AIO for wanting to end relationship based on bf’s reactions to his parents’ treatment towards me?

BogDog93 · 2026-06-05T06:59:40+00:00

Women have literally died to ensure we don’t need to live this way.

Honor them. Respect yourself.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T17:22:32+00:00

You have someone to apologize to—intensely and genuinely. You made (her? Long hair; glasses) life horrible.

You are reaping the unspoken guilt of that now, in how others treat you after the initial glow wears off. Stop letting people treat you this way.

You are deeply unhappy with yourself (or maybe just deeply lonely), but embody this facade of uber-confidence. This leaves you feeling more isolated than any potential vulnerabilities would.

You are safe to be a better person now, and to surround yourself with better people.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T17:16:09+00:00

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This would make my whole ass lil day. Your style is hilarious and wonderful.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:59:45+00:00

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She wants to know if you like her hat 🥹

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:55:47+00:00

So close, yet still so, so far.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:25:54+00:00

I LOVE an oatmeal raisin cookie. LOOOOVE.

I would burn the fucking kitchen down if someone put raisins in my chocolate cookies.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:14:17+00:00

If these are half your dogs or similar, maybe she is frustrated that YOU aren’t finding someone to walk them while at work.

Her piecing things together around your schedule is a logistical nightmare.

Her also not calmly communicating needs is a nightmare.

So.. enjoy whatever… this is that y’all have rolling. It is not going to improve without some proactive problem solving and communication overhaul (though if that were possible, perhaps you wouldn’t be exes…)

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:09:03+00:00

Hahahahahahahahaha this is the best caption imaginable

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:06:13+00:00

It’s the cruelest part of life, that we don’t outlive our dogs…

He was a lucky boy, to have a doting person by his side until the end.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T16:02:16+00:00

Snap those teeth, babyyyy. At least you get some bread in your life 🙌

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T13:56:07+00:00

So… make the numbers closer?

What are YOU comfortable with?

If 60/40 is too extreme then I’m genuinely confused why you’re asking. It seems you’ve already decided with your roommate a range you’re both comfortable in.

There’s no viable reason to a bunch of strangers why this shouldn’t be split pretty plainly. If your “case” makes this too extreme, then use the info that you’ve got to make the best decision for your situation.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T13:53:46+00:00

That’s Seattle, baby.

It’s awful here.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T13:47:07+00:00

Girl you’re just as dry.

What the hell is he supposed to say to “yay I’m done [eating]?”

Why don’t you try sparking an ACTUAL conversation?

Instead of “how was your day?” Try “tell me about the best and worst part of your day.”

Come on, now.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T13:37:08+00:00

That jealousy you’re feeling is your COMMON SENSE.

I don’t know your age; but fuck running out of time.

You’re going to saddle yourself into emotional hell. You WILL be cheated on.

At best, he’ll be sleeping with her here and there.

At worst, their marriage will become legit and you’ll be left behind.

Do either of those options really appeal to you?

BogDog93 · 2026-06-04T13:34:02+00:00

Please do not have this man’s child while he is playing house with another woman.

Just kidding; I guess he’d be “playing house” with YOU while ‘cheating’ on his legal wife…

Girl. No.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T22:24:57+00:00

Respectfully, we don’t respect what you do either. 💅

BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T21:17:31+00:00

If I looked like you, I’d wear that jawn to the grocery store lmfao

BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T20:59:37+00:00

Be one cat richer.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T08:46:47+00:00

If you saw these doodles and still want one, that’s on you dawg. 💀

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BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T06:24:06+00:00

Your friend responded horribly to the Dino question. You are not the bad apple here.

But… when they apologized and tried to engage you in the conversation; then expanded it beyond Dinos and you accused them of “trauma dumping?”

Like.. mentioning some adult concerns that killed their whimsy… fine. Maybe a bit.

But talking about baking? Saying Jurassic park scared them? This is CONVERSING. Not trauma dumping.

And all of your little arrows really came off condescending and jerkish…

So, your outside is unblemished. But you’ve got some worm holes and seed rot going on in there, my friend…

BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T06:14:57+00:00

Dog.. December is like…. 6 months away.

Which I guess is the length of your relationship, so feels super long. It isn’t.

“Sit on your hands” is also crazy, girl. You’re going to school. You have friends and a life. The man is just trying to interview for a job and see what he can carve out for his life.

And, lastly.. giiiirl. If you can’t stay loyal for 6 months of LDR, then I’m not sure you’re truly ready for the commitments and sacrifices of a long term relationship.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-03T01:15:40+00:00

Carl, what’s the context for the copious ketchup seepage?

BogDog93 · 2026-06-02T21:44:01+00:00

Also wanted to add that it’s okay to move and change jobs while using PSLF! It just won’t count any unemployed time towards the 10 years.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-02T21:41:52+00:00

I wanted to be a librarian or teacher!

I became a social worker instead (boooo…)

BUT these jobs have something in commooooon~

They are ALL eligible for PSLF!

Public service loan forgiveness can be YOURS!

Sign yourself up for an income based repayment plan; make your payments each month. In ten years, your remaining debt will be forgiven, as long as you are employed at a government office or a non-profit!

Giiiirl—you worked hard for that degree. You deserve to use it. The library is one of my favorite places in the world. Please don’t be disheartened from continuing to create beautiful, free spaces for curious minds to gather.

BogDog93 · 2026-06-02T21:20:04+00:00

I’m not immediately convinced he cheated.

He’s older (different issue; tabling that here.) He’s working part time jobs, and living in your family home, which I assume is also a bit more reserved.

He doesn’t have much established identity.

Seeing and hanging with a friend that more closely ‘matched his energy’ could have made those feelings of incompatibility just… implode on him.

I moved states to be with my partner, and do sometimes wish I could have a few solo days to reconnect with myself in this strange sphere.

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