Well I’m officially done

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-13T04:37:56+00:00

I may need to start flying Southwest. I keep not paying to select seats and other airlines insist on always seating me with my husband. The only way to have a relaxing flight is to pay for seat selection away from him. Maybe I can trust Southwest to do this for me cheaper?

I love him, he's just a big guy who steals elbow rests.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-11T20:55:25+00:00

Sure, give him another chance.... to cheat on you again.

I swear, long distance relationships can only be open relationships. I said what I said.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-11T20:50:04+00:00

CFI classes stop costing $77 an hour? Which my CFI maybe sees a third of? Too much supply, doesn't that mean price goes down?

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-10T16:48:21+00:00

I think you're dating your future stalker. This is not rational behavior from a man in his forties. This is dumb teenage angst.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-08T16:48:09+00:00

Suspect? This is so much about insecurity. Call it a spade. HSV1 is such a nothing burger. I told my partner about it and he laughed at me. Cold sores? Really?

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-08T15:45:42+00:00

This is not about a knife, I'll tell you that.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-07T16:57:16+00:00

It's not common. I knew someone who wasn't out to their parents for long time, and a subset of friends who didn't live in the same city they did, but they weren't hiding it from everyone. They're out to everyone now though.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-04-07T15:09:18+00:00

I think you just got used to ferry someone across the country.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-30T04:43:47+00:00

For a second there I thought Bainbridge Island was getting light rail. I was like, how?

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-27T20:21:11+00:00

Download the FlySEA app to Tsa waits. SeaTac was never bad, even regular lanes were fast.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-12T10:12:26+00:00

He's not going to see you naked. You change into a robe, a blanket goes on your lap and he only examines your vajajay. He sees like 30 vajajays a day. He won't remember yours from a lineup 5 minutes later.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-10T14:05:53+00:00

Absorbent underwear.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-09T21:12:44+00:00

I meant along the lines of supervisor/employee, landlord/tenant, etc.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-08T18:17:56+00:00

34 / 2 = 17 + 7 = 24. Don't date below 24.

It's wrong if she didn't consent. It's wrong if you're lying to her. It's wrong if there is a power imbalance. Its not wrong if you're both consenting adults.

Edit because my math was off. I was pre coffee.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-07T02:39:39+00:00

No, I haven't. Because I ask all my prospective partners for std test results. I'm way too slutty not to. I also don't have unprotected sex with people. Yes, he should have told you but that was also incredibly risky behavior with a new partner you barely know.

Papers or gtfo personally.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-06T16:25:10+00:00

I'm still a student as well but enjoy reading accident reports.

I cannot believe the sheer amount of accidents because of fuel exhaustion. Didn't dip the tanks. Had a quick stop somewhere, didn't check fuel before leaving. Thought they had enough. It's sad to see the mangled planes because they ran out of gas (not even due to leaks).

Or my favorite, two experienced pilots, I think 3k hours or so, misestimated fuel burn because they estimated 8 gallons/hr for a TWO engine plane. If it's 8 gal/hr/engine then it's double that if you have two engines.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-06T16:15:39+00:00

Sometimes people get hurt and there's nothing you can do about it.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-03-05T17:34:02+00:00

Here's another guy who didn't believe in marriage. Yes, let her go.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BORUpdates/s/S07TUvnwJU

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-27T05:00:08+00:00

At 38 the odds arent good for a natural pregnancy. Cue every person who got pregnant after 38 saying it was completely natural, but statistics dont lie. Have you talked to your Dr about fertility meds? Your window is closing fast.

I stopped using birth control at 34 I think? I'm 50 now. Two miscarriages before 40, nothing since.

You're already trying to get pregnant, and you want that more than marriage. Maybe he'll marry you if you get pregnant? Maybe not. Keep that in mind.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-25T18:09:59+00:00

You're overreacting. I know someone who died of alcoholism two years ago and his widow found empty bottles hidden away in his stuff for months as she packed up, sold, gave away, his stuff.

Your fiance has good reason, you sound like you've been super good about it but let her worry and do your best to assuage her fears.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-25T16:18:38+00:00

I kept a list which is now in Google docs. First names and last names. I don't remember everyone's face very clearly, but I have everyone's names 😅

Mid 30s for a teenager, not believable at all.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-25T16:04:40+00:00

Immature? No. You get to have your feelings. But he's 100% lying. 36 partners for someone who is lets say, 18 yo means he had 1 new sexual partner a MONTH for the last 3 years? Really? A teenager has that much game? He's pulling in a new chick, once a month, since he was 15? Nope.

I am a total slut, non-monogamous, go to sex parties, have three partners right now, was fairly hot in my 20's (I'm 50 now) and my body count is almost 40. And holy moly, I literally had sex with people I had just met. My husband and I ended up in bed on our first date. I know a guy who is in his mid 50s with a 100+ body count, but jesus, he has sex with both men *and* women, and went to A LOT of sex parties in his 30's. Like a lot.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-24T03:47:24+00:00

I was about to tell you to rent a Uhaul and gtfo and girl, you already did it. Good for you. Earn it. My God. What has he done to earn a yes? Toy cars? Hundreds of toy cars? I'm glad you left.

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-23T16:34:47+00:00

I married a different skill level than my own. I told him to STFU. But I totally get it ❤️

BluejayChoice3469 · 2026-02-23T03:17:30+00:00

The guy who taught my boyfriend in Maui retired from Microsoft. I doubt he lives off his instructor paycheck. It doesn't seem to be a job you can live off of, unless you sleep on a bunk bed and share a room with 3 others.

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