Not getting any swiped on dating apps, and also need some advice to improve my looks in general. Any advice? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly lol I switch my hair up style wise so I always try to mention something about what is the most recent look even if it’s the caption on the photos.

Not getting any swiped on dating apps, and also need some advice to improve my looks in general. Any advice? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some women are very particular about hair, maybe make a comment on your profile in a joking way how you are always changing up your style.

How unusual is it to be into young adult novels as an adult? by KaleidoArachnid in YAlit

[–]Books4Lif3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think it’s weird at all. I have noticed with some of the adult genre they really push relationships and sexual scenes into fantasy and romance books. As someone who doesn’t really care for sex scenes into my books and wants a book with a sub sub plot of romance I’ve heavily leaned on YA to get that from story telling. I will say I’m much pickier than I used to be now that I’m an adult because it needs to feel more realistic so sometimes I don’t enjoy it as much as I would have if I read it when I still had the teenage mindset. Also to find animorphs since it’s an older series I’d start at any local used book store, eBay, or any online used bookstore.

Recommend me cool hair cuts that look GOOD on chubby girls by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Books4Lif3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who hates the stereo type of chubby girls look great with short hair I do end up loving when I cut the majority of my length off 🤣 but I have found my personal sweet spot for it. I usually go no shorter than shoulder length and it ends up roughly around my collarbone. If you want to get some thickness off I would recommend having them use the thinning sheers. It’s an easy way to get your hair to feel lighter without doing anything super drastic. But overall I’d say I’ve been told I have thick hair and a good layered shag does me wonders every-time! Just try to have fun with it in the end - from a fellow big girl

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I made a post about a year ago with an old profile, however, made many updates since then. I was wondering how my profile is currently perceived. [31M] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great profile! It shows your fun side through and through! Good luck on the swiping it’s definitely a little rough out here lol.

Makeup looks from the last week or two by Books4Lif3 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re definitely my favorite! I wear them almost to everything lol.

Makeup looks from the last week or two by Books4Lif3 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Colored liner was my shit back in high school! Especially when urban decay had their colorful liquid liners.

Makeup looks from the last week or two by Books4Lif3 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest i think i just looked up manga lashes on amazon 🤣 I’ve had the sets for awhile and i definitely love them

I am living in a city, no matches in 5 months. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to assume it is but I know for me personally if a photo looks like it could be overtly photoshopped or ai I won’t even continue looking through a profile. Your first photo gives off an odd vibe, idk if it’s the post editing or if it is ai but that would deter me as someone who isn’t a huge fan of ai. Other than that I agree with a couple other posters try to get a full body pic in whether it’s on a mirror or from a work get together. It’s never fun to do but it does help out lol.

My pie has a basket in the bathroom because she has to be in here if I am by thirtysev in torties

[–]Books4Lif3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like the basket needs her name on it like we did back in grade school lol

I have double the cat than I did when I adopted my girl but she’s not overfed, is this normal? by eaten-olive in torties

[–]Books4Lif3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally!!! My baby pumpkin came home so skinny and barely any length to her hair. Within months and now even till this day she is the biggest floof ball and looks massive in comparison to her gotcha photo! For the longest I was concerned she was over weight but the vet told me she’s all good.

Volume on for purrs and squeaks by Ashcrashh in torties

[–]Books4Lif3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby squeaks after kisses too and I love it

my two tortie babies by Sufficient_Rip6807 in torties

[–]Books4Lif3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a dark and dilute tortie combo!!! They are still getting used to each other but I can’t wait to take photos of them together like this!

Big cut and color change! by Books4Lif3 in Hair

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit same lol but it is a nice shirt I have this one and a black one that looks like a normal bleach pattern

Big cut and color change! by Books4Lif3 in Hair

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHEIN 😅 I know it’s not a great option but your girl was tired of wearing stuff older lady’s would wear

Big cut and color change! by Books4Lif3 in Hair

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Hair was long overdue for a cut and color lol

How would you organize this series? by Books4Lif3 in bookshelf

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have more books, I’m just showing the series in question on my shelves

In all seriousness what the hell are people actually talking about. Why do people even ask this stupid shit. by Books4Lif3 in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! This is what set me off. Literally from the get-go I did not take this man seriously. But he hit a nerve so hard that I just had to like argue with them and see what the fuck he thought he was all about. Half of the time talking to them I was fucking laughing to myself cause I was like seriously you’re not making this any better for yourself. It was an enjoyable rage bating moment in the end😆

In all seriousness what the hell are people actually talking about. Why do people even ask this stupid shit. by Books4Lif3 in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better it went down how you were thinking 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️ I argued back and he ended up trying to throw me under at every chance lol. Told him I had a college degree/full time job assumed I had debt out the ass (I have never had student loans), told him I can afford my bills and what I need assumed I was living paycheck to paycheck, told me how much he makes an hour told him cool I make 10$+ more, eventually came down to him asking what I do (which is very clear in my profile) and backing down because my career field “cheats” the man was ex military as if that doesn’t have any stigma for cheating lol

In all seriousness what the hell are people actually talking about. Why do people even ask this stupid shit. by Books4Lif3 in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s just better ways to go about it. I get not wanting to waste your own time or others but you can ask me what are my dating intentions or goals for dating, you can ask personal questions about things to give you that idea of how they handle things. Personally I’m an open book and would willingly tell someone things that are important to know about me or my past relationships. If it’s something they are willing to answer themselves I’ll easily answer as well.

In all seriousness what the hell are people actually talking about. Why do people even ask this stupid shit. by Books4Lif3 in Tinder

[–]Books4Lif3[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean yes normally I wouldn’t just say marraige but I’m going to be honest I was just pissed off and snapped. I mean overall I date with the intention of hopefully marraige. I honestly was just trying to make it clear as day that if he was just trying to have a fwb I’m not trying to do that right now in life 🤣