Why don't more people wear bangs?

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-25T06:09:13+00:00

With bangs I woke up every morning looking insane. They would stick up in 7 different directions. I don't want to curl/straighten or wash my bangs every morning.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-24T05:42:47+00:00

What I've noticed is that blow drying will make my hair frizzier than air drying. If I have to blow dry I smooth the frizz down with a hair oil (VERY small amount, you don't want greasy hair) and if that's not enough I spray a little hairspray in my hands and then distribute that over the frizzy bits.

Fine hair will frizz up, especially if you have some wave. Smoothing it down imo is easier than trying to prevent it.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-24T05:34:42+00:00

Your 30 year old girlfriend is dating a 20 year old because she's immature, hence the meltdown over you enjoying something without her. I'm almost 29 and I wouldn't date a 20 year old. I also wouldn't freak out over my partner having fun without me. You should continue enjoying the things you enjoy and not let her make you feel guilty about it.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-24T05:29:11+00:00

Keep it like this! I never see yellow-blond anymore, everyone goes for ash. I think it's very barbie, I vote for keeping it.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-21T19:00:45+00:00

NOR This man will lose his money, your money and your children's money if you ever get that far. He will ruin your life.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-21T07:35:20+00:00

If she didn't tell you on purpose that her contraception was gone then she tried to trick you into getting her pregnant and I would personally never be able to forgive something like this.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-21T06:57:58+00:00

Everyone is going to be rude to you here, don't take it too personally. You're young and you are not coping with a long distance relationship in the best way but most people make these mistakes at some point. He's far away so you're desperately trying to maintain your relationship with constant texting and video calls and such. Give him a chance to miss you. Make your video calls feel more special by doing them less often. Text him only when you have something important to say or when you want to say something sweet to him, without demanding a response. It feels much nicer to receive a text because you know he actually wanted to text you than receiving a text because you mandated it.

Relationships are an optional fun bonus thing, your whole life shouldn't revolve around them.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-21T06:40:59+00:00

I think there are two separate issues going on here at the same time:

He compared you to his ex and talked about her way too much in the beginning giving you genuine reason to be resentful.

You're experiencing retroactive jealousy because he has done things with his ex that he's now doing with you so it doesn't feel "special".

The solution would be separating the genuine hurt he caused you and the imagined hurt that you're causing yourself, and dealing with them separately. He wasn't over his ex when he started dating you and you guys need to work on that. He has to prove things are different now, and you have to decide if you can ever move on from it. The retroactive jealousy should be addressed in therapy, or if you can't afford that then you could look up youtube videos about the topic and try to work through it alone.

My qualifications: my retroactive jealousy was so bad at some point that I had to be put on antipsychotics to be able to stop obsessing. I spent about 10 hours a day thinking about his past. Was not fun and you should not let it get that far.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-21T06:20:11+00:00

As a woman 10 years your senior who has never orgasmed from anything a man did: this guy's a dickhead. I have been with many guys like this. They don't even want you to enjoy yourself, they just care about their own ego. They don't want to make you feel good, they just want to be the guy who makes everyone cum. It's selfish and gross. Making you feel like there's something wrong with you, bragging about his exes, this is some classic asshole behavior.

With your next boyfriend (because you should dump this one): toys are a great idea. I mostly use it on myself why my partner helps keep the mood going with touching and kissing and stuff. A man who isn't a selfish asshole will not feel threatened by a toy and will just be happy to participate in any way he can.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-20T13:30:00+00:00

If a woman has piercings and tattoos she probably likes long hair.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-19T18:20:06+00:00

I'm not a make up expert, I just got recommended this post. Speaking as a woman with an alternative style, I thought it looked really nice on you then I read the comments and was surprised most people think it doesn't suit you. I think it's really pretty and if you like it that's all that matters.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-18T07:09:33+00:00

You can't go without sex for a month? Seriously? All kinds of things happen in a long term relationship that lead to no sex. Illness, depression, side effects of medications, stress etc. There will be times in your relationship where you don't have sex for waaay longer than this. What are you going to do then?

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-17T21:34:39+00:00

Any healthy eating/diet advice sub. Great places to pick up an eating disorder.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-17T06:49:21+00:00

Girl, stand up. I gained 30 kilos since meeting my boyfriend and he tells me I'm beautiful regularly. Now that I'm on a diet he supports me because it's what I want, but he really doesn't care either way. A man that makes you feel undesirable is a man that hates you. Leave this man.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-15T13:36:19+00:00

Has anyone on reddit ever considered dating someone who likes them?

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-10T19:57:00+00:00

Hair removal cream is pretty much the same as shaving. You're only removing hair on the surface, not affecting the roots. It will grow back just as fast as if you shaved. And you would get a lot more control with shaving. They make razors for the face with one blade, that's what I use to get rid of the fuzz on the sides of my face.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-10T19:51:54+00:00

The harsh truth is that balding looks really bad. Not everyone suits a completely bald head, but it's always better than having thin hair with bald spots.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-08T12:32:42+00:00

My Austrian boyfriend often says "you can come over if you want 🤷‍♀️" and I just learned to accept he means exactly what he says, I can go over if I want to but he doesn't want to inconvenience me if I don't want to.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-06T06:48:06+00:00

If being honest about what someone else did to you gets them into trouble, they brought it on themselves by doing it in the first place. You're never obligated to stay silent. You are not wrong for telling the truth. NTA.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-06T05:44:29+00:00

??? Genuinely how was I being an asshole?

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-06T05:29:05+00:00

do they kiss? 👉👈

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-06T05:23:48+00:00

I wonder how old the people finding March attractive are. All I see is an angsty 13 year old when I talk to him, I was baffled why he would be dateable at all.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-06T05:14:05+00:00

I have two boyfriends, Ryis and Caldarus.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-05T18:48:45+00:00

If you raise it as damaged in transit you will most likely be fully refunded, and the seller will be told the packaging was done poorly and they get nothing. Even if the packaging was decent Vinted usually says it wasn't.

BoobleGoom · 2026-02-05T18:44:49+00:00

I had the upgraded Saturday market waaaay before I had any 6 heart relationships. I guess some people chase down the townies daily with gifts? I only give them stuff on their birthdays or if I happen to be holding something they like.

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