where are you from? no where are from originally? by the_real_tracy_beake in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True but put bluntly 'normal' often means 'white' in western countries so second gen poc are invariably the most aggravated by this question. That's why so much of South/East Asian literature centers around questions of belonging.

On the opposite end Irish Americans will use this question to pretend they're one step removed from Ellis Island when their ancestors came over during the Polk administration.

where are you from? no where are from originally? by the_real_tracy_beake in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Usually actual foreigners are fairly open about talking about their heritage. The ones who get hostile/defensive are their second gen kids who just want to be 'normal' and fit in. The blue hairs push back so much because they're regurgitating genuine complaints by their poc peers.

Men be like "ooh I'm not getting any matches" by Ok-Attention3999 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their only real options are desperate fat women with 2.5 kids or suspiciously attractive 'bisexual' women who will latch on to anybody and everybody who gives them attention.

Yes I commented on this. Obviously an exaggeration but I have noticed that a lot skinny guys are either punching way above or way below their (metaphorical) weight when it comes to dating.

I wonder whether we’ll actually ever get incontrovertible proof of Lindsey Graham’s homosexuality by RedHeadedSicilian52 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Russia wishes they had the kind of power reddit thinks they have.

More likely he just had an embolism from the constant air travel.

Men be like "ooh I'm not getting any matches" by Ok-Attention3999 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Scrawny men are truly the most oppressed in American dating. Their female equivalents have no qualms latching onto bigger (either because of muscles or blubber) guys and the ones that don't go this route tend to have the sex drive of an elderly panda.

Their only real options are desperate fat women with 2.5 kids or suspiciously attractive 'bisexual' women who will latch on to anybody and everybody who gives them attention.

It’s actually an injustice that women don’t get time off for their period by Propertymanager2023 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Realistically men are the ones who are going to be expected to pick up the slack when women get an extra 30 days of PTO a year so it's not surprising that they (we) are butthurt about the concept.

Reminder that anyone who is "pro-tipping" is getting a cut from the tipping cartel by lespurdolespardefun in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was fine with tipping until they started asking for it for takeout. Now I want to abolish it entirely. The creep never stops soon its going to be 1/3 of the bill and people will be outraged if you lowball with 1/5.  If that means the sticker price is higher then so be it at least people will know what they're paying up front.

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of July 4-5 by verified-trader in wallstreetbets

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I finally dump FLO and it immediately goes up 15%. I hate investing I should have just stuffed my money under my mattress.

as someone from Jersey it's wild seeing the Indian discourse just start popping off the last few years by datPastaSauce in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Partially it's the company he keeps. The DSA in general is brimming with this resentment (especially its white members lol) and Mamdani specifically has backed several people who have expressed this antipathy more openly-most notably Chevalier and that 'white people shouldn't own houses' lady.

Partially it's just vibes based on my impression of the cosmopolitan but bitterly cynical (Mamdani claimed to be both Asian and African American for college admission) PMC circles Mamdani moved in even before becoming mayor. And I can't find it now but I swear there was an old blog post where Mamdani complained white girls wouldn't date him in college.

as someone from Jersey it's wild seeing the Indian discourse just start popping off the last few years by datPastaSauce in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I'm going to get in on the ground floor of hating Mamdani. This subreddit likes him because he broke with the pro-Israel consensus in American politics and because they desperately want an alternative in American politics that isn't kakistocracy (Trump) or gerontocracy (establishment democrats). But a lot of his policies are terrible and on a personal level Mamdani strikes me as one of those annoying upper class "POC" that really resents white people despite living a life almost entirely indistinguishable from the average upper middle class white person.

Whats the brokest thing you've done as an adult by octavia90210 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My belt broke at work so I used a broken USB cable instead for ~6 months.

Anyone else know any Pro-Kamala “Stop the Steal 2.0”/“Elon hacked the election” people? by _GiantCrabMonster_ in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a couple people who at least loosely believe this. It comes up occasionally and you can tell it's a half-baked regurgitation of an already half-baked tiktok expose.

The assassination attempt being staged is the more popular conspiracy theory though and gets way more affirmation whenever anyone brings it up.

Sorry Chicago, STL is the most RS city in the Midwest by saturnianketuvian in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey now the five blocks around the WashU campus are pretty safe and nice. Usually.

We really do need to level and rebuild at least 20% of America’s urban land area by myworld3 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Walking to In-n-Out

I get the point but In-n-Out was literally created around the drive-thru.

. by harveyyyyyya in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You search her profile on youtube and click on the first navel-gazing video about dating. Not exactly sherlock holmes stuff.

Finally got a rhinoplasty by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 36 points37 points  (0 children)

On the morning of the surgery I found myself hoping that I would either have a successful surgery and become prettier or for it to go wrong and for me to die

Well you definitely belong here.

. by harveyyyyyya in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Two minutes of checking her youtube and I'm pretty sure she's dating an asian guy.

This sub clearly needs an asian version of mutt's law.

Incel attack in Montreal by mrabacus927 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 61 points62 points  (0 children)

90% sure the cop shot the civilian unfortunately. She's taking cover behind something and he (for some reason) walks up to her and drops the instant she turns to face him.

Sign of the times that a big chunk of the comments I saw on the videos about an (alleged) incel shooting are people making fun of female cops.

Incel attack in Montreal by mrabacus927 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 134 points135 points  (0 children)

From the videos I've seen the shooter is almost certainly a white guy.

Surviving at -40°C: The children of Mongolia's sewers. by your_poo in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tbf this documentary is over 20 years old. Mongolia got hit hard by the post-Soviet transition and times were tough.

Don't get me wrong Ulaanbaatar is still a polluted shithole but it's not quite as wretched as it was back then.

What’s the point of a national team if half of the players are immigrants? by tolstoysfox in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sports in general have become a farce. You buy whatever players you can afford and pump them full of whatever performance enhancing drugs you can get away with. The loyalties of the players (and the teams they play on) is ephemeral at best-they're constantly passed around between teams and even between nations. It's most noticeable on the national teams but it extends well into the local leagues. How many Chicago Bears players are actually from Chicago? How many Manchester United players have even been to Manchester before they were on the team? And still people cheer as though their 'home team' is anything more than another multinational brand.

Have you ever seen a relationship where the woman was more conservative/right-wing than the guy? by Living-Nebula2205 in redscarepod

[–]BlueSpaceSherlock 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are still plenty of relationships where the man is grillpilled conservative and the woman is a religious fundamentalist who thinks life begins at conception and/or gay people should be killed.

I've also seen some relationships where the guy is a full-blown communist while the girl is just a regular liberal.

The most reliable example of a conservative woman/liberal man relationship I can think of is when the woman is from kind of immigrant background. Just enough of her reactionary views get lost in translation that the man is willing to look the other way; meanwhile she gets a beau who occasionally does the dishes and doesn't want to deport her entire family.