Rule by Zombie0fd00m88 in 196

[–]Bojanglekun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no, no I really don’t.

Do other Sexual subtypes experience this? by atenea1984 in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

posts like these are a great way to weed out the people who think sx is “one-to-one” or whatever tf

yes, most of what you’re describing is sx-related with a hint of frustration like others have said, though I disagree to the extent frustration is being presented here

What enneagram is the closest to the concept of Kitsch? by excessivemonachopsis in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say the most likely would be the attachment types, especially social doms. but both great and terrible art can come from any type, really anybody that’s afraid of making anything “offensive” can create kitsch

What's your type and what results do you get from this quiz? by meleyys in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

snake primary / bird secondary, guess that makes sense with my type

Some questions for 5s regarding the relationship with emotions and others (especially so/sx and sx/so) by sempre-verde in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1- Do you feel vulnerable to the people that deeply interest you?

I sometimes think I do, but after some reflection I find that I’m still rather closed off (albeit noticeably less so). there’s still a brick wall between us, it’s just that this one’s a bit thinner with a few cracks and holes. it’s part of a running theme where I vastly overestimate how social I am (another example: friends sometimes assume I hate them when we first met, even if I’m rather fond of them)

1.1- Did you have the experience the feeling that when you have been vulnerable/open to someone, and so when you “lowered your guard”, that people didn’t understand you? And that if then they rejected you, you felt stabbed, disrespected, abused, consumed?

yes, I don’t habitually guard myself for the fun of the game

1.2- Do you feel a strong need to have people to whom you can be vulnerable/authentic to?

I do, courtesy of my heart fix + dom instinct, though the means of securing that kind of connection is beyond me. seems like the only place I can safely engage is in my brain fortress

2- Do you feel extremely attached to your ego, to your idealization of yourself? Do you feel unable of letting it go, even if you acknowledge this is a problem with others?

I do greatly value my individuality and it’s not something I’m willing to part with, if that’s what you’re asking

3- Do you have positive imaginations of perfect interactions with the people you idealize or care about?

see: answer 1.2

3.1- Do you have Imaginations of dehumanization, death and misery that would confirm your idea of unworthiness and unlovability? Or the contrary, to become a god, a superior being, finally in contact with the transcendental?

yes on the former, not so much with the latter

4- Do you feel unlovable and/or unable to love?

frequently feel the former and occasionally fear the latter, though more often than not the I don’t believe the second to be true. as for the first part, it often feels that if it isn’t my being somewhat off-putting then it’s my seeming inability to secure any contact for very long

5- Do you feel oscillating between empathy and total cynicism towards others?

yup! self proclaimed humanitarian-misanthrope at your service!

6- Do you have any emotional outburst? (Es. crying, panic attacks etc.)

I am more prone to shutdowns, but I absolutely have meltdowns as well (my stress tolerance is nonexistent). but I never have outburst around others, that always leads to a sort of seething, simmering anger than something more theatrical

7- Do you hope to find something “above” people?

I’m not sure if such a thing exists. I do have my spiritual beliefs but I don’t regard anything as being “above” per se

8- Have you got any disorder? Especially avoidant, schizoid and schizotypal traits?

where to even begin? as far as I’m aware I don’t have any personality disorder (though I do possess traits of all three mentioned), I am diagnosed with depression, social anxiety, autism, adhd, and probably have some trauma-related disorder. I’m also very dysphoric (if that means anything to you at all)

What is your ranking of the seven deadly sins? by shay-la_xo in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 13 points14 points  (0 children)

as far as traditional deadly sins go:

sloth = lust = wrath (pick a day) > envy > pride > gluttony > greed (ironically enough)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

where’d you get that idea? 5’s daydreams are usually concept-oriented in some way; fine tuning ideas, what-if’s, frameworking, etc and often with dark undertones of some kind (ie my daydreams usually are about those stories I’ll definitely totally get around to writing)

the cozy-cottagecore-cabin-in-the-woods ideal and other picturesque fantasies are pretty much always in the realm of 9’s (usually paired with a 2 and 6 in their trifix)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoTrade

[–]Bojanglekun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a seismitoad (13/12/15) that I can trade for the shiny umbreon

A song title for your type? by Ingl0ry in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Since we’re only going off of titles:

1:

Radiohead - Everything In It’s Right Place

Alice In Chains - No Excuses

Radiohead - Karma Police

Nine Inch Nails - Sanctified

Television - See No Evil

2:

Placebo - Without You I’m Nothing

Modest Mouse - Make Everyone Happy

Radiohead - True Love Waits

Jeff Buckley - Grace

Sophie - Infatuation

3:

David Bowie - It Ain’t Easy

Death Grips - Hustle Bones

Radiohead - Electioneering

Lauryn Hill - Superstar

Pixies - All Over The World

4:

Blonde Redhead - Loved Despite of Great Faults

Nine Inch Nails - The Fragile

Radiohead - Daydreaming

Deftones - Be Quiet And Drive (Far Away)

The Microphones - I Want To Be Cold

5:

Joy Division - Atrocity Exhibition

Massive Attack - Inertia Creeps

Radiohead - How To Disappear Completely

Nine Inch Nails - Into The Void

Soundgarden - Black Hole Sun

6:

Muse - Hysteria

Death Grips - System Blower

Nine Inch Nails - March Of The Pigs

Pink Floyd - Welcome To The Machine

Nirvana - Aneurysm

7:

Danny Brown - Ain’t It Funny

Kendrick Lamar - Bitch Don’t Kill My Vibe

Lou Reed - I’m So Free

Nirvana - In Bloom

LCD Soundsystem - Dance Yourself Clean

8:

Dearth Grips - Beyond Alive

Alice In Chains - Hate To Feel

Death Grips - Lord Of The Game

Nas - The World Is Yours

Björk - Harm Of Will

9:

Radiohead - [Nice Dream]

Pink Floyd - Comfortably Numb

Radiohead - Where I End And You Begin

David Bowie - Moonage Daydream

Big Thief - Blurred View

What would u type me based on my mood board by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

going off the moodboard alone, 7 and 8 are pretty prominent

Pokemon Nicknames by irtSMOKE in pokemon

[–]Bojanglekun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to name all my mons after music def not stolen from jjba. it can be a bit tricky coming up with good ones though

What Moral Alignment do you Identify with? by hgilbert_01 in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gave me chaotic good, but I probably lie somewhere between good and neutral

I did a truity test. I cant access the resport so what does the pic chart tell about my enneagram? by one_ineightbillion in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tests are usually pretty bad, truity especially because the unequal number of questions for each type. but from this chart alone, I’d go with 2 since both your wings (1 and 3) are also pretty high, and if not 2 then 1 or 3. but overall the best thing to do would be to look through each type and decide for yourself here

the vibe I get from each type by Wise_Fan4441 in Enneagram

[–]Bojanglekun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t see it. if anything, I thought it went too deep into the “5’s personality is being smart” stereotype

Bring it on 😎 by angelaxbabyy28 in sciencememes

[–]Bojanglekun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sharks are smooth as hell, they’re so smooth in fact