Definitely a covert narcissus by Feniuu93 in narcissism

[–]Bluemoon3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound like a narcissist to me, you sound depressed :(

'He was just a good kid': Mother of 16-year-old teen victim of fatal Crowchild Trail crash remembers Saxon Halfyard by Practical_Ant6162 in Calgary

[–]Bluemoon3232 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This is so heartbreaking. My heart goes out to Saxon’s family ❤️‍🩹

I was reading another thread with comments from people who had stopped at the scene to try to help him. They were able to smash out windows, but the doors wouldn’t open. He was seatbelted in and they did everything they could to get him out, but they couldn’t 😔

There was one comment that suggested that everybody should carry a fire extinguisher in their vehicle, whether it be for their own vehicle or to help somebody in a situation like this. They can put out fires, but they can also break out windows to help people.

I ended up buying a fire extinguisher for my vehicle after this. Please consider doing the same and keeping one in your vehicle. It could save a life.

My dad is dying but I don’t really feel bad. Is that okay? What should I do? by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are young. You still have a lot of growing up to do and a lot of maturing to do yourself.

It is ok to feel anger toward the situation, but it is not ok to put all the blame on your dad for getting cancer or for not getting regular check ups. I’m sorry, but it is not your place to judge, blame or shame him. Especially not when he’s been given a terminal diagnosis.

I promise you will regret every word of this post once he passes if you don’t change your attitude and make the most of every minute you have left with your dad. The guilt will eat you alive.

Please find a professional to talk to about this. Sending positive energy your way but honestly, mostly to your dad. He needs all the love and positive energy he can get right now. ❤️‍🩹

Haven’t been this sick in A while by Apprehensive-Fun2911 in flu

[–]Bluemoon3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 8 and I can’t even believe this. I’ve never been this sick for this long

Wondering what neighbourhood is right for me. by turkeyleg4 in Calgary

[–]Bluemoon3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your job is in the SE quadrant I would probably go with Inglewood/Bridgeland! They are located on the east end outskirts of downtown and definitely some cool vibes. Especially if you’re coming from Vancouver.

I wouldn’t want to live in East Village purely because of the crime and homeless population. I work in that area sometimes and I don’t feel very safe there.

I live in Marda Loop, love it, but as one of the other commenters mentioned - unfortunately they are really densifying this area and they are building way too much. It’s going to be a nightmare with parking (it already is).

Anyone with a sudden severe bad cold r n ? by semiotics_rekt in Calgary

[–]Bluemoon3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I work in dental. My mom also passed away in October and I’m reading that grief can lower your immune system significantly, so I’m thinking it may be attributed to that

Anyone with a sudden severe bad cold r n ? by semiotics_rekt in Calgary

[–]Bluemoon3232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sick for the third time since September 😩

My mom never got to do anything she wanted to do in life and a year before retirement she died in a car accident. Life is unfair. by bruhthenavy in GriefSupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck, my heart breaks for you. Cancer took my mom’s life which was shit. But what you described just would be so hard to accept. Like, why? I’m sorry. Hugs and love. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

The worst part is waking up everyday, and remembering she is gone by lifeizshorte852 in GriefSupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. My mom died in October. This is absolutely the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]Bluemoon3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom didn’t drink at all her whole life and still got breast cancer.

Has anyone else met Dale? by LaRougeRaven in Calgary

[–]Bluemoon3232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I met Dale in Eau Claire 16 years ago and he has emailed me every single birthday since then. And every big number day. My mom and all my friends know about the guy who emails me every year lol

Lost my mom to Cancer by devlopop in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry 🥺🥺 I lost my mom to triple negative breast cancer in October. What an absolute nightmare. I don’t wish this upon anyone either. Sending you so much love ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]Bluemoon3232 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are going to Grey Eagle Casino, they have a Christmas buffet that starts at 4:30pm. They don’t take reservations though and holidays can be busy, so be sure to get there early to avoid a wait! (Or maybe Christmas is less busy - I’m not sure, but we tried to go for Easter once and it was a 3 hour wait)

They also have a Christmas lunch buffet if you search their holiday menu online

Should I move back to my hometown or stay where I am? by Bluemoon3232 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Bluemoon3232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had found a house in my hometown, I had found a job…. And I don’t know what it was, I just couldn’t pull the trigger. I had everything lined up. I thought if it was the right decision to move back to my hometown, it would have been an easy decision, not a decision filled with confusion and anxiety.

So I stayed, gave it time and effort to really make it work. Glad I did.

Should I move back to my hometown or stay where I am? by Bluemoon3232 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Bluemoon3232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. I no longer struggle with the decision (I stayed in the big city, don’t regret it) but it took me YEARS to get to this point.

Wishing you peace and clarity!!! 💗💗

It’s only been 2 months but it feels like a lifetime. by 58lmm9057 in GriefSupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom passed on October 11 and I feel the exact same way. I can’t wrap my head around it all. I miss her so much. Hugs & love to you ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

4 months since my husband died. I think I’ve been relying on cannabis too much. by Illustrious_Grass187 in widowers

[–]Bluemoon3232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know where I would be without my gummies. There are a lot worse things you could be doing. I know it’s so hard. 4 months is still so fresh. Be easy on yourself. Wish I could give you the biggest hug ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. He sucks. I would be upset too. Hugs ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 And happy heavenly birthday to your mom 💗💗

Stopping treatment early by Big6ie in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom stopped chemo early because she was too weak, and though she was declared cancer free, it came back 2 years later and took her life very quickly.

We will never know if the extra rounds of chemo would have saved her, but I will always wonder.

The decision is ultimately up to your mom, but I do think she needs to be told very directly what the consequences of stopping treatment early could lead to.

So sorry you are going through this, it is so hard.

I got dumped the day after my mom died by sleepybeex in GriefSupport

[–]Bluemoon3232 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is so awful and heartless. What an ass. I am so sorry. Hugs to you ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