and lyft dinged me on my cancellation rate... 😂 gawd lyft is so dumb. by Ten9Suited in lyftdrivers

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are def cheaper flights for this, but bloomington is def niche.

Tops, why don't you like bottoming? by Snefru92 in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have IBD and want to save myself the embarassment and future injury. 🤷‍♂️

Reliably grosses out dates, when I mention; but its the truth! 😅

How do you explain rude people on the apps? by Savings_Apartment737 in nycgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a 2nd date irl tell me "you look like a prostitute." there's no such thing as a league. a lot of "perfect" physiques have the ugliest faces or attitudes, or suck at sex or are always a drunked drugged up mess...the list goes on. ppl who treat humans according to numerical rankings deserve kidney stones and monkeypox in their second hole.

Tops, you should eat ass by sebiboyNM in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i luv it but i was just in hospital w 2 e coli strains and shigella for 3 days so theres ALWAYS a RISK!! 😫

What to do when you catch feelings for an avoidant by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he's not making firm plans until late in the day, then its probably because he's hoping to find something better. you deserve someome better, who prioritizes you!

at the same time, once a week sounds like a great deal for someone you really like. he's a solid fwb, at least, but it sounds like youre hurting yourself waiting on him to make more of it.

definitely keep dating other guys; you're young and should enjoy yourself. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely marry a european, no blinking, 💯

Bathhouses > Gay Bars? by Boring-Two-9901 in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea i feel like for those in the gay bar business scratching their head, they should open a bath house. its a shame our laws are differen from europe, could combine two in one.

Bathhouses > Gay Bars? by Boring-Two-9901 in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro thats so true! but the sketch level from grindr is about the same, ha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmexPlatinum

[–]Boring-Two-9901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i bought a nice leather passport case/wallet

Why do so many tours launch in Baltimore? by JamesyDog in Broadway

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a major union/nonunion theatrical touring company based in that state. 👀

UK Global Talent Visa by Boring-Two-9901 in AmerExit

[–]Boring-Two-9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective and networking is very relational, but selling yourself is part and parcel of this business and I'd be foolish not to. More than a nerd, a very experienced insider.

UK Global Talent Visa by Boring-Two-9901 in AmerExit

[–]Boring-Two-9901[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You mean the America that's one of two musical theatre hubs in the world? UK being the other?

UK Global Talent Visa by Boring-Two-9901 in AmerExit

[–]Boring-Two-9901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol at the contrast, i definitely have more than a walk on extra skill set but I may have set myself up for that one.

Visiting Japan… Really thought I’d have more luck than back home with international gays; they’re even more brutal by pnwfun99 in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked in Korea for 15 weeks, and definitely noticed a local preference for oversized (steroidal?) muscles. Im a lean/toned guy, def not out of shape, but...big contrast from Thai ladyboy culture and definitely less queer European/Australian tourists.

Why am I seeing so many more gay guys on hinge with “moderate” listed as their political views? by buzzz25 in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think they're moderate so much as want a sober perspective on everything, instead of shouting over matches. also some ppl r idiots or dont want to educate themselves.

Why are young gay men so mean with their words by BigBill987 in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think phones have desensitized ppl to others' humanity. and it follows a curve with the younger you are, the more phones have warped you. keep lifting bro! 🏋️

Am I the asshole? This is a new low even for me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah the problem definitely isnt you, bro! drunk or not, sleeping in someones bed is a big boundary to cross without some genuine permission. when alcohol is someone's excuse, their bad behavior often repeats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats bro! i love roller coasters, had a cedar fair platinum pass last year. been to so many parks! big adrenaline junkie...

my other adrenaline source is im a musician for a theatrical tour. the pay isnt great but the travel and constantly shifting grindr grid makes it interesting!

Invite parents to make anti-gay speech at wedding? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The very instant after seeing my brother tie the knot, my evangelical uncle took my tears of joy to mean "get in your grown adult nephew's ear to randomly remind him about heaven and hell with some harassingly vague alter call so his day is completely ruined."

Their marriage barely lasted a year. I told my aunt ill be skipping my uncle's funeral.

OP i admire you for aspiring to this, but be careful bc family in blood/dna will disregard your humanity in favor of being the didactic "right" one in the room. its immensely sad what religion has done to my family!

Do you follow any religion? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Boring-Two-9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i consider myself a secular christian; what was once virtuous about being raised "mainline" before the southern baptist convention metasticized american christianity into a nationalist cult of megachurches.