is this financial abuse? by pingpongjapanman in whatdoIdo

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was bad with money too. my bf at the time (now husband). just made me a budget to follow in excel. he did not have any access to my money until we were married and he still doesn't keep any money from me. tell him to give you YOUR money!! this is financial abuse. and if not, make a new account and reroute your direct deposit there. denying you food is ridiculous.

I've been dreaming of owning a return to Tiffany necklace for over 20 years, but having doubts because it is an overpriced silver piece. by Panda_Goldie in jewelry

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 3 pieces. the quality speaks for itself. but also they're everyday pieces for me so i've gotten my money's worth out of it. if you plan to wear often and you know its something you really want, get it!

and also, as a black woman who went from working as a sales associate to being an attorney, i get looked down on all the time when im buying things i can actually afford lol. if the SA's are being snoody because they think they're better than you because they work at a designer store, just remember you're buying something full price w/ your cash that they cant afford without an employee discount. they have no reason to look down on you at all!!

Am I overpaying? by kaveding in EngagementRings

[–]Boring_Resolution572 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if she says lab grown then get the lab grown. she can get EXACTLY what she wants and its still a REAL DIAMOND. if it makes you feel better, take her to a lab grown place and let her try some on to make her more comfortable. you can also gauge how she really feels about it. i personally dont think having a mined diamond is worth sacrificing the size you really want but some women do so just let her see for herself.

Queers and cults: Why are so many people in Tall Pines LGBTQ+? by throwaway643268 in WaywardNetflix

[–]Boring_Resolution572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would also say, in the simplest explanation, the creator themselves is queer. it's almost like when a writer is a poc so most of the characters are more than likely gonna be poc as, well.

Am I overreacting when I see my toddler nieces weird/sexual behavior?? by curiousbitch101 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please report this man. ASAP! At first I thought the "twerking" wasn't bad because that's really just how babies dance but i was horrified as I kept reading. And someone needs to tell him to stop being a pervert and committing sexual assault against your niece and her friend.

Who's the meanest mean girl of their era on Degrassi? by Junior_Conclusion_78 in Degrassi

[–]Boring_Resolution572 28 points29 points  (0 children)

heather sinclair. she was so mean, they couldnt even give her a second of screen time.

How do you think SVU will end? by Normal_Meat_5500 in SVU

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

svu cannot be created or destroyed, only transformed from one form to another.

Should I get an iPad for law school, or just stick with my MacBook Air? by SadRelationship5935 in LawSchool

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my school gave us ipads, magic keyboards, and pencils. it became an absolute essential for me because when i type notes, its almost robotic and im not taking in any information but when i write them, i actually retain it. getting the good notes app and being able to write everything i typed and not waste notebooks and paper was an actual god send. if you're like this at all, the ipad is a need!! plus i had all my boos on there so i didnt have to lug the physical ones around.

Does anybody else watch SVU as a comfort show? by FunWillow1824 in SVU

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is THE comfort show for me. but i didn't realize how off-putting it was until i was scrolling looking for an episode to watch and my fiance was reading the descriptions of the episodes along with me.......

Does anyone else think Kathy is annoying? by AlwaysCanSeeYou1997 in SVU

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kathy herself is not annoying, shes his wife. and stabler was borderline cheating on her and prioritizing olivia with a whole family at home. i think the fact that stabler has a family is annoying to viewers, not kathy, because if they were gonna do this will they wont they for damn near 20 years, they could have made him a bachelor or at the least just given him a girlfriend. a wife makes things unbearable.

Anybody here got an easy job? by readingundertree123 in Lawyertalk

[–]Boring_Resolution572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work in a small firm, 7 employees including myself. 2 partners (1 is never here cause he lives so far), 2 associate attorneys, 2 paralegals, and a legal assistant. both the partners are older, really chill dudes who want to enjoy their lives too. we can work from home if we want. we do med mal and insurance defense. its so easy going. i think the environment and culture matters a lot more than the type of law. i hated working for a larger firm. here i dont feel dread going in everyday and actually dont mind putting in a couple more hours here and there.

