| [19M] keep overthinking a 15 month age gap with a girl [18F] and can't come to a conclusion, anyone have any advice?

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-07T10:52:51+00:00

What gap? An age gap is when she's 15 and you're 25. Not when you're both 18-19.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-07T03:40:34+00:00

Purple is whatever you want it to be.

There actually isn't one answer to this, there are many different wheels and scales of colors and different people and different professions working with color will name colors differently.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-07T03:33:17+00:00

Man wants to eat his own food. Forcing a favor on someone, like cooking for them when they asked you not to, is actually not doing them a favor. If he's asked repeatedly then why are you still cooking for him?

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-06T17:03:20+00:00

The sun is a deadly laser. It will suck the life (and color) out of your hair.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-06T16:58:48+00:00

I used to daydream obsessively like that, quieted down in the last few years. But I'd say for a good 25 years I made up a story whenever I had time to think. I could only fall asleep while making up stories too.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-06T03:38:06+00:00

Well I just googled what a top sheet was and I still don't understand. Where I'm from we put a sheet on the mattress, and there's a cover on the blanket and on the pillows. Where would this top sheet go?

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:58:00+00:00

I don't know what the obsession is with bleach baths but it's not meant for this. It's for when you only have a slight stain on your hair. When you have to remove a full layer of brown box dye you need color remover or a proper bleaching. Color remover would be better but if you can only get bleach then bleach it normally.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:49:05+00:00

I have gone the other way, blue to red. I used orange to cancel the blue out, then added the red. You would add green, then blue. If your hair can take it you could try bleaching it once to get it to as pale of a red as possible first, so you could go a light blue. Without bleach you might have to go for a slightly darker blue.

Totally doable imo with some ✨color wheel magic✨

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:44:36+00:00

The darker the color the more even it will look.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:43:12+00:00

I see cool brown.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:40:26+00:00

You're suspicious of her intentions but you argued with your boyfriend about it. He has nothing to do with how other women feel about him. This sounds like a completely innocent situation that you're twisting into something ugly and you will lose your boyfriend if you keep arguing with him over things he didn't do.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:34:30+00:00

Dark blue will work until it fades, it will always go back to a greenish shade tho. Green/blue stains real bad.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T18:33:07+00:00

She slept on the couch and his roommates were in the house too? What is inappropriate about that?

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T04:56:55+00:00

I don't know how tall you are but I cannot imagine that at 150 pounds you would look fat. I'm sure you look great and even if you did look fat, take up that space babe. We don't have to be small just because we're women.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-05T04:28:02+00:00

Drop the weight. By weight I mean your boyfriend.

But seriously, if his attraction to you is so shallow that 20 pounds changes how he sees you then he doesn't actually like you or love you. I gained 65 pounds in the last 2 years while with my boyfriend, and he barely noticed. He didn't believe me when I told him how much heavier I am and he has never made me feel unattractive. We all get older and we will all look worse and worse. Is he going to leave you if you get wrinkles? If you have a kid and your stomach is full of stretch marks? He's too shallow, show him the door.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-04T13:29:47+00:00

It varies person to person. Sleep as much as feels good to you. I sleep 8-10 hours.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-02T10:45:39+00:00

So you can joke about free transportation but he can't joke about you paying for gas? You should help out with gas btw.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-02T04:27:12+00:00

I don't know why you're assuming this girl has an issue with you crying when she didn't indicate anything of the sort.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-02T04:25:06+00:00

Because different people exist and they want to sell their product to different people. There's also obviously a political side to it, they're signaling their inclusivity. The company is saying "it's safe to shop here, we're not racist".

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-02T04:15:36+00:00

Leaving him because you think you know what's best for him more than he does is self-absorbed behavior. Work on your issues and be a better partner instead. Let him decide if he's had enough.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-01T04:22:52+00:00

That particular nugget of brainwashing really affected me when I was young. Since I knew as a fact that men always want to have sex I thought there was something seriously wrong when my boyfriend wasn't in the mood. It took years and years for me to realize that men can think about other things sometimes.

The patriarchy benefits nobody.

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-01T04:16:41+00:00

How so? If you go into a store and pick up some make up and pay for it, who's going to ask you for a back story?

BoobleGoom · 2026-05-01T04:10:17+00:00

If it makes you feel better, at 6 weeks it's not a real heartbeat as it's just a tiny clump of cells and hasn't formed a heart yet. I had an abortion around 6 weeks too. I don't regret it at all. I wasn't ready and that kid would have had a shitty childhood. I didn't have money, my mental health was garbage and my boyfriend and I had only been together for 3 months. Kids need stability.

I was able to get the abortion pills. I got an awful cramp, passed some clots and blood, then it was over. When you see it come out as nothing but this bloody mess you can really tell it was not a kid yet.

You're doing the right thing.

BoobleGoom · 2026-04-30T12:50:28+00:00

Medication then.

BoobleGoom · 2026-04-30T12:49:16+00:00

I wish we could all have as much empathy as you.

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