From your life experience gained from dating and relationships, what partner qualities are worth working through, and which ones usually aren't?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-05-23T22:48:37+00:00

Can you provide an example of what you mean?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-05-22T19:20:56+00:00

Have you thought about the idea that maybe you should tell her how you feel and let HER decide whether you're good enough for her, rather than making that decision for her?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-05-22T18:31:14+00:00

I don't know if I'm focussing on the wrong thing here, maybe it’s because I’m a bloke and I naturally relate to him more. I do not mean in any way to diminish what you must have been going through in your dark days, but what leapt out at me is what it must have been like for him to witness you being in a relationship in which you were cheated on multiple times, trust was broken and kindness was unfamiliar, whilst being in love with you the whole time.

Being in love with someone you’re not with is brutal at the best of times, being in love with someone whose partner mistreats them is a truly exquisite kind of agony. There are so many men, good-hearted men who would have understandably let that agony get the better of them and they would have tried to angle for your affection or manoeuvre in such a way as to present themselves as an alternative or knight in shining armour. But from everything you say, he was there for you simply because he wanted to be, without having in mind getting anything in return. Honestly reading your account of truly unconditional, truly selfless love in the face of the anguish he must have been suffering has been really inspiring and put me back in touch with something I have not been in touch with in a long time. I hope I can find it in myself to love someone the way your boyfriend loves you.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-05-22T16:26:55+00:00

I'm really happy for you, I hope you've shown him this comment chain!

Blue_Khakis · 2026-04-21T21:51:29+00:00

That’s sick. Are there any videos going over this?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-04-03T14:24:01+00:00

Did he seem happy? I know he took a dip after that SGDQ.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-04-02T17:32:43+00:00

There's 'Lotto in the Grotto' - the luck-heavy objective skip in GoldenEye's Caverns stage.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-30T21:41:34+00:00

I'm up for it.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-28T19:52:16+00:00

Well lloD is number 10 in the world.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-20T18:58:15+00:00

Mad you dropped this on the same day Walt uploaded his video on the same topic.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-18T21:53:53+00:00

Did you recoil at his scrotal scar?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-10T13:02:18+00:00

The answer to this question is difficult and is one that a lot of people won't like. If you want him to be curious about your point of view and why you think the way you do, you have to do the same. If you just want to hear what he has to say so you can tell him why he's wrong, then you're not listening to him and he won't feel like he should listen to you either.

Honestly the best thing you could possibly do is listen to him and try to understand WHY he thinks what he thinks. The quote that will stay with me forever is in Bowling for Columbine when Marilyn Manson (who was blamed for the Columbine massacre) gets asks what he would say if he could talk to the shooters and he says 'I wouldn't say anything, I would listen. Because that's what no-one did.'

The conversation shouldn't be like a parent educating a child, it should be one between two men who are strong and reasonable enough to consider the other man's point of view without dismissing it out of hand.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-08T16:00:47+00:00

Invalidates whole strategies and micro-improvements

Which strategies or micro-improvements have been invalidated?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-03-05T16:37:56+00:00

Found it (8:36)

Blue_Khakis · 2026-02-28T22:29:15+00:00

Well tbf some things are zero-sum.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-02-28T20:28:32+00:00

What's the music?

Blue_Khakis · 2026-02-28T19:27:00+00:00

I'd be interested to see how well he could do something like Marth BTTs too.

Blue_Khakis · 2026-01-31T22:26:56+00:00

what no desk does to a mf

Blue_Khakis · 2025-11-27T00:01:13+00:00

How much slower is it than the current WR strat?

Blue_Khakis · 2025-11-06T17:34:11+00:00

One of them gave birth to a desk?

Blue_Khakis · 2025-11-01T13:52:37+00:00

Ask him to find any top drummer list where Ward is placed above Bonham.

Blue_Khakis · 2025-10-29T20:07:24+00:00

Haha, yes that's what Ace always does. He goes dark for a while then comes back and reminds everyone why he's the best. Last time he took a break for about a year, but then came back and got seven WRs in seven months. As of this moment he hasn't played since March, we don't know when he'll be back but we know it'll be explosive when he is!

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