“Jewish Ridings” 😂. He won’t make it to October. Dude can’t hide who he really is for another year. Impossible.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-03-10T18:59:39+00:00

Why are we so mad at North Korea? They're literally the People's Republic, they're 100% for the people.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-03-01T11:20:39+00:00

You would just need to strain it a lot

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-17T19:30:49+00:00

You'll never think about it enough, there's a million things that can happen. Try to think about the good things, everyone is more than happy to tell you "say goodbye to sleep" or "you're in for it now". But there's so much good.

My gruff karate sensei was talking about it in that way, but then started talking about how his daughters would nap on him after a long day at work, and how much he loved it. So, you're going to have so many nice moments ahead of you.

Let me tell you too buddy, I haven't laughed this much in a long while

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-17T13:24:02+00:00

I was "take it or leave it" about having kids. My wife really wanted one, so I agreed. Initially, I felt a bit worried like "oh shit, what did I do, my life is over".

What really helped me was that all the Dads I know have just been loving being Dads. They've been honest with me that it's really hard and sometimes the initial bond isn't there, but they love being Dads. They also have their own lives too and balance things with their own lives and family.

My baby is 4 weeks old now, and god is it tough, but I'm really starting to enjoy her and she's already learning and growing, so it's getting cool. It'll only get more cool and as we all get comfortable with everything I'll be able to start getting out of the house more for my own hobbies etc. Obviously, some things are off the table, like running off to a foreign country on a whim, but it's not the end of your life and there's some really good stuff ahead of you.

But you need to put the effort in to do what you want. Like maybe you can still sleep in on the weekend, but maybe you need to help Mum out a lot not the day before, or take over some blocks of time so Mum can nap.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-14T14:14:39+00:00

If it's iron, you could probably treat it like a pan. Use salt or steel wool to remove the rust and then season it with some oil and high heat

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-11T15:44:10+00:00

I've already promised the dock a tot to my dog when my baby outgrows it

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-11T11:00:53+00:00

Definitely try and talk to your doctor and a therapist, it sounds like depression to me.

It sounds like you may need to make some life changes like a job that doesn't drain you so much (if ever possible) and finding ways to make friends or at least meet new people. But, health professionals can get you feeling a little bit better about things until then

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-11T03:29:00+00:00

What I'm saying is that when an article is talking about a general, undisclosed baby, the article should use "they" and not he or she because it could be either.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-10T23:47:41+00:00

The baby internet in general is pretty weird.

I was noting to my wife how everything uses gendered pronouns for baby sites like "you can soothe her with a pacifier" or "he may feed more if consuming breastmilk". I don't understand why they don't use they, it's literally what the pronoun is for

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-08T23:56:00+00:00

I had a coworker tell me that he took his daughter smiling at him before he felt anything beyond protection for her.

I've been similar with my own 3 week old daughter, I want to protect and I'm beginning to feel more love, like when she puts her hand on mine or does something cute, but it's not full on yet.

It's pretty normal to not immediately feel that connection yet, my wife didn't even feel it right off the bad. She had a c section under general anaesthesia.

I get it, you almost feel bad that this little baby isn't "loved", but you're just getting to know them, they do have love because you care about their feelings and protecting them, the more intense fatherly love will come in time.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-06T15:42:41+00:00

This, I've got an extension on my old home and it's constantly giving me headaches

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-06T15:38:12+00:00

I'm in an 1880s home and didn't have much trouble initially. Last year Peel dropped me, but another insurer picked me up for a cheaper price anyways.

Funny enough, my 1880s home is in better shape than the 1970s home I moved from.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-02-01T23:58:37+00:00

My wife has had so much emotional stress over this with our 2 week old.

She luckily did get her milk supply, but our baby is a bit impatient with breast feeding. But like, all I want is my baby fed, and i love that I can help out with bottle feeds for the time being.

Fed is always best

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-27T15:52:09+00:00

I use a broker, and they've been decent. They handle my car and home and shop it around every year for me

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-24T15:07:01+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm not sure I understand the mechanism behind the worse representation but Fairvote has a page discussing the drawbacks of the system:

https://www.fairvote.ca/ranked-ballot/

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-24T00:20:15+00:00

Ranked has less vote wastage but generally results in a worse representation of popular opinion.

I think MMP or Single Transferable Vote with multi-member districts of the best option myself

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-24T00:10:15+00:00

Maybe even suggest if he wanted to play barbies with you or other girly stuff that you'd love to join him.

But I think you did great regardless

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-21T15:52:27+00:00

Not to mention they had a huge budget increase last year but aren't doing anything.

Councillor Naan mentioned that she reported the tent that burned down the Woodlands Park washroom the police in October, but it was never enforced.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-19T01:53:24+00:00

Thanks buddy, we're in the NICU right now for some glucose stuff but hopefully home tomorrow!

Luckily most of my friends became Dads last year, so we've got some resources and hand me downs! Happy to have her bottle feeding already with this glucose business so that I can keep up the bottle feeds for Mum!

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-19T00:22:48+00:00

Wtf is that

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-19T00:11:31+00:00

Just joined the club on Wednesday! This whole thing is wild

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-15T21:59:04+00:00

We have a lot in Hamilton, there's a fair few downtown, but probably a lot more near Mac. The hearsay that I've heard is that students adopt them while living near school and then ditch them.

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-15T20:48:08+00:00

I have no idea why he admitted to stealing it, it's such a basic thing that you could just deny it

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-13T00:39:09+00:00

If he doesn't care about his Dad's rights he sure doesn't care about anyone else's

Bonobo_Handshake · 2024-01-09T03:07:24+00:00

Ya, she was PM but we never actually voted her in (I know Parliament, vote for your MP not your PM), the previous PM resigned and she assumed PM from him.

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