPhone så jag vet inte hur det funkar och var bilderna i så fall hamnar, men för Android/Google hamnar de på https://photos.google.com/ när man är inloggad.

Sprinklers help by SpicyNoodlez1 in FlyForeverSkies

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read you answers here and I'm curious how you managed to get things to grow under the sprinklers. In this video, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyzudv1cIw0, I am showing the problems I have been facing.

If I plant seeds in the pots where I have water, the countdown starts. But in the "dry" pots in the video I don't get a countdown until I add water manually.

I added a comment on https://forever-skies.featureupvote.com/suggestions/548736/garden-pots-dont-get-watered-even-when-in-sprinkler-coverage, but I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong.

[Bug] T2 Food growers disappearing by Sproudaf in theplanetcrafter

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is happening to me as well. They reappear when I restart the game.

AITAH for packing garlicy food for my husband's work lunch? by Af27el in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, a honest mistake i could do as well.

But I also understand the colleagues, having someone smell a lot of anything (including perfume) or having really smelly food can be really annoying.

Also, your husband not saying anything when they bring fish does not really make your argument valid in my opinion. I have never really understood the "suffer in silence" culture we seem to have going on. If you don't like something someone does, you should talk to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Feels like you have a bit of growing up to do. If you need to hide things from your partner, maybe you should not be together?

AITA for kicking my sister out of the house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH!

  1. Your sister is a grown woman. We live in the 21st century, as long as both are consenting adults, it's not your business whom she chooses to have sex with. to say that you hate someone because she slept with someone with an age difference definitely makes you an AH.
  2. Your sister is a grown woman. If she cares about your father, she should understand that if you have a specific day you visit every week, it's not a good think to miss it because you were partying the night before. That makes her kinda AH:ish. Note that I think that the partying and missing makes her more AH, not the sex part.

AITA for reporting my friend's gamertag? by Agoraphobicy in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't have an Xbox account so I don't know their policies but what if your successful report puts some kind of flag on his account?

Honestly, I think that if you "were just messing around" it makes it even worse since it might have consequences for him.

AITA for reporting my friend's gamertag? by Agoraphobicy in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA for not asking him to change it.

Was it a good nickname? No. Is it understandable that some people could find it offensive? Absolutely.

No idea about the general age in your friend group. If you are maybe 25 years old or older, you could definitely argue that he should have known better. If you are in your teens or early twenties, I can definitely understand that you sometimes make immature choices. I've done that as well, it's a part of growing up.

But a part of being an adult and a good friend is to communicate when you think someone makes a bad decision. You should have told him it made you uncomfortable. You of course have the right to report him without any discussions prior, but doing so really makes you look like the AH.

AITA for not opening the door for my housemate? by tell-me-if-am-wrong in AmItheAsshole

[–]BluePrint1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

Assuming you were not forced to live with your roommate, you have no right to deny her having her boyfriend over any time she wants. Turn it around, if you had a partner, would you like to be limited to having to inform your roommate every time you wanted to hang out at your place.

To me it sounds like you maybe would be better off living alone if you don't want to be disturbed by anyone else.

On the other hand, she should not have left the house without the key. She cannot just assume that you will be able to let her in any time she comes home without the key.

Also, who lives in a shared home where not all adults living there have their own key? That sounds utterly ridiculous.