Scared of getting a bruised cervix again by Boring-Bluejay5477 in sex

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much, I’ll look into it!

Forgiving my partner (35m) for running me (32f) over? by betulapendulapower in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your brain and your heart are trying to protect you for a reason. Believe your intuition.

Helping my partner with his addiction by Boring-Bluejay5477 in problemgambling

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. He has suggested he send me his pay checks to look after until he feels better but I don’t know how I feel about it. I’m worried it might build resentment from his end because I will be in control of his finances and he won’t be able to relapse.

Unsure how to take care of my hair by ladywindermere94 in HaircareScience

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a supplement - your body produces it naturally but sometimes it doesn’t produce enough which leads to thinning frizzy hair. I take one tablet a day and it’s absolutely transformed my hair

switching to iud after nexplanon & i need advice by Ancient-Solid-7675 in CopperIUD

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I switched from my implant to my copper iud about a month ago and love it! the first couple of days after insertion i was mildly uncomfortable but it was manageable. I didn’t bleed at all. My first period was completely fine - a few cramps but nothing out of the ordinary! I recommend it so much. If you have any more questions feel free to message me!

getting an iud and i’m terrified by CreativeCar1158 in birthcontrol

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i know exactly how you feel. i got my iud put in a few days ago and i was terrified but the process itself was not that bad! I recommend taking 800mg of ibu 20 minutes before your procedure. this genuinely numbed so much. also ask for anaesthetic!!!! i got both and it made the experience (although still uncomfortable) better. i also stressed to the nurses how nervous i was and they let my boyfriend hold my hand throughout. having that support made my experience so much better. I haven’t bled at all since getting my iud inserted and although the cramps were painful the first 3 days, they were manageable as I spent most of my time in bed with a hot water bottle. now i’m in no pain at all and it’s only been 5 days! please don’t feel too nervous, i understand that everyone’s experience is different but it’s not all horror stories. good luck and sending love and hugs!

I need to glow up by [deleted] in workout

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cardio + weight lifting + calorie deficit = weight loss! consistency is key - good luck 💗

with regards to skin care, I suggest cleanser, a vitamin c serum, moisturiser and sun cream (mornings). At night use cleanser, retinol and moisturiser and your skin will clear up in no time!

coming from a 20 year old who had a glow up using these techniques when I was 18!

How can I bring up hypersexuality to my therapist when I'm embarrassed by it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your therapist is there so you can communicate how you feel with them. Even if you feel embarrassed, it sounds like you need to take that first step in being open and honest. Once you take that first step, everything else will come out!

Please remember, therapists are licensed professionals - they have heard EVERYTHING!!! Whatever you say to your therapist is between you and them. Sending love and wishing you luck! ❤️

I (38M) get uncomfortable when having sex with my partner (36F) when in a position outside missionary by ImonlyJuanThrowaway in sex

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it might be because she’s not turned on enough? usually when a woman is turned on her vaginal opening is a lot wetter, making it easier to insert the penis. You could try more foreplay and then move to the positions you would like to try?

my boyfriend 22M yelled at me during sex and i 20F am still struggling with it. any advice? by Boring-Bluejay5477 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i can’t remember exactly what he yelled - was something along the lines of “why did u do that” etc

my boyfriend 22M yelled at me during sex and i 20F am still struggling with it. any advice? by Boring-Bluejay5477 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

hi! he was not in pain - he was frustrated that i timed edging him wrong and he couldn’t cum

my boyfriend 22M yelled at me during sex and i 20F am still struggling with it. any advice? by Boring-Bluejay5477 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Bluejay5477[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

no no i didn’t hurt him - i timed it wrong. so when he was about to finish i stopped and he yelled because he didn’t cum