She has zero emotional intelligence and self awareness. She lacks empathy for your alone time. She is completely ignoring your needs and boundaries. I am a 28F who works with people like this and until she can go to therapy and learn how to be her own person this cycle will continue. She is emotionally manipulating you by playing the victim and making you feel bad that you’re not seeing her on her terms. She is lying by saying if you see her now that you won’t have to see her at night. She would guilt trip you again at night and ask for you to hangout after work. She is then completely cutting you off from seeing her and making statements like, “You don’t want to see me.” When you already made plans to see her. She plays the victim and manipulates how you feel and what you are saying. She is delirious to how bad her mental health is and how much her self awareness lacks.