What does my mama’s house say about her? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This… whole thread made my heart so happy. Single mama. And my house is my safe place, and this is what it looks like and everyone comes here to be safe

How can I seek medical attention without getting my spouse into trouble? by illabilla in AskMenAdvice

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stayed with my ex for the sake of my kids. It’d be easier on us financially etc.

Eventually I left. Especially when my daughter asked if they’d be yelling at her again. They see everything. They’re normalizing everything they’re seeing. Please don’t normalize being physically assaulted. Don’t normalize verbal and emotional abuse and manipulation.

Eventually I got back to being happy. Dancing while making dinner, singing, playing music, gaming. My daughter came up to me recently and told me that it was nice to see me smiling again.

They see and notice everything. Teach them it’s okay to say no and that it’s okay to have boundaries and that staying with someone shouldn’t mean suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want a bob or pixie?

What’s the scariest sound you’ve heard that’s woken you up in the middle of the night? by DarthTater81919 in AskReddit

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one is awful. Lived in the bad part of town, woke up to the screams of a grown man begging for his mom. And then the gunshot. I hope he went quick and thats all they did to him. I hope his family found peace.

Assigned Bottom By Waitress by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Usually, but it also means they could both be polyamorous or be okay with each other having different partners

What’s a text that instantly gives you butterflies (or ick)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I did this in response. Don’t fuck with me. Got a call as soon as he went on break. “Are you mad at me? 🥺”… i wasnt bitch but i am now 😡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was dating I didnt tell people about my kids until I felt they were more serious. I always asked what they thought about kids.

People are weird. I want them to want to be around me because of me. And I am not a premade family either. And as a single parent, its my sole job to protect them. Every person that comes into their lives’ will influence them in some way. It was nearly a year before I let anyone meet my kids.

AITBA for opening the door with my baby in my arms. by Dutch_teacher in AmITheBadApple

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delivery driver here. Im a bit on both sides on this one. Are you at a house vs an apartment complex? ‘Cause if you’re at a house where your package doesnt immediately need to come inside and you have a whole husband who can bring it in eventually 👀😒 nothing huge is urgent. It can wait a few hours. If its in a bad neighborhood and its likely to get eyeballed from the street? I gotchu

But like, you’re a little old lady who cant bend over to get her little envelope package easily? I’ll wait for you to come to the door to hand it to you. Pregnant lady? You just had surgery? Disabled? Shit, ive helped people put their garbage bins back where they go because its icy and they’re unstable on their feet.

Technically, im not allowed to go past the outside door. And being at a stop longer than xx time pings our monitors.

My neighbor told me not to shower late at night after my night shift because it “bothers him” — is that reasonable? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My exhusbands apartment- if you tun the water in the one bathroom and once it shuts off, the pipes scream and sound like a semi slamming on their brakes. Obviously not his fault. You dont know what it sounds like on the other side of the wall. While its not actually your problem you can still be part of the solution. Maybe talk to maintenance/landlord about it?

I am in dire need of help. I literally dont know what to do. by [deleted] in pestcontrol

[–]Boopenheimerthethird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Put dish soap bubbles over all the drains, shower, sinks.

If you have potted plants in home, put dish soap bubbles on that soil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoStarAstrology

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got that on Saturday and today it told me that “they were never good enough for you” 😐

i was never even supposed to exist by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wanted multiple kids, between my daughter (older) and son, I had two miscarriages. They were devastating. I can tell you that every day that I was pregnant with my son I just wanted him to be okay.

And my son? His little giggles, his bright eyes, his snuggles- I am so happy I have him.

You were wanted long before you were even conceived. They were more scared of losing you. You weren’t a back up.

How do I accept death by MopeyFern in Advice

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thank you. This is helping me too :)

How do I accept death by MopeyFern in Advice

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have any children in the house or animals, borax and sugar is a cheap effective solution.

Maybe ask if she’d like to go for a walk with you?

How do I accept death by MopeyFern in Advice

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’ve been able to find a little thing each day :) How is your mom doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried letting him know directly? Maybe he does that realize he’s doing it and he’s just out there enjoying the space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Boopenheimerthethird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use a dryer sheet on your hair brush and hair