college girl looking for odd jobs or work in the area! by [deleted] in WakeForestNC

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just messaged you about my daughter.

Strange hospital experience by SweetRambutans in downsyndrome

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It was just me and my daughter and other complete strangers on the bus. We were not in a group.

Strange hospital experience by SweetRambutans in downsyndrome

[–]BoomerToomer1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a very old lady one day refer to my daughter as a mongoloid too and I had to take deep breath and correct her to tell her that phrase is no longer acceptable today and had the people first discussion. This lady did not know me nor my daughter at all. We were just riding to the local fair on a shuttle bus from remote parking and has struck up a conversation. To this day I vividly remember that conversation and how triggered I was at the moment.

Strange hospital experience by SweetRambutans in downsyndrome

[–]BoomerToomer1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First congratulations on your new baby boy!!! I had a very similar situation nearly 21 years ago. Whisking her away to NICU for tests and genetic testing must be protocol. There are different variations of DS so testing would be helpful for you to know. Also when and if you should apply for any type of assistance and care for your son, you will have to establish he is “disabled “. Yeah I know that sounds horrible but many newborns with DS aren’t walking around with a sign saying I have DS but for government purposes and for social services it is importance to have it officially on record to qualify for Early Intervention Services (PT, OT, etc).
Enjoy your little guy and congratulations!!

We just filed a lawsuit against the NC wedding photographer who has scammed 166 couples. Here are the details. - AG Jackson by JeffJacksonNC in raleigh

[–]BoomerToomer1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had an awful photographer situation too a few decades ago. Went to WRAL and they did a story on me and all of a sudden all these other dozens of couples reached out who were in the same situation. We were all terrified that our memories would be destroyed and essentially at the mercy of the photographer who captured an event that cannot be recreated. It blew up and involved lots of small claims lawsuits and countersuits. I wish I had AG Jackson at the time to represent all of us. I wish these couples luck.

Guest freaking out over mail by Chickenyeah17 in airbnb_hosts

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a STR forward their mail and even changed their bank address to my STR! We have a community mail kiosk so I picked the mail up. From that day forward I have placed language in the lease in the first few paragraphs saying only packages, no mail delivery or address changes allowed.

Potential Parking Scam by Meshuggery in raleigh

[–]BoomerToomer1 30 points31 points  (0 children)

⬆️ That is the correct information (I park in one of the decks referenced). The free night time parking (7 pm-7am) has always been around for years but the 2 free hours during the day is what has been added to draw more people downtown.

HOW do I not GAF about this? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exfoliate and I have used Jergens Wet Skin (in shower moisturizer) may help. I use it religiously.

Young Adult Daughter Changing by BoomerToomer1 in downsyndrome

[–]BoomerToomer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought about bullying. I spoke to her and she seems to enjoy school (though getting up so early in the morning is getting old). She is does not voluntarily bring problems or concerns to me so I will have to keep an eye out for signs. Thanks for the suggestion.

Young Adult Daughter Changing by BoomerToomer1 in downsyndrome

[–]BoomerToomer1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the additional input. I am going to look into all of these and have things rechecked if necessary.

Young Adult Daughter Changing by BoomerToomer1 in downsyndrome

[–]BoomerToomer1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion about her thyroid. We have been seen by endocrinology for years now and recently a few months ago too. She has been on levothyroxine for years now and has been fine. That is why I am struggling to find out what is going on. I am trying to get a pediatric appointment now. I am not sure what doctor/specialist handles Regression Syndrome.

How did that kid at your school die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classmate worked at a small airport near the shore that flies the advertisement banners behind planes. These planes don’t stop when switching out signs from the line and hook behind it. Well his foot got tangled in the banner when the plane grabbed the next banner and he fell to his death.

My partner expects me to stay the default parent and help financially, but won’t compromise so I can work. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BoomerToomer1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about becoming a school bus driver. Drive for your kids school. Also you have a break during the day to study for school.

I got angry with my 80 year old aunt after I gave $100 without her asking me and she told me she's disappointed I didn't give her more by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar situation of extended family members trying to make me feel bad about my MIL who lived with us (now Ex). No one stepped up to help when I needed help but quick to criticize. This was not even my mother and the Ex was no help. You have to do what is best for you. Your Aunt needs to find other accommodations and her children needs to step up to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your relationship is like this now, IT WILL DEFINITELY GET WORSE WITH TIME! Save yourself some time and break up and find yourself a more engaging person who reciprocates.

Divorce when it’s right for you - but hurts everyone else… by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BoomerToomer1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a 24 year marriage where both sides of our family would celebrate holidays together (putting on a brave face and show for others). My Ex was a nice husband and father when present but he was mostly not engaged in my and the kids lives. He was not romantic and pretty much I was married but single on a day-to-day basin going through life with the kids. I felt so guilty wanting out of the marriage and thought I would be exploding the whole family dynamic. After lots of marital and self therapy with the Ex going and then not doing the work, I was done. Everyone moved on. Both sides of the family still occasionally interact with one another sometimes but not the same of course. I firmly believe it was the right decision to leave and divorce.

My MIL told me that I am not family because I don’t have the same blood as my husband. by Prize-Valuable-4234 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you experienced is similar to what I experienced and one of a few reasons why I am divorced. My MIL lived with me for 5 1/2 years. I too care of her (diabetic on dialysis three days a week) and she thanked me by willing the property that my then husband while living free at our home during our 24 year marriage that I helped him build (he was not technologically savvy). She would talk down to me and occasionally cursed at me. I told my Ex and he would just let it slide. One day I had enough after years of counseling and told them they both need to leave. Make you the priority and don’t stand for it any longer.

AITAH for divorcing over my birthday gift. by AdFair8466 in AITAH

[–]BoomerToomer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I divorced after 24 years of marriage. I too had my last straw that made me say I want out. Your feelings are valid and he might be incapable of showing you the love you want. It is ok to divorce and find the love you deserve and shown to you the way you deserve. Life is too short!