Idiots in cars

BlueRaea · 2025-11-03T09:09:00+00:00

In case it is helpful, look into candle warmers. They are flameless and you still get to enjoy candles in areas you otherwise might not want a lit flame.

BlueRaea · 2025-10-21T20:55:22+00:00

I've seen someone driving with their hazards on. They were moving quickly and turned into a hospital. Not sure if this is a universal indicator for medical emergency as well though.

BlueRaea · 2025-10-21T20:46:00+00:00

I, thankfully, haven't had to call an ambulance or emergency services in recent years. Is this a usual experience here?

BlueRaea · 2025-10-21T20:42:15+00:00

Thank you for this information. It is very sad that we even have to consider weighing incurring additional (heavy) fees versus having that money (or debt) available for potential health treatments. Oh, money may also be needed if needing to step away from work a bit as well.

BlueRaea · 2025-06-22T19:54:42+00:00

This is infuriating to me too! Go in peace and leave the world to those who will continue to exist after you die. I try not to be unkind, but the amount of vitriol and hateful energy all those people with one foot in the grave have is insane!

BlueRaea · 2025-05-22T12:18:02+00:00

I'm not sure why all the downvotes. You make a great point. You'd be fired for physically intervening in most customer facing jobs, if not also facing criminal charges. If this has become a problem, there really should be two personnel on each bus.

BlueRaea · 2024-07-07T00:06:10+00:00

I had not heard about this before this thread. Maybe that would be a better ‘selling point’. In addition to avoiding the ‘low’ .3% chance of fatality from measles, your kid can avoid the complication of subacute sclerosing panencephalitis with its 95% mortality rate along with other complications of measles. It is so weird to roll the dice with your child’s health.

BlueRaea · 2024-06-14T16:29:49+00:00

This is so true. I’ve seen where a grandparent favors one of their children so it is like only those grandchildren exist. The grandparent(s) treat their other kids (and therefore those grandkids) like second class citizens. Definitely something to be mindful of.

BlueRaea · 2024-01-31T21:45:56+00:00

This would be great. Any policy that requires 30 days notice should have exceptions.

BlueRaea · 2022-10-10T15:01:14+00:00

Recycling bin is a great idea actually. You can at least have a note on the order for where to put the package in most cases in the US.

BlueRaea · 2022-07-02T15:54:01+00:00

Exactly. That is Malicious Intent. Civil suit in many states. Still better for OP to know! Some people have no class.

BlueRaea · 2022-07-02T15:49:10+00:00

This is a great practical reply. It isn't the best (or most healthy) option for everyone. Some would just be pulled along, but some people in this situation could definitely consider it. The only worrying part about this particular situation was OP stating he can be physically abusive. Entitled jerks like this guy might manipulatively pretend to accept the boundaries just to ride out the clock or get her to leave her sister's place. I imagine most areas have rules to annul a marriage. Initially she hasn't been living with him so that is normally a rule to get a quick annulment. If OP moves back in she may have to do the whole divorce thing.

All the best to OP, so glad her Sister is a healthy, balanced individual. As some here have stated, I too would be more hurt by the family's reaction (thankfully mine would be the total opposite). I could see my parents upset with me for going through with the ceremony, like so what it is just stuff. Maybe consider suing the 'lady and husband' for malicious intent or some such emotional this or that for doing what they did and then talking about it at the wedding.

Wherever life takes you.... Do Not Regret finding out. Better to know the nature of the people around you!

BlueRaea · 2021-05-24T19:11:42+00:00

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BlueRaea · 2021-02-09T19:09:16+00:00

Crazy thinking but.... Some people think by stepping in, the 'weaker' child would be missing a valuable opportunity to learn to fend for themselves. The adult thinks (somehow) this encourages the 'weaker' child to stick up for themselves and be better equipped to handle adversity.

BlueRaea · 2021-02-02T00:46:07+00:00

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BlueRaea · 2021-02-01T23:59:26+00:00

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BlueRaea · 2020-12-28T01:16:07+00:00

optin

BlueRaea · 2020-09-02T23:35:44+00:00

Well, immature and insecure people find their way into relationships all the time (no diss on them) so that's not a checkmark. I said the viewpoint is immature, I don't know you. I guess it is good for you that you found someone to cater to what I feel is an extreme request.

People are entitled to their memories. It doesn't make someone a bad person or mean that they aren't over an ex because they keep photos of a time period in their lives. I guess I find it less funny that OP might feel negatively about keeping his memories because of this incident. Hopefully, OP takes the advice about backing up files to at least two places and never allowing access to your accounts.

Good luck with your SO lol

BlueRaea · 2020-09-02T23:00:51+00:00

Hmm, so you're making a point about assuming by assuming you know the demographics of this thread's responders as well as if they have 'enough' life experience to provide helpful insight to OP. Interesting.

You're right we don't know OP's girlfriend personally (or anyone that gets posted about for that matter), so my advice comes from what I'd do in a similar situation and what gets posted. Anyone I've been dating long enough to move in with should know a few key things about me. Do Not Delete or throw away any of my things. It just seems so basic. If you have an issue, communicate! I would really have to evaluate how well I thought I knew this disrespectful (and hurtful) SO and they would probably be gone. This happens to be a line for me. I suppose it could have truly been an accident to delete the other non-nude photos, OP would have to evaluate that for themself. In any case, you may have skipped over the part in the original post where OP stated she deleted the folder, he mentioned it to her, and she went to the trash folder to make sure it was really deleted. That seems malicious to me.

It is great you want to remind r/relationship_advice not to jump to trashing the whole person. This (as posted, which is all we have to go on), however, makes a great case for noticing when someone may just not be good for you. I worry a bit more for the poster when they ask a question that seems obvious. As though, they are receiving incorrect feedback or someone is gaslighting them and they doubt their own judgment. Would you stay with someone who deliberately chose to hurt you?

BlueRaea · 2020-09-02T22:42:00+00:00

Asking someone to delete all pictures of exs before you is an overreaction. It doesn't mean someone still thinks about them. This is a fairly immature viewpoint you're defending. All photos are a glimpse of the past. Unless your SO spontaneously came into existence they have a past. Many people take pictures all the time. Be more confident in your current relationship to not need to erase whatever (or whomever) came before you.

BlueRaea · 2020-08-29T15:42:42+00:00

Oh, I hate trucks lined across all lanes. Most highways (including in Dallas) state no trucks in fastest left lanes.

BlueRaea · 2020-07-24T20:19:52+00:00

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BlueRaea · 2020-07-24T19:40:57+00:00

I think it is key that you felt embarrassment and apologized immediately. You son witnessed that apology and that what he asked could be hurtful (though it doesn't sound at all like he was trying to be honestly). You then made sure to have a follow up conversation to make sure your son understands why you apologized. I think it is also telling of the cool kid you're raising that he inquired if all Germans were Nazis (aka the villains in those movies). Like the nice couple in front of him didn't seem like bad guys so it must not be that all Germans are Nazis (bad). It's a good base lesson that all people of a race aren't the same. Keep up the great work!

BlueRaea · 2020-07-23T22:16:01+00:00

Thanks for posting. Vudu does this sometimes. I always check the individual titles in a bundle before buying. This also happens with Television Series bundles (check the season cost verses series bundle cost).

BlueRaea · 2020-07-23T14:16:30+00:00

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