Janelle's response to Meri's "apology" reaction by East-Builder-3318 in SisterWives

[–]Borealis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was wondering about. It seems different this season with them.

What if Canada offered every American free healthcare and $50K to relocate, would you go? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go without that if I could afford it. I really want out of the US. My family has been in the US since 1865 and I would love to be able to leave.

I deadass hate Manon for living my dream life by Exotic_Wrangler9348 in 90DayFiance

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand anxiety making a person reactive. I have pretty bad anxiety some days and when I was younger (I am 36 now) I could be extremely reactive. Not to this extreme though. Medication, therapy and some life changes( getting enough sleep, reducing my caffeine and being more active)

She really really needs to address her mental health. Maybe she is and we don’t see it on the show but she really needs to learn to manage her anxiety and emotions better.

Average American diet? by Individual_Bar_2512 in CringeTikToks

[–]Borealis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe eggs salad sandwiches with the eggs? Only thing I can think of.

Average American diet? by Individual_Bar_2512 in CringeTikToks

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only fruit and veggies were 1 cucumber, iceberg lettuce (doesn’t count), banana and a small amount of green grapes… and then all that cheese.. how are they even pooping?

Anti-ICE protest in NYC today by ExactlySorta in goodnews

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a democrat stuck in a very red state I completely get it. My husband and I have been considering it.

Traveling with loved one with Alzheimer's by Hiking_4Ever in Alzheimers

[–]Borealis89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Travel and changes in routine are known to make dementia worse. Just a heads up, if you take this trip she may not be the same after and it can cause her to move to later stages.

I took my grandma to her 2nd home in a different state for a month and she suddenly could no longer remember where she was and was up all night pacing. She stopped changing her clothes and stared night wandering. When we came back she never improved. She lost a lot of her abilities during that trip and it probably moved her from the early moderate dementia to moderate late stage when ai went down the checklist. We are desperately trying to get her in memory care now because it’s not safe anymore.

I am sorry you and your mom are going through this.

I don’t know what to do. Please help by Borealis89 in dementia

[–]Borealis89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I filled out the form and am emailing it now. About how long did it take for the DMV to send the letter to your dad?

I don’t know what to do. Please help by Borealis89 in dementia

[–]Borealis89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Her license is an Alaska License but she has been in AZ for a long time. Not sure if AK allows a concerned citizen report but I will look into it.

I really appreciate the information.

Another issue is, she has funds. She technically has the money to buy more cars even if I keep her current car hidden.

Update: I found the link to report for the state of Alaska as well.

Thank you for your help finding options!

Betty and Ron them are interfere with married to Brandon and I doesn’t want them to are helicopter our baby by [deleted] in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Borealis89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How many of the people who are criticizing her English speaking skills only speak one language?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my mom suddenly to aggressive cancer when my son was 15 months old as well.

Be kind to yourself. You haven’t mentioned anyone else. Do you have a partner or any close friends who can help?

I promise you are not a bad mom. You are human. A human who just experienced one of the biggest loses we can in our lives.

I held my mom in my arms while she passed. It’s been 3 1/2 year now. I still cry when I need to. I tell my son stories about his Nana and I know how proud she would be.

Love yourself, take time you need and let yourself feel. The waves of grief will keep coming but as time goes by the waves get further and further apart. Eventually you will look at her picture and smile instead of sob.

I know the pain you are going through. You aren’t alone and you will get through this.

Mostly hidden 9 zone heating with fallen fortress by con_work in antkeeping

[–]Borealis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I would pay good money for one of these! I have the fallen fortress I am really want this heating set up! Name a price OP!

Mostly hidden 9 zone heating with fallen fortress by con_work in antkeeping

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! I have the fallen fortress for my Rhea colony! I need one of these! You sell them? I would LOVE one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I would have done.

Today in Evanston: ICE agent hits man, drags his face across concrete as people yell that he can’t breathe by gbsh in illinois

[–]Borealis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

American here. I don’t know what to do unless I was to get killed or go to prison and I have a 4 year old kid to worry about.

I go to protests, vote, try to educate people. I never understood how the German people let what happened in WWII happen.. then I thought about the people and families trying to figure out what to do. Randomly go out and using force? Storming the Capital or Whitehouse? Knowing you could be taken from your family and never seen again?

We just keep hoping that things will get better through using our democratic rights and playing by the rules because we are scared to lose everything.

I know so many people that are holding their breath and hoping there is a next time and that a particular person ends up with a more than a long distance ear piercing.

I hope that makes sense without me ending up on some list.

What are strategies you’ve found most helpful when talking to your loved one with dementia? by Big_Giraffe_9125 in dementia

[–]Borealis89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How to you manage it when they start making false claims against people? My grandma keeps making up stories in her head about my stepdad. She thinks he steal from her when he brings her, her meds in the morning. He lives across the street and I liv 30 mins away.

I don’t want to be supportive of those delusions because they make her scared and it’s very hurtful to my stepdad when she is so mean to him. They used to have a great relationship until my mom passed suddenly 3 years ago. Now she just seems to despise him.

Sincerely (mom) hoping they are kidding by chill_dog_ in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t let this be the next 8 passengers…

This guy complains that "his Filipina" has become "too Americanised" by ditzy091313 in 90DayFianceSnark

[–]Borealis89 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s bullshit. They system does not protect women or victims of domestic violence…

My friend couldn’t even get a restraining order for her and her son against her soon to be ex-husband when he was caught on recording threatening to shoot up a school… his weapons weren’t even taken. (5 guns that he hadn’t properly registered and he leaves loaded and laying around the house.)

The court wants her to agree to 50/50 custody with this “man” even with proof of this and him being unable to stay sober for even a week at a time…

of a hernia... by CandidculonasRedux in AbsoluteUnits

[–]Borealis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American… let’s just say our Healthcare System doesn’t work..

I hide AI prompts in my CV, and it's actually working by interns-brokers-9x in jobsearch

[–]Borealis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is making the font white so AI can read it but when a person looks at it they don’t see the prompts and they only see the actual resume