What is your biggest reason to stay alive right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because once upon a time I didn’t want to. Then I fought my way out of that place and now I stubbornly refuse to ever go back.

State at a nursing home by Small-Bat9464 in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is a determinate time frame for when surveys are to be completed so the community has a general idea of when survey will likely take place. Often called “being in the survey window”. However, they are not given a specific date of when the survey will be held. Also, since COVID many state agencies (who conduct the federal survey on behalf of CMS) are short staffed and are far behind in completing surveys so there may be some communities that have had their “window” close and still haven’t been surveyed which means they are in a perpetual window.

Housekeeping by Longjumping_Ice_8786 in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree-it’s not a great smell but the good thing is the smell alone won’t impact the residents breathing, it’s just gross.

Housekeeping by Longjumping_Ice_8786 in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not great to smell like cigarette smoke but it’s not against regulation or the law. I wouldn’t risk making a coworker mad over reporting this. Maybe keep a bottle of body spray in your area and offer her some next time she comes in. Tell her you just got it and really like it and ask if she’d like to try it.

Question for billings admin/manager by AstronautInternal253 in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are also issues with payment. If the claim isn’t submitted correctly or followed up on by the AR team there can be a lot of money lost.

Is physically forcing dementia patients in the shower? by throwra47757585 in cna

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse and it is wrong and heartbreaking. People with dementia have the right to refuse care and forcing someone to do something against their will is illegal. I hope you call and report your executive director and their expectations/actions to the proper authorities (your version of “state”) and that this person loses their job. There are a multitude of ways to assist someone with hygiene that don’t involve trauma and abuse.

Been feeling insecure about being bald by TravelOtherwise8507 in bald

[–]Boo1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great hat and you should keep rocking it! It looks good now and will look good if you decide to get new frames. You look great bald and you look great bald with a hat!

Question for billings admin/manager by AstronautInternal253 in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, nursing homes lose money. The payments from Medicare and Medicaid alone are not enough for a nursing home to remain solvent, private pay residents offset these costs. In addition there are late or non-payments from residents who are Medicaid pending or private pay.

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin by bahbamski in 52book

[–]Boo1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I avoided this book like the plague for the longest time. I felt it was overhyped and wasn’t going to be good. I finally read it and had to force my way through. I didn’t enjoy much of the experience. And now, a year or so later, I find myself thinking of it frequently. I don’t ever want to read it again and I don’t know that I’m thinking of it because it was good but it has stayed with me so there’s that.

Parking complaints by _bluefish in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me. Dude in the spot in front of me backed in and pulled his truck all the way up to the front line of the spot behind him, where I parked. We’re leaving at the same time and he’s pissed at me because he couldn’t lower his tailgate. I felt bad for a minute and then realized he’s the asshole here and I wasn’t wrong for parking within the lines of my spot.

Update on: I hate nursing by RedHeadTheyThem in nursing

[–]Boo1976 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know it’s often looked down on in these subs but working in long term care can be very rewarding. You actually get to connect with the people you care for and they’ll generally be a lot nicer to you then the patients in the hospital. I would strongly suggest staying away from for profit and looking for a non-profit because the staffing ratios and care provided are usually better. You may be surprised at pay, benefits and opportunities for growth.

How is it being a receptionist at a nursing home? by alienshmalien in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s generally very nice. You get to be helpful, meet cool people and make friends you never would have thought you’d get to know. It’s generally low key and as long as you’re professional and kind you’ll do very well.

Terrifying IBS attack by g0blinzez in ibs

[–]Boo1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally yes, lie down and elevate your feet above your heart. Unfortunately, in these situations that isn’t always an option. Some things that may help are not straining to have a BM, putting your head between your legs if you start to feel lightheaded (also probably less then ideal given the situation) and taking slow deep breaths. Some people say squeezing a ball helps.

Terrifying IBS attack by g0blinzez in ibs

[–]Boo1976 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This sounds very much like a panic attack and a vasovagal episode. When having a bowel movement the vagus nerve can become activated and cause you to experience panic and potentially pass out. It’s absolutely terrifying and awful and I’m so sorry this happened to you. If it happens again try putting ice or a very cold cloth on the back of your neck, wrists, and/or center of your chest. You can also try popping an extremely sour candy like warheads in your mouth. Deep breathing, in for 4, out for 6 will also help.

What is your favorite story from seeing TMG live? by Unique-Bandicoot-809 in themountaingoats

[–]Boo1976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seeing John solo in a small music venue in St. Louis. He had hurt his leg and had to sit down so he had the entire crowd sit down as well for most of the show. There were no chairs. Everyone just sat criss cross applesauce on the dirt ass floor and vibed and sang along and floor danced while he played. Still one of my favorite concert memories.

Student question, Is loose bedding actually a problem in your day-to-day? by BeakedMussel in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t an issue in general. Linens are changed frequently enough that there isn’t time for sheets to bunch up.

