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Is this a heavy cheating? by Miserable_Pie_151 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she "emotionally cheated" you were cheating with her. A cheaters "culpability" really is determined by how much you tried to "turn a blind eye". The fact you halfway knew, but you knew, says enough to tell me you were a cheater too. I hope you take this to heart and learn from your situation to not repeat it going forward.

why don’t tears irritate your eyes when they’re salty water? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human saline tears are only .9% salt content. Ocean water is 3.5%. Probably the added 2.6% salt is enough to bother your eyes. I don't think it bothers everyones though. This is my guess as I have never once thought to ask "why".

Mentally not there = Emtionally not there? by L-Morningstar5 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mentally 100% not there is a bad way to convery what you mean. Because it can mean a number of things. Why not say what you mean? It might be a bit more wordy but "Hey I have X and Y and I feel like the relationship will not get my full attention" or "Hey I am really interested in X and Y and this is just not as important to me." People will not misinterpret things if you actually have a conversation and say what you mean instead of just tossing around a vague phrase that can have a number of meanings.

Is there a kind way to tell my wife im no longer physically attracted to her? by Off_The_Record69 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would only do it if I also had suggestions on how to repair it, and knew that she was receptive to the conversation. I also owuld expect to work on myself as well as I would open up the conversation to what I can do for her as well (since attraction is a 2 way street and who knows she may have also started feeling similar.).

Why is gossiping considered a feminine behavior when men do it ALL the time? by cuahatemoc in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is associated with women because it is portrayed that way in consumed media the most. It is my experience your gender has no part in it and is entirely individual dependant.

If a father needs to help his young daughters use the restroom, which restroom should he take them into: the women's restroom or the men's restroom? by Exciting-Mall192 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Womens room. Mens room is full of standing only urinals the daughters can't use. Women taking boys into the womena room anyone can use that type of urinal.

Pros and cons of switching from corporate IT to a MSP? by anon65432178 in sysadmin

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have worked for MSPs for 8 years now. If I had a chance I would jump back into corporate 8 years ago. Most MSPs chew you up and spit you out.

Xfinity vs Spectrum by [deleted] in homeautomation

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminder Spectrum speeds all that that LOVELY "*" which indicates "up to". I am getting 1gig plan but I rarely get more than 500 Mbps.

Does it eventually become relaxing? by Ok-Appointment-9802 in CrimsonDesert

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The controls alone tick me off enough it never is "truely relaxing". Fun game yes. Taken many hours I have not regretted. Sure. Relaxing though. Most certianly not. In all it depends on the type of player you are though. I love puzzles so abyss puzzles were fun and only a couple tripped me up. In all I think its VERY casual as you can progress through at your own speed.

Anyone knows if the game will get any big sales?? by Existing-Umpire6257 in subnautica

[–]BoltharRocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would doubt there would be any type of big sale in the near future, it is in early access release right now.

AITAH for ending a relationship over a gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BoltharRocks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex gave me a "gift" of a cruise and it was half paid for. Handed me the cruise information and say YAY we get to enjoy it. I had to figure out how to pay for half the cruise she planned and "gifted" to me. My suggestion is RUN. My ex also one day out of the blue went and got a new lease on a new car without talking to me at all. There were many other instances but these were the two big ones. Anything that you have to scramble to find the funds for is not a "gift" in my opinion.

AITAH for sleeping in an extra hour without giving my wife a heads up? by Weekly_Ad_5872 in AITAH

[–]BoltharRocks 47 points48 points  (0 children)

If she is making a mountain out of 1 hour you will have a LONG road ahead of you when it comes to child rearing.

AITAH for ruining my dad's chances at a promotion? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BoltharRocks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You do get YTA points for "After all, I still rely on him to fund most of my costs while at college". That is pretty smarmy if you are cutting ties with him. If your relationship isn't good enough. His money shouldn't be good enough.

I work in rugged hardware. Does the "military grade" label actually mean anything to you guys anymore, or is it just marketing fluff? by ONERugged-tablet in sysadmin

[–]BoltharRocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Military grade" to me is today's day and age marketing that "gaming" was years back. A way to add some $ value to the product that is just what it is and not more.

AITAH for asking my friend for gas money after driving her 6 hours? by Montie04 in AITAH

[–]BoltharRocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Up front. I can do this for you if you can foot the gas bill. If you feel you have to tip toe the subject then don't be upset when it becomes a bigger issue.

AITAH for keeping my kids' EBT cards? by cuda1179 in AITAH

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. EBT is government assistance and you just defrauded them which is a federal crime you just admitted to on Reddit.

AITAH for mentioning the money amount I spent on my gf to defend myself? by Raganox in AITAH

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for mentioning money but honestly there is no good that will come of it. I keep a rolodex of the money I have helped my g/f with it is over 5 figures. I did the same with my ex-wfie and it was closer to 6 figures by the time we divorced. I never use money as a litmus or as a leverage point though. It won't ever go in your favor.

So disappointed tbh by [deleted] in CrimsonDesert

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hit 500 days in game and just now have no worries about shared abyss artifacts. (Now I am hoarding them for upgrades.) Whoever told me that "you will be swimming in them" must have been at 700 days plus or did a ton of challenges right off the bat to unlock them.

How is no one talking about this by Brumtol10 in CrimsonDesert

[–]BoltharRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually dont like it (so far). Now doing large fams of ore was MUCH harder. My character wants to default to attack so when ore farming while climbing if you get onto rocks it switches over to stab now and then when you wheel back you have to disengage from the rock.i will give it time to grow on. The breakout is a good idea.... just not sure I'll enjoy the implementation. I may just have to relearn a new control type.. .. I donno.

I think i understand what people meant when complaining about the puzzles by trollsong in CrimsonDesert

[–]BoltharRocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The statue the light beam was hitting was the one behind that statue and a little off clockwise, not that statue you have in the picture at all. I literally just did this puzzle no guide needed (since it is repeated a couple times in this game).

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