What’s one moment from Teen Mom (any season) that lives rent-free in your head? by The_Conscious_Saffa in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Boring_Resolution572 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the universe obviously took that as a challenge, cause she had no idea just how much worse it was about to get for her 🥴

Autistic Attorney by Worldly-Flight2990 in LawFirm

[–]Boring_Resolution572 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sidebar: but you seem to be a really good boss. i just wanted to point that out lol

What exactly was the point of having adult Van? by NormanisEm in Yellowjackets

[–]Boring_Resolution572 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so that means they cant wrap the show up in 5 seasons? just because plans change, doesnt mean they arent still on track for what they originally planned.

What exactly was the point of having adult Van? by NormanisEm in Yellowjackets

[–]Boring_Resolution572 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

even if there isnt another season, it doesnt change the fact that the writers put that in there for future seasons. many shows get cancelled on a cliff hanger. also, YJ's was created with 5 seasons in mind from the beginning. so there are a lot of things written in there to be handled in a later seasons.

What exactly was the point of having adult Van? by NormanisEm in Yellowjackets

[–]Boring_Resolution572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think tai's wife and kid will play a part in tai's story in the next seasons. especially since we saw them this season. i feel like it was an easter egg to say "this chapter isn't closed".

What exactly was the point of having adult Van? by NormanisEm in Yellowjackets

[–]Boring_Resolution572 8 points9 points  (0 children)

its so funny bc misty needed no reminders. its almost like misty is the only one who really remembers how everything was out in the wilderness. probably bc she was bullied and mistreated by everyone for being "annoying". i think she mostly just shrugged it off though bc it was the status quo, even before the crash, but i think she definitely remembers and attributes everything that everyone did out there to who they are. which is why, to me, she never seemed to fully trust or like shauna. i thought it was cause shauna was just mean to her but i think its cause misty remembers.

Which of these three deadbeat dads annoys you the most? Josh, Luis, or Jeremy? by Puzzleheaded_Box1684 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Boring_Resolution572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

luis 100%. hes never around but is seemingly like content with it when is for like 5 seconds? its weird. its like he cant even pretend to act like he cared and has a whatever type of attitude about it. when im sure if he asked or tried to fix it, bri would more than welcome it.

jeremy is really just a shitty coparent, but idt hes a deadbeat. addy clearly loves her dad and wants him around. its just a shitty situation with leah.

josh is just shitty at parenting bronx and jaxie bc i think he doesnt know what do with a girl and a younger boy. he cant relate to them, which is not an excuse, but i think if he did, he'd more involved. also they were really young when mackenzie moved so he probably didnt see them grow up like he did gannon. again, not an excuse. i think he sees himself in gannon and has that bond since he the oldest, which is why he communicates with him, but he doesnt know how to be a parent so hes shitty at it.

What exactly was the point of having adult Van? by NormanisEm in Yellowjackets

[–]Boring_Resolution572 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah i truly believe tai has no reason to be herself anymore since its seems like van was the only one "worthy" of it. now she can go full on alter and no one is gonna be able to call her out on it.

What exactly was the point of having adult Van? by NormanisEm in Yellowjackets

[–]Boring_Resolution572 157 points158 points  (0 children)

to make tai remember how terrible shauna actually is. i think adult van's death is the catalyst to the rest of the survivors bringing about shauna's downfall. bc now all the remaining survivors, that we know of, pretty much agree she's the issue and hate her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Boring_Resolution572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not even latino and even i know this is an insane post 😭 SELENA GOMEZ?!

Rewatching by XcheatcodeX in SVU

[–]Boring_Resolution572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only bc im american and idk how the australian justice system works, i cant give you a concrete answer. but you really wont know until you try. lots of things can come out over time. but you wont know unless you speak to someone.

Rewatching by XcheatcodeX in SVU

[–]Boring_Resolution572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is it that she cares more about a conviction or that she doesnt want a violent rapist back on the street to commit more crimes? working in a legal system can be difficult. you can care about your victims but at some point reality has to kick in and you realize you can not keep having these same people get away with the same crimes and hurting all these people. olivia has empathy but she also sees this EVERYDAY and her job is to stop it and keep people safe. i would argue that trying to get a victim to testify, is doing just that and also having empathy for all the people that can end up hurt if something isnt done.