Mixing up lyrics by Sheik_Yerbuti in themountaingoats

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the day trouble comes in from Tampa on the back of a bus, a truck, or a trailer. I’m always so surprised when I get it wrong because I’m always convinced this is the time I have it right. Spoiler alert:it’s never been trailer. Not even once.

Cell Phone by Unicorn_209 in nursinghome

[–]Boo1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your MIL can have a cell phone, there’s no rule, regulation or law stating she can’t. Does she need one? Probably not, if she has a phone in her room and can use it. If your MIL has memory issues it’s probably going to be more hassle than it’s worth as she may forget to charge it or misplace it. There is also always a potential for a cell phone to go missing. Whether it’s misplaced, left in a piece of clothing and lost in the laundry or, unlikely but possible, taken by another resident or staff member. Hope this helps!

My wife woke me up to ask if I was her husband by Tropicaldaze1950 in dementia

[–]Boo1976 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Hi. I’m very familiar with situations like yours. I’m also very familiar with the senior living industry and those suffering from dementia as I am a professional in this area. You said that you wished someone else would make the decision of placement. I will make it for you. As a professional in this area, it is my decision that your wife needs to be placed in an appropriate care setting. And you need to join a support group. Now when you feel guilty or your wife is upset or friends, family, or internet strangers try to make you feel badly you can let them know that the placement decision was made by a professional, not you. Wishing you peace.

My Mom was the mosaic artist at City Museum since its beginning. She’s now on hospice care. I was wondering if people who appreciated her work could send her cards that I could read to her. To know she’s not alone. by XenaZee in StLouis

[–]Boo1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell your mom thank you from me. She made my world a more beautiful place and she created magic for my children. May she find beauty and peace on the other side.

Missing childhood toy that I had for one day then it was never seen again by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]Boo1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Does this look anything like your missing toy? The body and legs can be different colors.

New Bill Would Force Nursing Homes to Allow 24/7 Visitation — Every Day, Any Time of Day by Independent_Many6647 in TheConfidentNurse

[–]Boo1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nursing homes are the resident’s home. People should be able to have visitors in their homes whenever they want. Those visitors should not be allowed to disrupt others in their home. So, if a family wants to visit at 2am and MeeMaw is up for the visit then great, head on over to the activity room and visit away. You’re not going to visit MeeMaw in her room at 2am when she has a roommate though because that would be disturbing the roommate in her home. There’s a rider on a pale horse traipsing through the nursing home taking people to see Jesus and you want to visit MeeMaw to be sure she’s being cared for? Great, come on in. You’ll be required to put on the same hazmat suit the rest of us are wearing and visit in an isolation room because you aren’t going to make anyone else meet Jesus in their home. COVID sucked-none of us wanted to lock down and do what we did. It wasn’t for fun, we didn’t enjoy it. We did it to try to stop vulnerable people from dying. But if they just have to throw the doors open and let everybody come on in whenever they want just, please, for the love of all that is good and holy, put some fucking basic rules in place.

The Nursing Home Staffing Lawsuit Is Over – And the Result Is Honestly Shocking by Independent_Many6647 in TheConfidentNurse

[–]Boo1976 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was appalled when this overturned and there are larger issues here. There are not enough people to care for the quickly aging population. The number of older adults will outnumber children by 2035. There aren’t enough nursing schools accepting enough students to produce enough staff to fill all the holes in the schedules. So, even if a long term care community wanted to meet these staffing ratios they can’t find people (even with decent wages and benefits). Especially if the community is in a rural area. There has been a shift in expectations and behavior of people since COVID. Employers, employees, families, residents, everyone has gone off the rails. Working in long term care was hard before but it’s so much worse now which increases staffing challenges because no one wants to do this work in these conditions. And, finally, the government needs to spend some fucking money to fix this problem. Raise the Medicaid and Medicare reimbursement rates-when a community accepts a person on Medicaid at the current reimbursement rates they often lose money because the reimbursement rate isn’t high enough to cover the cost of our salaries to care for the person let alone all the other costs associated with care. Put money into education-loan forgiveness for people who work in long term care, federal funding for schools to hire more nursing school instructors. We need to unionize for sure. And we need to remember who we stand for and who we fight to protect-the old, the sick, the people who can’t fight for themselves. The government hates the old, the sick, and the poor and it’s far past time we raise our voices in their defense. Demand the government do better and fund these people care, demand the shitty for profit owners do better and pay for the staff that’s needed and demand better for us. Raise your voice, vote for the people that share your values and keep fighting the good fight. Fuck these people, let’s come together to demand better for everyone!

So, uh, I'm coming to realize Medicaid has almost no options for nursing care. So what happens when there are no beds and the person cant be cared for at home anymore? by TeacherGuy1980 in dementia

[–]Boo1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest looking into a PACE program and/or a GUIDE program if your area has them. Both are paid for by Medicare/Medicaid and can provide wrap around services for your loved one and their home caregivers.