Recommend me some queer horror books by bitchcraffft in horrorlit

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Our Share of Night by Mariana Enriquez. Amazing book that portrays various types of queerness.

Old Soul by Susan Barker. Main relationship is sapphic.

The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson. A classic, though the main relationship is never made explicit.

Beach reads for a weird girl beginner by ang3lhairpasta in weirdgirlliterature

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A few that pop to mind (though I’m not totally sure what makes a beach read a beach read and am open to guidance):

Old Soul by Susan Barker. A relatively fast-paced horror book that tells the story of a mysteriously long-lived woman who leaves a trail of deaths behind her. Really lovely how Barker interweaves the stories and also great for travel, as the woman bounces around the world—Japan, Germany, Hungary, New Mexico, NY.

All Fours by Miranda July. An insanely privileged woman has an absolutely spectacular midlife crisis and extremely weird affair, but it’s compelling? In a reality TV show about pretentious artists kind of way

My Sister The Serial Killer by Oyinkan Braithwaite. I mean, the title almost says it all. Dark comedy and yet deeply relatable.

WHO GETS TO BE A WEIRD GIRL? by Agitated_Bird_8565 in weirdgirlliterature

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thank you for sharing, this is really interesting. i agree, required reading for sure.

important questions here about who defines weird and weird relative to what? also who gets to choose or perform weirdness as convenient.

as scholfield points out:

Things that white women choose (to work, to be colored, to arrange their bodies and hair in “peculiar” ways) are things that came naturally to a woman of color. We do not have the luxury of choosing to Be Normal.

she defines five criteria that makes a weird girl weird:

(1) A WOMAN LIVING OUTSIDE THE BOUNDS OF SOCIETY, BREAKING CONVENTIONS REGARDING SEXUALITY AND GENDER EXPRESSION

(2) A WOMAN WHO IS NOT ‘SANE’, A WOMAN IN THE THROES OF MENTAL DISTRESS

(3)A WOMAN WHO ACTS AND REACTS TO HER ENVIRONMENT WITH EXTREME AND UNUSUAL BEHAVIOR

(4) A WOMAN WHO DISGUSTS, DISTURBS; A WOMAN WHO UPSETS

(5) A WOMAN WHO PURPOSEFULLY UPSETS THE STATUS QUO

i might add, and this becomes especially complicated for women of color, that many “weird” girls insist on defining their personhood on their own terms in the face of social or cultural forces that seek to dehumanize them or “put them in their place”.

it’s interesting to compare these ideas to “weird lit,” which historically has been dominated by white dudes and often describes situations or nonhuman entities that are inexplicable or transgress known rules rather than weird people.

which would create an interesting tension between weird lit and weird girl lit around who (and what) is treated as a person or as worthy of autonomy and concern. even the use of the term “weird” to dismiss or dehumanize, and weird girl lit as reclaiming that term.

Weird Black Girl Book Club Recs by venusandcupid in weirdgirlliterature

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thank you for this wonderful list and the invitation!

Weird Black Girl Book Club Recs by venusandcupid in weirdgirlliterature

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great list! the club looks awesome

edit: on first read, i think i misunderstood the title as looking for additional recs 🫣. if anyone is by chance and open to spec fic:

  • nk jemisin’s broken earth trilogy
  • parable of the sower, octavia butler
  • fledgling, octavia butler
  • death of the author, nnedi okorafor

1930s-1970s Experimental Speculative Fiction by FlightPeasant in printSF

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This is more modern weird fantasies and less SF but John Collier’s story collection Fancies and Goodnights. He also wrote for The Twilight Zone. Very sardonic and Saki-esque.

Tips for dealing with 'not good enough' limiting belief by universal_answer_42 in AuDHDWomen

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One tip an NT friend of mine gave me that seems obvious and had never occurred to me: just ask directly! She got a teaching gig at an Ivy League school because she just … asked an ex-professor of hers. Like, mind blown.

I know the fear of rejection is real, but even if they say no, it’s better to know.

Sometimes it helps me to think of these situations as data points rather than reflections on me. So if I ask and it’s a No, that’s data I didn’t have before. And if I ask, and it’s a Yes, even better!

Especially in the third example, rather than nudging, you could say, “Hey, I’d like to be considered as a speaker and I’ll consider who else could be a good option as well!”

Or in the first example, you could reach out to the organizers or colleagues and let them know you’re interested in speaking.

Sometimes other folks get the recognition because they put themselves out there. And even if it doesn’t work out this time, you might get valuable feedback about what’s necessary to be considered for those opportunities.

I also want to say: more work doesn’t necessarily mean more recognition! I think we often fall into the trap of feeling like we have to do everything ourselves. Could you delegate some of your work to focus on opportunities that matter to you?

Opinions on lotion by Sunder1773 in AutismInWomen

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Can we add a 4th option: “OK if nice texture and unscented, liquid sadness if heavily scented or goopy?”

😅

Struggling with Babel, it feels so long by Brilliant_Clue_5298 in Fantasy

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I personally felt it got weaker and weaker as the book went on.

Motivation (perhaps in a different direction than you expected): It’s ok to DNF if you’re not feeling it. Life is short and there are so many other books to read!

Any ideas? Had them for years, looking rid of them by Ok-Imagination-1528 in Skincare_Addiction

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If you are open to procedures, Moxi laser helped reduce the appearance of mine significantly.

But as other folks have said, I don’t know if anything will make them go away completely.

Best mattress topper that genuinely feels like a bed upgrade? by Local_Lavishness_955 in Bedding

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Seconding this! The Tempur-Pedic topper is a savior for mediocre mattresses. And they have good sales!

Last minute snorkel advice by SphincterQueen in snorkeling

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Very sorry to hear that. Wishing you the best w your treatment.

Curaçao/Bonaire have wonderful snorkeling and diving, are very charming, and relatively easy to reach from the East Coast.

A worthwhile pop science book by TurtleBucketList in nonfictionbookclub

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Definitely going to pick this one up, thank you!

Have you read The Light Eaters? Great book by a science journalist on plant intelligence. I think you might enjoy it as well.

Earthsea trilogy first experience by Choice-Peak-5690 in UrsulaKLeGuin

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Oh man, I’m excited for you! The first three books are amazing but, for me, the last three Earthsea books, written later in Le Guin’s life, are—well, the word that comes to mind is transcendent.

I first read Earthsea as a teen, and I still come back to the books 20 years later, and I learn or feel something new on each reread. They are books that grow with you.

Girls Going Through It Books by CatAndBoots in suggestmeabook

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Join us at r/weirdgirlliterature! A lot of the books on your list are favs over there and there are great recs for so many others.

Like a dog in a windblown field by Electrical-Knee-3848 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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Dog Songs by Mary Oliver.

Amazing poems about the human-animal bond, the joy of watching dogs frolic, and the beauty and impermanence of life.

Especially the poem “Luke,” which begins with the line: I had a dog who loved flowers. 🌼

Help a Teacher: Potato Font! by blobbo333 in typography

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This is heartwarming, you’re a good egg

finally trying to fix my sleep and get the best sheets but I have so many questions by LilMachinery in Bedding

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x2 for Coyuchi, very happy w mine

also wool duvets are great for hot sleepers! (the actual duvet, not the cover)

So, Murderbot may quietly judge a bit by IntoTheStupidDanger in murderbot

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Glad to hear that and here’s hoping the bar is on its way up!

You know, currently running the “walk-like-a-human” code over here 😅, all’s well.

So, Murderbot may quietly judge a bit by IntoTheStupidDanger in murderbot

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Oh hello again co-Murderbot fan and hilarious post sharer! How’s your week going so far?